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Q: Long story short, I asked a friend to prom who wasn't my boyfriend. The Thing is, I knew my boyfriend didn't really want to go, although he offered to take me. He hates dances and wouldn't enjoy himself, I didn't wan't to force him into a situation that makes him unhappy. We also have a long distance relationship, so I would have to pay a lot more money to take him when he wouldn't really want to be there in the first place. I genuinely thought that he would be relieved not to go, but I made the mistake of assuming he would be okay with it. However, when I told him he was really upset. We have been going out for almost a year and never fought until now. I feel terrible and want to make it up to him more than anything. Please, I need some advice on how to fix this ad apologize.
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Honestly...and i know this sounds bad...but take it from me bring your friend to prom! Im now a second semester freshman in college and when i look back on my prom photos i get really upset. The reason for this is because i asked my (at the time) boyfriend who i was completely in love with to go with me. He, as well as your boyfriend, does not like dances...or people in general really =/. Anyways, we ended up going together and he acted miserable for parts of it not wanting to dance or have fun with me. i dont know how you are personally but i am a very outgoing person who loves to have fun! and he was not. So anyways, after a little over a year of being together he broke up with me because he couldnt handle the distance of me being at college. Now whenever i look back on those pictures all i think about is how much fun i could have had if i went with my other guy friend (key word friend) and not my ex. I know it sounds terrible...but honestly i think you made the right decision asking your friend. your going to have a blast and always remember having a great time at prom and not a sucky night. Oh, and dont worry about the sex after prom thing...its just some stupid cliche some man came up with to get laid =P. So all in all have a good time at prom...its a night your going to not want to wish you could forget, like me who unfortunately does.
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Q: i need to find a song that can go along the lines of Chapter 11 in the book Lord of the Flies. The part whereRalpg and Jack fight and iggy gets killed by the rock. Any songs you could think of would be GREATLY appreciated. Thanks.
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haha weird question and a weird book but...i think this one is good, 3 days grace- animal i have become.
hope this helps...its a pretty good song =D!
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Q: okay so i've never kissed a guy. i've been waiting for the right person. except, i think i found him and i don't know how i would kiss/makeout with him. i'm totally lost. any tips?
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dont feel alone...there are alot of people out there that feel the same way, you shouldnt feel pressured about anything. if you believe you found the right guy, then let it happen, but only if you feel 100% sure its the right guy and the right time. dont waste your first kiss because you think your too old to not have kissed anyone yet. you will know when you want to...and if it turns out you dont, then the guy that your with should respect that and understand. and if he doesnt hes not worth any of your time to begin with. remember you always have a choice.
i hope i helped =)
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Q: Im 13 yrs old. and still havent got my first kiss =. i feel like eberyone else has & its really bothering me.& i want to get a boyfriend.
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Trust me i know the feeling i am going into my fresman year, which means iam 14, and still never kissed a boy or had a boyfriend. someone will come along but until then, your not alone.
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Q: I'm 18 he's 21. We are thinking about getting married after 1 year together. He has a lot of sexual fantasies of being with other girls but says he can try to forget about having sex with more people and settle down. Is he REALLY ready for marrige?
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ok iam nowhere near the age of even really thinking of getting married(14)but , this guy seems nice and likes you. but, iam not sure that hes ready enough to get married. let him cool off for another year until you know that hes really ready and doesnt do anything stupid (as in cheat or something)it seems to me hes a little too obsessed over sex to get married to just wait until your sure hes not just in it for sex.
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Q: Ok there this girl I like, and I really like her. But she dosen't feel the same way about me, so usally I just let it go. For some reason though I just can't stop thinking about her, just like every day it bothers me. The thing is, she isn't even my type, most of my past ex have been popular and athletic. Just like 3min ago I got asked out by some chick, and thats the third time this week i've turned someone down. Any adivce is need. Thanks!
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even though she is not popular she could still be everything you want in a girl. most people that are unpopular are some of the nicest people you will meet. dont give up on her. if you really like her you should try and talk to her not about that you like her because that might be moving it too fast. but make sure she knows you like her. and then wonce your ready to tell her tell her that you have liked her for a long time and wanted to tell her but couldnt cause you were not ready. just talk it out with her. and if you dont tell her sdtill you can get a group of friends together and go out to the movies not just with her so its not to fast but with a few friends that she knows too so she doesnt feel left out.
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Q: soemone i kno died and im really bad at dealing with it its been awhile and i still get thoose days that i just miss them so much is there anyway i can cope better?has this happened to you?if so howd u deal?
