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bfff or not?
hey this is Jackie 13 years old
there is this boy Ryan, who is my neightbor and I've know him all his life.. we've been friends since before i could talk! We've ALWAYS been best friends!! we even went out when we were 10 years old.. we tell eachother everything and we always help fix ANY problems..
well that's how things used to be. in the past few weeks he's called me a SLUT for going out with a guy i just met.. and he actually meant it.. he wasn;t kidding, usually he asks me about stuff and NEVER judges me, but this time he did! and he likes my twin sis now, which i'm perffectall y ok with because i no that we're jsut friends but she doesn't like him so.. he's been upset sometimes when she gets a new boyfriend and he used to talk to me about it but in the last few weekes he's been telling me nothing's wrong when i KNOW theres something wrong comon i m his BFF i can tell.. and he's been keeping his distance.
why would he act this way is there anything i can do to fix it? PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!!
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he likes you hes jelous.
Good luck!
<3 KYlie
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Oh dearie being 13 isnt easy.
Your not a child and not yet an adult.
To me it seems like he likes you.
Keeping his distance, advoiding you?
And if he does talk to you or see you he is all shy and tense?
Its love hun.
He loves you a lot.
I'd say if your still going steady with your newer guy friend, tell him you want to get to know him better before you get that close and go with your Ryan.
I bet he asked your twin out because you were taken and it was close to you atleast.
Hope i helped sweetie, Rate me if you have the time to do so for dear old granny nell.
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ok, well here's what i figure. he really, really liked you right, so you go and break his heart and everything so then he feels as if he can't trust you any more , so then he starts liking your sister because you guys are twins and he may figure you two are like the same people, but she doesnt like him. so now HE'S confused and doesnt know who to turn to anymore, because i guess he feels betrayed by you in a way.
i dont really know if there's anyway for you to fix it because you cant change a person's mind set, the only thing you can do is guide them. so you need to go talk to ryan about how you feel and how you think he feels. he may try to leave and go away but stop him and tell him that you thought you were his best friend and you can tell when somethings wrong. also tell him that the way he's acting is hurting you inside and etc. i think you can take it from there. :) hope that i helped you!
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Tell Him what you're telling me. Take him aside some time or go over to his house to talk. Make sure he knows its important. Tell him how much you value your friendship, and that you feel its changing and it hurts because youve been so close for so long. Just explain to him how you feel just like you did in your question. But in reality, He just might not be mature enough to deal with a female friend. Boys at that age tend to want girls for girlfriends, and nothing else. His friends may be saying something to him, or he could have heard something about you that upset him. Theres always the possibility that he Likes you more than a friend, but is embarassed, or doesnt know how to express himself. Who knows? Just talk to him. Its the only thing you can really do! good luck with it!
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hmm..idk anything about him really but it kinda seems like he likes you. idk that's the only reason i can see why he'd call you a slut, because that isn't a slutty action. usually distance is the cause of that too, but im not exactly sure. the only thing you can really do is juss talk to him about it to fix it. maybe if you guys feel comfortable talking about it he'll open up to you and explain things.
good luck!<33
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This is really hard to go through but ive been through it. try to talk about this with him let him know that your sorry about your sister and comfert him. he is probly under a lot of stress and he's probly also feeling a little scared because things are changing between you tell him how you feel about the guy your dating and ask him why he feels that way about it. if your as close as i think you are you will get the right answers! :)
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