Oi children, I'm GrannyNell.
Its nice to meet you dearie.
Please stay, ask GrannyNell anything.
I've been through everything in life,
Granny knows best!
I have three children who mean the world to me,
and 6 grandchildren who are the joy in my life.
My husband died in the Korean war and left me to fend for myself and the children, if there is anyone who knows about working 2 jobs and child care, its me dearie.
- GrannyNell
Gender: Female
Location: MD
Occupation: Nanny
Member Since: August 16, 2005
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Last Update: August 25, 2005
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Lately I've been thinking I'm depressed and I've been very unexpected with my moods. I was talking to my boyfriend either and this is what was said:
Me: I don't understand myself sometimes..
Him: honestly, i dont understand you sometimes either
Allowing myself to say it and then hear him say it feels so different. It hit me hard when he said that. Would anyone else be not offeneded, but confused if your boyfriend said that to you? It hurts so much more hearing it from him rather than myself... (link)
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Ah dearie, would you want him to lie to you so you dont get hurt?Or do you want the truth? Sometimes the truth hurts,but lies can hurt worse.
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dear magz,
i like this girl but dont kno if she likes me back.we went out once and i felt a connection but i dont kno how to tell her or ask.plz help.
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Just started randomly making out with her dearie, it worked for me when i was your age.
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around my town lots of the college girls wear there pants or t shirts inside out is there a reason or what? (link)
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I have no idea dearie. But that is weird.
Dont go to the darkside of wearing your clothes inside out...
In the dark when we gt dressed are we now....
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I'm getting my belly button pierced either today or tomorrow and I'm really kinda freaked out. Some people tell me it dosen't hurt at all and some people tell me it hurts like hell. Is it different for everybody? Has anyone gotten their belly button pierced and they piercer got it crooked or something? Thanks! (link)
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You can die from that dearie.
If the person who does it messes up, my grand daughters friend died because of it.
Its cute,but is it really worth it?
Im not trying to discourage you, oh not at all but im just letting you know.
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theres this boy im dateing i just started dateing like a couple days ago i realy like him ive liked him for a long time but im afraid of getting hert again and hed be the last persorn i would want to be hert by he tell me all kinds so stuff to let me know he care but im afraid of how it will end up i couldt take another crack in my heart plus it would brake if he hert me or if i wasnt with him what do i do i dont want to get to deep so it can hert worse please what do i do
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Oh dearie,i completely agree with TheOldOne's advice
"Your heart is stronger than you realize. It will survive, and heal. The one thing that will kill it dead is loneliness."
Dont decide on anything if your head is full of confusion, wait until your head is clear.
Thats what my father always told me dearie.
And what a fine man he was with advice like that.
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Hey, I’m usually the one giving advice. I don’t need advice. I just have a question and I want to know your opinion. This question is for deep thinkers. Long answers are encouraged as well as comical ones.
I’ve seen quite a lot of “love” questions, asked by adolescences. What would you call "true love"? Many people have been saying “I have a boyfriend and I REALY love him” and “she said that he loves me” or things like that. I’ve seen these questions being asked by 13 year olds! Teens DO have deep affections for people, but I really don’t think that they are capable of TRUE love. How can there be love if teen relationships only last 2 months or even 2 years! 2 years is quite long for a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, but shouldn’t love last a LIFETIME? I agree that teens think that they are in love (I’ve been there) but I wouldn’t call that love. I would call it more like, “deep affection”. After all, if love between teens is really “love” then they shouldn’t break up, right? I think that teens are too young and “unexposed” to have TRUE LOVE. Even adults. They mistakenly call their relationships “love”. If it was actually love, then shouldn’t there be less or no divorces?
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oh dearie your right.
True love has seemed to be something you read about.
I said for the children, let them "fall in love" they are still kids, so let them be kids. I think we all sometimes wish we were kids again,love is less work then.
You can fall in love just as easy as you can fall out of it.
Right?
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... how do you KNOW when you really and truly 'love' someone? (link)
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Oh dearie you will just know. Nothing more needed to say,love cannont be explained. Love isnt completely understanded by anyone anyways.
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My cousin keeps going away all the time for no reason. WTF? (link)
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oh geez..AIM what is AIM..what does WTF mean?
What does 'going away' mean?
Dearie im not as young as i used to be, nor am i in with all this new stuff. I will get my granddaughter to figure this one out.
Heyy,i dont really know why your cousin keeps putting up an away message...have you tried asking your cousin why? Maybe your cousin is busy, or maybe he/she doesnt want to talk to you and is trying to give you a hint...
Hope we helped.
Rate my granny please.
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hey this is Jackie 13 years old
there is this boy Ryan, who is my neightbor and I've know him all his life.. we've been friends since before i could talk! We've ALWAYS been best friends!! we even went out when we were 10 years old.. we tell eachother everything and we always help fix ANY problems..
well that's how things used to be. in the past few weeks he's called me a SLUT for going out with a guy i just met.. and he actually meant it.. he wasn;t kidding, usually he asks me about stuff and NEVER judges me, but this time he did! and he likes my twin sis now, which i'm perffectall y ok with because i no that we're jsut friends but she doesn't like him so.. he's been upset sometimes when she gets a new boyfriend and he used to talk to me about it but in the last few weekes he's been telling me nothing's wrong when i KNOW theres something wrong comon i m his BFF i can tell.. and he's been keeping his distance.
why would he act this way is there anything i can do to fix it? PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!! (link)
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Oh dearie being 13 isnt easy.
Your not a child and not yet an adult.
To me it seems like he likes you.
Keeping his distance, advoiding you?
And if he does talk to you or see you he is all shy and tense?
Its love hun.
He loves you a lot.
I'd say if your still going steady with your newer guy friend, tell him you want to get to know him better before you get that close and go with your Ryan.
I bet he asked your twin out because you were taken and it was close to you atleast.
Hope i helped sweetie, Rate me if you have the time to do so for dear old granny nell.
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OK... i babysit 2 boys... 5 and 8 years old.. they are crazy!!!! and when i tell them sumthing, they just ignore me and keep on doing whatever they r doing... how do i get these kids to listen to me!?!?
*ignored babysitter* (link)
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Give them candy sweetie. And they will do whatever you want -usually.
Good Luck!
And when your not loving your babysitting job remember that new CD or outfit your saving up for! It helps motvatie!
Hope I helped Dearie!
Granny Nell
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My daughter is 15 months old. She's off her bottle now, but I can't seem to get her off of her pacifier. Does anyone have ideas to get her off her pacifier?
I wouldn't mind her keeping it, except that it is starting to pull her teeth forward. (link)
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Oi child, let your little girl keep her pacifier, she is only 15 months old. Children can keep them i'd say up until they are 1 or 2 years old.
Hope i helped you dearie, rate me
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well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
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Child you do not want a piece of string going up your ass.
You might as well not where any panties at all!
Gross.
Dont go behind your mothers back and get one, except her answer and wait until your 15, then she will think you are responible.
Even if you think its not fair.
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