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hey the exact same thing happened to me, my grandfather died and to make it worse he died on valentines day. so i was really upset. it took me a while to get over it and yeah i still get those days too to where you miss them alot. like alot alot and you just wish for anything to just have one more day with them, or just to see them one more time. but i deal with it by thinking and knowing that he is in a happier place now and also my grandmother died so i know he is with her and happy. just remember the person that you loved and lost is in a better place. and also remember its ok to cry sometimes about it. dont hold it in your really not crying because your sad your crying cause you love the person.
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Q: ... how do you KNOW when you really and truly 'love' someone?
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this is going to sound really (kind of like in the movies) every time you see him/her you smile and then you get butterflies in your stomach when you try to talk to him/her. and when i know i like someone alot if i close my eyes i can picture their face in my mind really clear. and also you cant really tell how to say you love them to their face.
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Q: Ohhkay. well i have a boyfriend and i love him and all .. but he lives in f;n new york *i live in florida* so obviously thats kinda weird.but the problem is that i liek this other kid who lives near me...and i dont know. i Love my boyfriend soo much...but i dont know how it will work out. and i promised him that i would never dump him for another guy..and i NEVER break promises. WHAT SHOULD i DO!? =( ** i rate high for good answers**
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well you dont have to dump him for another guy just try and tell him that you dont think things will work out between you two because of the far distance you two live from eachother. try to explain that you cant really be with him because of the seperation. even though he might seem like the perfect guy to be with i really think thats things were meant to be this way because if he were really supposed to be with you in your life i think it would have turned out to him living closer to you. try to tell him you want to still talk and stuff but you just dont want to be intamate with him anymore. i really hope my advice helped :)
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Q: My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??
signed miss being bffs
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hey i kind of have the same problem with one of my friends she will be so nice to me when she is only with me then when we are with are other friends she will be kind of a jerk. well i found out the best hting to do is to talk to her about it and kind of tell her how much it is affecting you. well i hope my advice helped :)
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Q: My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help.
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hi Julie its Thais:)
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Q: Okay, I have this friend, Charles, and he is kinda my exboyfriend I guess. But since the day I met him and to this very second, he has changed a lot. He used to be caring and sweet. Now he's mean and an asshole. I don't know like what to do because he blames it on me saying I'm the asshole. So today I told him we should pretend we don't know each other for awhile and he's all like "well I know what's gonna happen, it'll be awkward to talk and we'll drift apart." Which personally is what I wanted because I want my old life back. And I told him that, and I also told him that I don't want him talking to my friends becuase he would have never known them if it wasn't for me. I know it sounds selfish, but he talks about me to them everyday and says all this stuff, which mostly isn't true, then they all like ask me questions. I'm like arghh!! Like I'm totally sick of it and I need help because now he's all like, "no that ridiculus, I'm not gonna stop talking to them." And tonight all of my friends got into a fight. I just stopped crying. I'm tired of it. I've had like major breakdowns where i just have to sit or else I'll kill someone. It's horrible. What should I do? Please help.
*I rate 5's for good answers*
♥ Broken, Lost,and Confused but not giving up.
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i think you should totally forget about him really like if he tries to call dont pick up and if he tries to come over (i know this sounds mean but) say get off my property or else i am calling the cops. only if he is really upsetting you (by the way it sounds like he is) and if you dont want him talking to your friends and he wont liston tell them not to talk to him cause i know if their your true friends and they care about you they will do whatever it takes for you. and if he dosent go away tell him you are not thretend by him and will call the police if he doesnt stop because if he is causing all of these fights then he has no right to be around anymore. well i hope my advice helped:)
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Q: There's this guy that I really like, and we're in a couple classes together. The problem is, we never really talked last year. But I'm really shy. How can I get over my shyness and just talk to him, or even say hi? Rate 5's for good answers.
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i really think that you should go up to him and just start talking about myabe (if he is still in some of your classes this year) homework or school like your teachers or classmates. it might be hard at first but then you can also get into different kinds of conversations with him about other intrests then after a while you never know what might happen. and if you are really shy you can ask a friend to tell him you need to talk to him, then when he gets to you and ask him a important question then get into a interesting convorsation. well i hope my advice helped :)
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Q: Ok i really want to ask this guy out but i dont nkow how... my first bf. HeLp! I rate high!
