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theres this boy im dateing i just started dateing like a couple days ago i realy like him ive liked him for a long time but im afraid of getting hert again and hed be the last persorn i would want to be hert by he tell me all kinds so stuff to let me know he care but im afraid of how it will end up i couldt take another crack in my heart plus it would brake if he hert me or if i wasnt with him what do i do i dont want to get to deep so it can hert worse please what do i do
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Oh dearie,i completely agree with TheOldOne's advice
"Your heart is stronger than you realize. It will survive, and heal. The one thing that will kill it dead is loneliness."
Dont decide on anything if your head is full of confusion, wait until your head is clear.
Thats what my father always told me dearie.
And what a fine man he was with advice like that.
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Well, if you don't want him to hurt you... Number one talk to him about it. And keep this quote in mind:
"If you aren't willing to risk it ALL, then you don't want it bad enough."
If you aren't willing to get hurt again, then you don't want to be with him bad enough. Plain and simple. I was the SAME WAY. But things will work out.
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There are no guarantees in life. There's no "sure thing". Anything can hurt you, and there's a good chance it will.
On the plus side, you can find joy in the most unexpected places.
No one here can promise that your relationship with that boy will be a happy one, because no one in the WORLD can promise that. It's beyond human power.
But I can tell you this: if you don't take some risks, you won't even have a CHANCE at happiness. Sit at home all day in fear of the bad things that might happen, and you'll end up old, sad, and alone after a fear-filled life.
Your heart is stronger than you realize. It will survive, and heal. The one thing that will kill it dead is loneliness.
So talk to that boy. Try not to sound too scared. Try not to BE too scared. Terror kills relationships. But communication can save them. Learn how to talk to him, and even more important, learn how to LISTEN to him.
If you find that you just can't relax at all, no matter how hard you try, it might be time to consider getting some help. Lots of people do that, and it's nothing to be ashamed of.
I wish you luck.
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well the first thing you do is realize that in love you can not tell if somebody is going to do right by you. If you trust him with the same info you just gave me then you will let him know where you stand and hopefully he won't take advantage of you. You can not stay scared darling. The sweet is not as sweet without the bitter! Best of luck!
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well tell him you are afraid of getting hurt but you know you need to get to know him a little better before you really get into anothor relationship tell him your true feelings tell him how you feel k well i hope i helped you any?
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