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Doing to much for my crush?
I think I'm scaring my crush... she's not showing any signs, but that's just so far. I mean, first, I told her how much I love her. Then, I asked her to the fair. Then, I wrote a song about her, and anyone who knows me knows that I can't write songs for my life! I think maybe soon she'll get scared off, but these things are just bugging me, and I feel like I'll keep thinking about her until I do something for her. Please help!
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a girl likes to hear how much a guy loves her ((i would kno i'm the same way)) and fairs could be fun with the right person.. but a song about her that would kinda scare me a lil... i think you should lose the whole writing songs for her thing... hope i helped some..
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Courtney
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i think you should give her a little space..she knows you like her so let her take it from there after a week or so tell her you like her and want to hang out sometime plan a day and get to know her more...if you keep doing what you doing now she might get a little scared...so just give ehr a little space to think and then i hope you'll be good from there
tell me what happen!!
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Hah, well my boyfriends a muscician and I love when he plays songs for me but don't try too hard at once. But then again. . .
"If you can make a girl laugh you can make her do anything."
Try keeping that in mind. ;-)
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Okay...well...doing a bunch of stuff for a girl at once could potentially scare her off unless she has mutual feelings. If she had mutual feelings, she probably would have told you how she feels. If you've done all this stuff for her, find out who her friends are and see if she has said anything about you. I know that if I like a guy, my friends are the first to know. Good luck.
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If i was in her position i would think of you as a wonderful guy. A definite possible boyfriend. If you have been friends with her for a while maybe she only thinks of you as a guy friend and you should go for it and ask her out! that way you know if its just a waste of time.
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Here's the thing with girls... we like a challenge! if you're all over her proclaiming your love it's going to drive her off. Be cool and a little aloof and her wondering if you like her is going to attract her more.
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it does seem like your coming on a little to strong, but not to worry. girls are simple really, as weird as that sounds. they want what they can't have. they want to chase you so back off and let her come to you. if you come on to strongly in the begining theres nothing to look forward to later on down the road, and believe me girls think into the future. try to maintain confident around her b/c that will relax her, girls worry about what you think about them as much as you do. and try to be yourself, if your fake she'll see right thru it. good luck.
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Just because you write songs for her or anything like that, doesn't mean she has to see them. You should tell her how you feel anyways. If she isn't showing any signs, then don't worry. If you want to reassure yourself, you should ask her if you are 'scaring her off'. Ask her right to her face, nothing wrong with asking her that. If you really think you are scaring her off and want to stop doing so, maybe you could try just getting a blank notebook and writing all your feelings down. No you don't have to show her, but that way you let your feelings out, no harm is done, and she isn't weirded out by you. You shouldn't let those things bug you if she hasn't shown any signs that it's bugging her; but you could always ask just to make sure. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Awww that's so cute! i would love if a guy did that for me well if my boyfriend did lol but i'm sure your not scaring her off she oviously knows you have feelings for her! but yea... just don't like over do it you know wat i'm saying! talk to her and see how she feels about you then maybe use could have something! well good luck tell me how things work out! hope i helped need anythin ask*
Caitlin♥
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