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Life Sucks... Alot
My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help.
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dont do anything to hurt yourself. its not worth it. no matter how bad life gets, there is ALWAYS tomorrow. i think its rude of people and people these days do not have good judgement at ALL. you will always run into people like that. i think you should just ignore then for now. and maybe you can go up to some of the other girls in school and talk to them. make a best friend that you can tell all this. i know its going to be tough, but try it, it will help alot. be more social twards others. believe me it will help. and remember theres always another day and that day is tomorrow and it WILL be better tomorrow. dont go and do something you will regret for the rest of your life. and tell your family that you think that they dont really care about you, you know? tell them how you feel. and tell your mom your little sister really hurts your feelings. just tell everyone how you feel. and just keep in mind, if you kill yourself, you will kill others around you, maybe not physicly, but emotionaly.
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Well, I know that life sucks. There is a lot of things in life that aren't great. School for you is probably soon almost over. To me, this is how I look at it. What ever some one has to say to you, let them talk their shit. They can say what ever they want, but inside you know that you are a good person.. And what ever they are making fun of you for, obviously they are insecure about them selves. People are just plain rude these days, and have no respect. This is what pisses me off most, when people get made fun of. This often leads to teen suicide.. That's something that I hate as well. I don't think you should kill your self over that. Even though you say you have not many friends, you atleast have one. And your parents probably do care about you. Don't look at every thing so negativly. You know, there will be a brighter day. And some day, there are going to be lots of people envying you, because those people that make fun of you now... May get no where in life... Just look at it this way, one day you will have things that they wont have. And also, I used to get made fun of when I was younger too. Every one made fun of me and every thing, called me a nerd, and fat and, made fun of my clothes too. Then I went to a different high school then my home school. I went to a technical school. I made SO many friends, because they gave me chance. I wasn't the only new one. Now I am back to my home school again, because I got my self into some trouble. So now all the people that made fun of me before, all like to suck up to me and kiss my ass.. Because they know I have changed. My personality is different, and I don't take any ones shit. Stand up for your self, some times it feels like it isnt the right thing to do, but in the end it will pay off.
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when people make fun of you dont let it get to you ingnore them...if you dress funny then go out and buy new cloths i'd say go to american egal or hollister they have great clothes that are in and really cool...and for the guy you like if he doesnt like and and would rather have a stuck up pretty girl who is fool of her self he's not worth anything...dont ever kill your self or think about it please...if i care if you killed your self and i dont even know you then emagin how the people who love and care about you are gonna feel...when your sister makes fun of you ingnore her if you dont get mad at her and fight back she'll back off she only does it to get you mad...if you ever wanna talk you can IM me on sammygirl1023
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Come on now. Suicide doesn't solve anything. And really, you're life isn't that bad. You know those people living in third world countries? Well they have to work to survive, they have no time for friends. Kids... you said you play lacrosse and soccer? Well there are kids that DON'T play. Kids younger than us, are over worked, under paid, and most work really dangerous jobs. And they HAVE to do it, because it's the only way for them to survive. You're life really isn't like the life of these children struggling to survive. And you want to end yours? That isn't the way to go.
Not having friends? Well don't worry about it. Its not going to last forever. I hope you will feel better, and that you will find friends. And those people making fun of you? Tell them to skrew off! Anyway, good luck.
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you shouldn't let wat other people say get to you your, your own independent person and you have your own look and style your oviously and individual that duznt wanna be another teenage whore, or preppy person or w/e and if people have a problem with you just be like fuck off! if all they do is have time to make fun of you then they oviously dont have much of a life and hun suicide is deff. not the answer to your problems trust me theres people in this world who have been through way more than you prolly have and they've managed to make it through so i'm sure you can. and just because a girl is pretty and popular duznt mean jack shit its personality that counts and dont worry atleast you have some true friends and why would you want to be friends with people who act like assholes all the time and make fun of people to put them down for fun because they have nothing better to do. don't worry you can make more friends maybe they wont be popular or w/e they could be geeky but who cares atleast they'd be true unlike other people dont worry about it just be strong and dont take shit from no one trust me when i was younger i used to get made fun of all the time and i still do sumtimes but i dont let it get to me because i dont care wat people think and if they have a problem with me or have to say something about wat i look like or my clothes or w/e i just ignore them and say fuck off because if you dont need me then i dont need you plain n simple! well sry my answers so long but i hope i helped hun and like i sed stay strong and dont give in to peoples stupid bull shit! need anything ask*
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Everyone has their own style and you have yours. Don't let others get you down about the way you like to dress. I know siblings can be a pain but just try to ignore her and her comments...it just shows she's insecure with herself. Oh and another thing never think of suicide .....your life is too precious to waste!!!
