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in cheerleading im finding it really hard to do my jumps. My technique is great, my toes are pointed i land together...etc. I'm also very flexible, but whenever i do my jumps i find it hard to get any height. are there any tips on how to get my legs up higher? (link)
keep your head straight like your looking forward but look up
(i hope you understand this)

hope this helped!!

samXoXsam


BRITNEY SPEARS !!.....i know its a boy but whats the name!?? i rate 5 for everyone (link)
Preston Michael


Okay, I'm 13 and i'm 5'0 (yeah im small!) and i weigh about, lets see 60-70 pounds. And I'm very concerned about it. Do you think I'm TERRIBALLY under-weight, or just little low?

And also, I HATE milk, so I dont drink that.
I eat alot of meat.. probally 3 times a week.
I eat ALOT of junk foods... i'd suspect to be fat by now.
I drink alot of soda, if that helps. And water also.

Last time I had a check-up, I was 12, and I weighed about 58 pounds.
And everyone is jellous for some reason that I'm that weight.

So, can I have your advice on how to gain about 10 pounds? I'm really into your advice, I'll read it thougly, completly untill im 100% okay with it and rate it what it deserves!

Please help :)

xOx Laura (link)
well i dont think theres really ne thing you can do b/c you have a really fast matablism--idk how to spell that haha---ne way--i would say drink milk b/c if makes you gain weight even if you really dont like it you should drink it...you wont be skinny your whole life soo like dont try to gain weight cuz when you get older you might be fat as a resoult of all the food you eat now

sry this want very good but i tried
hope it helped



what are some good ways for a thirteen year old to get money.

dont bother saying do chores around the house.my moms a bitch about that, it's like signing a deal with the devil (link)
baby sitting...thats about all i can say



I've known this boy for about a year now and right when I met him I liked him a lot. I've gone out with him 3 times. I ALWAYS think about him. It's so hard not to. And if i hear that he likes another girl a little i cry. He says he likes me but I just heard about the other girl thing. Anyways, I havent SEEN him for 4 months straight. I feel really depressed if i dont talk to him for a long time. If I think about him my heart starts to like pound and when he comes online I get a really cold sweat. Do I love him or what? it feels like I do so much and if he died OMG id probably cry my eyes out for 3 weeks straight. SO do you think I'm obsesed or I love him?? :( (link)
i dont think your in love and your not obsessed you just really care about him and really like him alot maybe if he knew that you and him could go out again...you should get someone to tell him you really care and like him alot or you can just tell him urself

hope this helped



does anyone know where i can get the lyrics to "Whats Happenin" by D4L? thanks (link)
heres the lyrics----

Shake Dat Laffy Taffy

Dat laffy taffy [candy gurl]

Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy[candy gurl]
Dat laffy taffy

I'm lookin fa mrs.bubble gum
I'm mr.chik-o-stick
I wanna (dun dun dunt)[oh]
cause you so thick
Gurlz call me Jolly Rancher
cause i stay so hard
You can suck me for a long time
[oh my god!]
Gurl dis aint no dance flo
Dis a candy sto
And im really geeked up
And i got mo dro
I wop? I roll
Its all i do
Its da summer time
but yo laffy taffy got me cold[oh]
Gone get loose[oh]
Gone get low[oh]
Dont be shy
H** i'm Faybo?[oh]
I kno you wanna ride
you a star and it shows
[well tell em damn whats up whats up lets go lets go lets go]

Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy[candy gurl]
Dat laffy taffy (repeat 2x)

Cum on trick cum on trick
Here go Mr. chocolate
I like da way you break it down
Waddle, stop you watchin me
Laffy taffy i'm likin dis
Big ol a** you shakin b****
close yo mouth and dont say s***
bend on ova and hit a split
work dat pole and work it well
stacks on deck, yo ankles swell
gurl let me touch ya
i will neva tell
security gaurd dont scare nobody
damn right i touched dat h**
all da money just hit da flo
D4L im ready to go
h** cant even shake no mo
dey tired out
lets ride out
b**** you wanna go
den she can go
she get in my car
i aint playin no mo
start movin on my Faybo
b**** she probably already kno
let me see dat laffy taffy
(dun dun dunt)

Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy[candy gurl]
Dat laffy taffy (repeat 2x)

say baby gurl
a wat u gon do
i got a hundred 1s
i wanna po on you
just keep dat a** shakin
and i keep tippin you
while i sit back lik a playa
and sip dat grey goose
feelin all loose
cuz gurl you on yo job
you got my d*** hard
da way you touch dem toez
workin dem micros
on da stilletos
you made it skeet skeet skeet
lik a water hoez[candy gurl]
got me goin in my pocket
pullin out mo dough
let da waitress kno i need to order
five hundred mo
you besta believe lata on we headed 2 da mo
so gone and pack dem bags
and lets mothaf***in go
im waitin on yo fine a**
at da front doe
gurl you don kno
ima toss da laffy taffy
toss it flip it and slap it
bust a couple of nuts
and get right back at it

Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Gurl shake dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy
Dat laffy taffy[candy gurl]
Dat laffy taffy (repeat 2x)


i pretty much like my body..except my legs. is there any exercises for your calves? i hate mine :[ -- im a girl.. help please (link)
i'd say go running alot...or u can do this-- lay down on the ground on your side and lift your leg as high as u can get and do that 20 times then switch sides



ok, my school is starting in about a week, and i jus got my braces off. how do i make them look sparkly white in just 5 full days straight? i want them to look as white as they can get. please help me? how can I do it, wut are sum ways? thank-you (link)
try getting crest white strips they make ur teeth whiter then they were b4

hope this helps



ok sorry i know ive asked but i was told all this stuff on lower and upper stomach so...would it work if i did 30 crunches in the morning and 30 6 inches in the evening everyday?????...i just need a routine i can start doin and how long till i see a difference??? thank u so much xxx
(link)
yeah it will

♥ sam ♥


In the website MySpace a lot of people tend to have actual hearts on their display names or on their pages. I don't know how to create those hearts. Does anybody know the vode to make them? Thank you for your time. (link)
just type & h e a r t s ; dont do ne of the spaces though



♥ samXoXsam


How do I tell my parents I want to date? I dont want to flat out say it

I rate high (link)
well i think the next time you get asked out on a date say to your mom im going on a date this weekend is that ok if she say idk say mom like i really think im old enough and all my friends date

hope this helped...COMMENT please!



okay first off im sorry this is long... okay im 13 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years.. i know thats long lol.. anyways .. this year we're going to be going to dif. schools.. he'll be in middle school and ill be in highschool.. hes in 6th im in 7th...well .. i love him more then i could explain. but my boyfriend.. eric thinks ill find someone else at the highschool... i know it could happen.. but it wont because i love him.. and hey who knows he might meet someone else.. and im just so worried things wont work out for us.. what do u think i should do..? i rate all 5's !!! THANKS! (link)
well i think you should talk to him tell him how much you love him and you wouldnt do that to him

hope this helps!! COMMENT!! please




So I'm getting my hair cut soon, and I am sooo excited! Right now my hair is almost 3 inches past my shoulders, and I wanna get it cut so that it sits right on my shoulders, with side-swept bangs (similar, but not identical to Kristin on Laguna Beach, and no, I'm not being a dumb wannabe). Do you think that sounds cute? (I'm a natural blonde, and am sooo sick of long hair, I had it for about 4 years.) Anyway, I was wondering if you guys could tell me some sites or post some links to photos of that haircut so I could show my stylist lady exactly what I want. Hope you can help! (link)
i think ne blode looks good with that hair cut

heres a picture

http://www.mtv.it/img/flipbook/kristin-beach_632.jpg

hope this helps...COMMENT!!! please



I know girls will judge another girl on their clothing, but do guys care if your not wearing abercrombie or hollister? (I know I sound very shallow thinking all guys judge on stupid things but its been bothering me) It just doesnt seem right that guys dont need to wear amercrombie but girls seem almost required to or they're pushed out. Another question, do guys prefer strait hair over curly? thanks in advance, I'll rate for anyone who can give me a decent answer. (link)
well i dont think guys care if its hollister or abercrombie they just want you to look nice...guys could care less what store u get it from as long as its hott lol...but its true...well i cant really tell you curly or strait because alot of guys like curly and alot of guys like strait so you really dont have to worrie about your hair weather its curly or strait just leave it how it is

hope this helped COMMENT! please



My best friend probably has the worst life i could imagine. Her home life is a wreck, her mother constantly yells and screams and blames her for her family problems. She can't even spend an entire day in her house without getting blamed and screamed at. Her mom has this "disease" which i personally think is just a scapegoat, considering her mom just sits on the couch all day, smokes, watchews tv, and eats. She dosn't work or anything, and when my best friend comes home, she just harrasses her. Caling her a slut, a cunt, bitch, anything.