~Female/13
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hey i am just like you 13 and i really like this one guy and i also have never had a bf so dont think your the only one. but i think the easy (but not that great way) to do it is if you have his sn ask him online that way you wont be that nervous as if you would be face to face. but the real best thing to do would be to tell him to his face because that way you can get your feelings out and to prove that your not nervous. but also you sould do it at the right time as well like to say he just broke up with his ex dont ask him just yet wait and then once you think hes ready ask. i really hope i helped :)
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Q: Im 13/ female, and i have been cutting for about 4 years now. I had been doing better, with everything and finally getting over the things that had happened, I stopped seeing my dad which helped alot. At the beginning of this year, my mom sent me and my sister back to live at my dads house. I started getting hit again, and the school called my house a ton of times asking about the bruises. i made up excuses that people eventually just stopped believing and everyone figured the truth. Lately things have been getting really bad again and i've overdosed two times in the past month, and have had to get my stomach pumped. I have been cutting so much more and i hate what it does to my friends when they find out but im at the point where i just cant stop, and i really dont want to its the only thing that helps. i dont know what to do, can anyone help me ?
thanks
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omg really you need to try and stop it may feel like it takes away the pain but really it is only making you worse please tell your mother if you live with her or whoever your gardian is but do not cut or overdose any more it is the worst thing for you to do. go to the school counsiling and get some help they are always open. and if your father is hurting you do not make yourself worse by hurting yourself what you need to do is call the police or some kind of authority that can help you with your problems but please whatever you do do not hurt yourself anymore then you already are. because if you dont stop not it could get much worse or even fatal. i really really hope my advice helped you out but you need to tell someone gather up some courage and help yourself.
I was watching this one show on TLC and it was a show when this one girl was getting a tatoo to cover up her scars from cutting. She told the show that she regretted it so much and wished she had never done it.
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Q: 13/m, and all of my friends have made out, and theres a party tomm and everyone plans to make out there. problem is, i dont know how. help. (and dont tell me it comes natural, other then tht, ill rate 5's)
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hey iam 13 too (but iam a girl)just dont do it. if you dont feel comfortable doing it then dont and dont be presserd into it too cause maybe you just dont want to do it and the right girl you like just isnt there or maybe you arent ready yet. i know it sounds funn or maybe it sounds like it will get you popular but really your only 13 and that is a very young age for these kind of things also the party is mostlikely going to be supervised so i wouldnt expect much anyway (if it is supervised)ok well i hope my advice helped out and if you need more just ask!
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Q: hi. im 13 years old and ive had a bf for 4 months. he dumped me the other day because his friends dont like me. i really like him and he likes me too. 2 minutes (literally) after he dumped me he had another gf. is he worth going back for?
P.S. ive never met his parents and hes never met mine. thanks for your help.
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hun no way is this guy worth it. NO way at all! if he dumped you cause his friends didnt like you this guy is such a jerk its not even funny. i cant even explain how rude that is to do that to someon. and then he had a girl friend right after he dumped you that is so discustingly rude if i were you i would not speak to him. cause i bet he just lost one of the best things he could of had. i really hoped this helped!
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Q: I have a phobia that I want to get over but dont know how, please help.
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i have a phobia too its heights and also spiders, the thing to do would be well, face them never be too afraid. trust me i know how it feels i am so afraid of heights that i sometimes cant even walk around on the second floor of the mall i think it is best if you have something to hold on to or even a saying that calms you down. but the best thing is to never give into it cause that will just make you even more afraid of it. well i hoped my advice helped!!
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Q: i know im 13 but ive been held back and now im starting middle skool. im really nervous. wut if the other kids dont like me, or if i dont fit in. wut if i get my classes mixed up and everyone makes fun of me? all u guys are in middle skool so PLEASE HELP!!!
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hey calm down its just like regular school nothing new the school may be bigger and more classes then noraml but if you ever get lost or need help ask someone to help you find your way! my first year was scarry too trust me i thought the 8th and 7th graders were soo big and mean but if you just ask for help they can help you so much. and if you are too scared to ask a student ask a teacher i am sure most of them know where alot of classes are so if you trust them you can be ready for everything.i hope my advice helped even a little bit!!have funn and stay calm at middle school (trust me its not so bad)
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Q: okay so i am around 5'3 and i weigh around 130.. i have stomach fat and i have been doing crunches for a long time and they dont help that much.. my question is, what can i do to lose this stomach fat?
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hey i kind of have the same problem i know this though dont let it put you down at all. you just got to keep trying. i know it is very hard i am right there with you but dont just do crunches try something new, like the tredmill and even if you dont have one do jumprope or even go up to your room or where ever and dance to songs for and hour it might sound stupid but it does help out and this might sound gross but it does also work up a sweat. and if you dont get into any of those things try going out for a school sport. ok i hope my advice helped out at lest a little!
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hmm...lets think...iam a girl whose 16 going on 17 soon. i have a thing for people, i love hearing and helping out with problems or issues. i really love being around people and giving advice. Anddd i also love getting advice whenever i need some extra help =)
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Gender: Female Member Since: August 16, 2005 Answers: 20 Last Update: April 5, 2011 Visitors: 3316
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