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aww... you sound like a really nice and sad person, I dont know why anyone would make fun of you. you're not alone you know.. there are always people that are being picked on, teased, and unloved by their family. some people have worse lives than you.. like people who have recently lost someone they loved. sometimes people who have bad lives actually do commit suicide.. but you have to be strong. how is dying going to help you? even if your family might seem like they dont care about you, deep down they care about you more than you'll ever know. since you're in school, you're probably still young, so you've got a long life ahead of you. your life isnt always going to be that bad. when you grow up, people around you will be more mature, and no one will make fun of you.
for know you just have to stay confident, dont take the coward's way out and kill yourself. you only get one life, dont go and waste it
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have you ever heard of the word "hater" that's what these people are. they're jealous cause your better at these sports than they are! trust me the best way to get rid of their negative energy is to IGNORE THEM! i know it sounds juvenile but i've learned it truly does work! maybe you should try going to other places to make new friends. if there isn't too many people at school try going to church or maybe some nice party...just be careful not to get mixed into the wrong crowd, the whole point of this is to find positive, encouraging people who love you for who you are! :)
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Ok well suicide is NOT the answer!! I know you probably here that alot and you think its stupid and that its the only way you can solve your problems but its NOT!! Im sure no one picks on one person all the time if you dont do anything to make them do it.Im not saying you do,do stuff to get people mad at you.If things get too serious tell a school consolur trust me they can help!!
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Almost evryone I know has been picked on. The key to it is: ignore it. I know, i know, you may think tht is impossible but its really not. Dont look at them, dont say anything back, just keep on walking or doing what you were before. Don't even acknowledge it. Like, all of the people that pick on people have problems. They are no better than you. I've been picked on and i just ignored it. soon i learned to just block from hearing it. it really helped.
Tell your family how you feel when they yell at you to call friends(dont yell). If you dont do that just tell them "hello, i see them everyday at school...why call when we just talk every now and then all day?"
and about your sis. we all have sibling problems... calmly tell her to stop. if she keeps buggin ya just ignore.
and suicide!? NO way to go... just dont think about it. write down on apiece of paper what you are good at. you have friends, you have talent, you have a roof over your head, you have food. you are equal to every single student, lacrosse player, and sister that you have.
Just remember that- sorry so long i got carried away lol
Hope I helped =)
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I think the best thing to do is tell your parents about the suiside thoughts. (IT'S NOT WORTH IT!!!)If you feel uncomfortable go to another adult, teacher, principle or guidance counsler. You need to find away to get your self-esteem built up. Have you ever thought of going to church? I know, you're wondering why. Because sweetie we are never alone, God loves us and will help us through these things. I use to feel the same way and realized, maybe I was overexagerating what was going on! Good luck, I don't know you, but I do care for you as one of God's children. I'll keep you in my prayers. Oh, there is something you can do for yourself. Try to take some time away (before bed) sit there in the quiet and relax and visualize that you are happy and that what ever hurtful things were said you place each word or phrase into a bubble and pop it, it is gone and can't hurt you no more!
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Don't give up your life it's not worth throwing your life away what you could do is dress really nice by observing others of how they dress you could go to stores like Old Navy,Macy's,Sears,Mandee,other nice clothing stores that are fancy.How do your friends dress?If they dress nice then ask them for advice as well for some more tips and you must match so others won't comment anything bad about how you look.If they keep bothering you ignore them or just tell them to look in the mirror because there not perfect either, they should definitely get an attitude adjustment and tell them that they make fun of people because they have nothing else to do which is just sad they should get a life!Don't worry about people like that in the end they will suffer,fail, and you will succeed!
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wow i can understand your problem. No matter how bad it gets, suicide is not the answer. I think you should try to talk to your parents, its worth a shot. im sure they love you. as for the girls on your lacrosse team, their just jealous, because ur better then them and they know it. Don't be afraid to talk to your school counsilor about your problems. I really hope i helped, and if you have anymore questions ask me. idc about the rating you dont have to bother
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Ok suicide is no way to go. Your young you have a whole life ahead of you. If people don't like the way you look who cares no ones perfect but if you want get a mini make over change your hair style and/or color and buy some new outfits. Throw a party and inivite some kids from school and get to know them better. Parents can be so annoying just listen but you don't have to pay attention just nodd yes an walk away. Just be alone sometimes, away from people and have some time by yourself. get a journal see a counsolor because they listen to peoples problems and help you.
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