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My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??
signed miss being bffs
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talk to her tell her how you feel and that what she's doing hurts you. if she dosent understand ask her how she would feel if you acted that way to her. if she dosent stop acting this way its time to find a new best friend because this is not how real friends are sopose to act! :) hope this helps
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You need to explain to her very kindly you just feel like she's changed a bit and describe all the virtues she once had.... and that your feelings are hurt! She may take it harsh, but if she doesn't take serious action soon... maybe she's just not one of those friends worth having. I mean, she did IGNORE you. It may be painful to have to move on but sometimes in life change is the only thing that makes life flow. Time heals all wounds, after a while, without being friends (if it's the case) you'll be fine.
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You have to talk and ask her why did she do that to you. Well, my boyfriend, he ignores me infront of his bestfriends, and it makes me really sad and mad. So, I know how you feel.. She's maybe not your very best friend, cause if she's your real bestfriend, she won't do that. Or maybe, she doesn't want anyone to thinks that you're her bestfriend. So, my advice for you is to talk to her, ask her to explain that. Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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hey i kind of have the same problem with one of my friends she will be so nice to me when she is only with me then when we are with are other friends she will be kind of a jerk. well i found out the best hting to do is to talk to her about it and kind of tell her how much it is affecting you. well i hope my advice helped :)
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Ask her why she's like that if the attitude is still the same after that don't be her friend she will just keep making you look bad and by the way she has got issues.Something is wrong with her!If I were your friend I would never do that to you I don't even treat my friends like that it looks like she doesn't want them to see that you too get along or just wants to look good if its necessary put her in her place don't let her keep treating you this way okay.
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&hearts Aw. Obviously she is not the greatest friend ever. But nobody is perfect. I would tell her how you feel. If you keep your feelings inside she'll continue to be mean to you. I would tell her that is she continues to act this way then she doesnt to be your friend. <333 Hope I helped. && Good luck babe!
Luuhv, Lauren <33
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I understand what your going through because this same thing is happening with one of mi best friends. I think that if it's hurting your feelings you should maybe try to talk to her and ask her why she's doing this. You may also want to tell that it hurts your feelings! This may be hard but if it's hurting your feelings then you should try to talk to or write her a letter! Well i hoped i helped you at least a little bit!
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hey. i think you should invite her over and tell her how you feel.say like "not for nothing, but ive noticed you've been sorta weird to me around your friends, why?" and hopefully she'll tell you. or maybe even call her on the phone. =] hope i help ya ! ♥
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