Her younger brother gets everything he wants, and i hate to tell her this, but he sells drugs, hangs out with the worst crowd ever, and yet her family idolizes it. the only two that ever notice his bad habbits are her and i, her family thinks he's just a fine kid. and they spoil him to death.

her house is aweful, her father always works and it's just a disaster. her mom never cleans up, her brother makes messes and my best friend is left to cope with it. it's no wonder why she's always leaving and getting outof the house .. she's basically lives at my house.

last week her mother beat her (her mom was drunk) and she kicked her out of her house. she drove over to my house, and stayed the night. the next day cops were here saying that she stole her car and had to return home. my mother and her have talked and my mom really wishes to have her live with us, her home life is just aweful. but her parents won't allow it.

so much more happens to her that i just can't sum up in this. i feel aweful and don't know what to do for her. no one takes her seriously and im afraid one day she's going to snap. she's the nicest, most prettiuest person i know, and no one would ever expect her to have this life. i;m scared one day it's all going to end, she's going to go down the wrong path or take her life. idk what to do for her. she needs to get out of that house. help her. (link)
well i think you should keep inviting her over ALOT have her sleepover ALOT and keep her away from her home as much as you can...if your mom really wants her to live with you go to court...if your mom explains the problem they wont let her live in that house

hope this helped



well i just found out yesturday that i'm moving this saturday .. n i dont kno how to tell my friend maria .. cuz i'm always playin jokes on her that i mite move and i'm afraid she wont believe me .. what shood i say?? (link)
well i think you should say to her "im moving" then when shes like "no your not" say to her "the other times were just for fun but this time its true" try to cry a little say im gonna miss you soo much if your moving far away and if your not moving far away say im gonna miss this house so much (remember try to cry that will get her to believe you)

hope this helps



Ok well I started school 2 days ago, and already I'm hating it. But not just because of the classes/teachers. I hate it because I don't have many friends in my classes. In 4 out of my 7 classes, there's only 2 ppl I like (my bf and this one girl). The problem is that all the teachers seat us alphabetical order, and my last name isn't close to my bf or friend. So, basically I'm sitting by people I'm not really friends with. I have known these people that i'm sitting with for a couple of years, and although i can talk to them, Im not really friends with them. They're ok people and all, it's just I feel left out and lonely sometimes.

My question is- what do I do? I mean, iv'e been trying to make friends with these people and it's not working. Help please!!! (link)
well i think you should talk to them get to know them more and evantually you will become friends with them

hope this helped



hey
do you guys know if the deodorant Arrid Extra Dri works or its just no good??ps i have that 1 problem where the deodorants doo not work i have to use that 1 thing called certain dri. (link)
before you put on deodorant wash you pits then put it on..i'd suggest if your a girl ban it really works and if your a guy then yous degree for men

hope this helps



My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.

At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help. (link)
when people make fun of you dont let it get to you ingnore them...if you dress funny then go out and buy new cloths i'd say go to american egal or hollister they have great clothes that are in and really cool...and for the guy you like if he doesnt like and and would rather have a stuck up pretty girl who is fool of her self he's not worth anything...dont ever kill your self or think about it please...if i care if you killed your self and i dont even know you then emagin how the people who love and care about you are gonna feel...when your sister makes fun of you ingnore her if you dont get mad at her and fight back she'll back off she only does it to get you mad...if you ever wanna talk you can IM me on sammygirl1023

i hope i helped you



I think I'm scaring my crush... she's not showing any signs, but that's just so far. I mean, first, I told her how much I love her. Then, I asked her to the fair. Then, I wrote a song about her, and anyone who knows me knows that I can't write songs for my life! I think maybe soon she'll get scared off, but these things are just bugging me, and I feel like I'll keep thinking about her until I do something for her. Please help! (link)
i think you should give her a little space..she knows you like her so let her take it from there after a week or so tell her you like her and want to hang out sometime plan a day and get to know her more...if you keep doing what you doing now she might get a little scared...so just give ehr a little space to think and then i hope you'll be good from there

tell me what happen!!





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