Hi, Im 13 years old and im going in to 9th grade! I love to hang out with my bestfriends and i am a shopaholic and i love to spend money! I will try to answer every question as good as i can! If you like my answers and want to ask me more questions you can IM me at x23 SweetDreams ((AIM)) Thank for asking questions
Member Since: August 15, 2005
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Last Update: August 19, 2005
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I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 15 months and we are completely in love. We still act like we did the first month we started dating, we're inseperable. His dog has grown very ill, diabetic, blind in one eye and going blind in the other.. He is the one that has to give his dog his shots twice a day and his dog will refuse to take the shot. Whenever he tries to give him the shot and he starts growling at him he keeps being reminded of when his dog was a little puppy, in a little cardboard box that would cry everytime he'd turn the lights out and start wagging his tail and barking when he'd turn them back on and pick him up. If his dog won't let him get the shots, he could die. He's been so stressed out about his dog, he's taking out on me. His attitude has changed around me... He seems so distant. He gets mad about every little thing. I've talked to him about it that it's really upsetting me that he's acting that way. I tell him that I'll be there for him no matter what, but the way he's treating me is becoming unbearable. I really want to help him... but I feel like I'm losing him. I've gotten to the point where I wanted to break up with him because of all this. I can't think of anything to do for him... he's just so depressed. I need help. How do I get him to feel better? I don't want him to be so depresed anymore... and I don't want him to be treating me like he's been. (link)
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tell him exactly how you feel... "lately you havent been acting yourself because of your dog. i want you back, not the new you. i feel like im going to lose you and i dont want that. i hope you understand." say something like that ... that should help him understand how you feel*, he may be upset but he has to learn that if he doesnt give the dog his shots then he may end p dying! And its not your fault and you just want to help him get thru this, and there's no reason for him to be treating you like this! I know that it's hard and your just trying to help him by telling him how you feel! I hoped i helped! Good Luck
Xo Kara Xo
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im 14 and going into the 10th grade and ive never kissed a guy. and all my friends all have lost it. and i feel like im being left behind. and when my friends talk bout it they ask me hats the most uve done w/ a guy and i cant say anything cuz i havent even kissed 1! what should i do? (link)
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You should just tell your friends the truth when they ask you. If they cant accpet you not having done anything with a guy then their not very good friends. It may be hard but it's the right thing to do! And if they start talking about things like that then you should just ask them if you guyz can just change th subject because your not comfortable talking about stuff like that! I really hoped that i helped! Good Luck
Xo Kara Xo
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Alright, there's this kid that I've known for like more than a year. I met him when I went over one of my best friends house. He lives like next to her. So we would always go over and chill with him and his sister. We have sooo much fun. But the other night I decided to sleep over his house. So we stayed up all night and we kinda cuddled and he knows I like him a lot, but he won't tell me how he feels. Like from the other night I have a feeling he likes me, but I wanna know for sure. What should I do? I like really like him and I see him and talk to him a lot. Also I can be myself around him.
Please help, I rate high for good answers. (link)
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I think that you should find out from him directly and tell him if he doesnt want to tell you how he feels than you dont want to deal with it anymore and just want an answer! Tell him that you really do like him and you want to know the truth if he likes you back and good luck! I hoped i helped
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My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??
signed miss being bffs (link)
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I understand what your going through because this same thing is happening with one of mi best friends. I think that if it's hurting your feelings you should maybe try to talk to her and ask her why she's doing this. You may also want to tell that it hurts your feelings! This may be hard but if it's hurting your feelings then you should try to talk to or write her a letter! Well i hoped i helped you at least a little bit!
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There's this guy I really want to get to know. He's new to out school, he's cute, he's shy, and sits alone at lunch. He barely ever talks.
The bad thing is, that I'm shy, too. I'd love to get to know him, but my shyness is holding me back. How can I get over this? (link)
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If you would like to get to know him you should sit with him at lunch! Even if your shy you can overcome being shy and sit and talk with him. And if that goes well you should ask him to do something, tell him your shy as well and you know how he feels! You can easily become friends because you would be trying just try to overcome your shyness and start talking to him
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how do you get over boys? i was with this guy for 7 months, we never officially dated but it was known that we were together. we had a sexual relationship and i fell for him big time. he suddenly started fooling around with his ex girlfriend behind my back and told me that he never really liked me to begin with. we hadnt had sex until about 8 days before we split and so he had no reason to keep me around to use me. he wasnt getting any benefits for staying with me for 7 months because i never really "did" anything for him. i know hes in denial that he never liked me. once i found out about him and his ex girlfriend (he never told me, my frined did) i decided to stop talking to him completely. i havent spoken to or seen him in 2 weeks. i unfortunatly cannto stop thinking about him. any advice...i know this was long sorry ill rate high (link)
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If he kept seeing you for seven months and then had sex with you and he said a week later he never liked you, then you should have the right not to talk to him. If you want to find out why he had said he never liked you thats ok but if he kept seeing you for sevens months just to have sex with you he's not worth thinking about! I hope i helped, if i didnt im very sorry and you can ask again
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