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My boyfriend .. I don't him not to get his hopes high. I'm on birth control and have been for months. I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him for 4 months or so.. even then, there would be no guarantees that I would say yes. He understands this. I THINK he will ask in a month or two.

I'll have sex when I'm ready. I won't be pressured into it either. I refuse to have sex already in a 5th month relationship. we are rather sexual at times... but that's not what our whole relationship is about.

so i'm just wondering..
Your first time experiences? I'm rather small in that area and i'm afraid that it will feel like he's trying to break/TEAR me. I've seen his dick and it seems so big in my eyes and i can't IMAGINE his head going in at all! When he fingers me, when he tries to enter first, it somewhat hurts but once he's inside.. it doesn't.
Is there enough room inside for a penis to stretch? or would it be a noticeable tight feeling INSIDE?

Any ways to make make me feel a bit comfortable? pillows? lube? yes, i already told him a condom is a MUST or he's getting nothing. (link)
you will probley be nervous so you wont be to wet. lube is proably a very good idea. have him finger you a little before, to loosen you up. then just make sure you tell him to take it slow, he can wait, you arent going anywhere. it will be a bit painful. missionary {lying on your back) for your first time is the best position. have him hold your hand or something that helps relax you while he works it in. good luck.


whats a good type of birth control? (link)
deffinatly not Yaz.


Everytime I'm with my boyfriend we make out, h.j's, b.j's, fingering.. like all of that stuff... we do it like alotttt. atleast 4 times every time we're together.. so like, 4 times in 5 hours. But do you think he's using me? like I feel like he always wants to do stuff!
what do you think!? (link)
me and my boyfriend were the same way in the beginning of our 2 year realtionship. you guys will grow out of it. your still just exploring each others bodys. also, going out helps a lot. even if you cant go on dates. go for a walk to a local park or something. he is not using you unless thats all he talks about. if he expresses love for you then im sure he isnt just using you for that stuff.


Trazkor on facebook applicatons: Does it make it so that if they have the application they can see everyone who's looked at their profile?
If not, then what does it do? (link)
no. its actually a pointless application. it only shows who has viewed your trakzor profile (the page that shows up that has shown your views).


i've never made out bbefore . go ahead laugh i dont care. but im like gonna be really bad at it and i really wanna make out. so can you tell me exaaaactly. not like oh well you put your lips together and smooch. no i wanna know exactly step by step what you do.
please and thank you
i'll rate high! xo
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okay, start out with just some regular kisses and then continue. wait for him (or she, whatever you prefer) to start tounge, you dont want to be too forward. open your mouth a little and let their toungue and gently massage yours along theres. also, if you figure it out and get comfortable with them, rub your hand slowly up their side and down there back. put your head on their neck or run your fingers through their hair. they should like that. hope i helped.


Ive been raped before and everytime im with a guy i get flashbacks. its been about 10 years since this has happened but im still scared its gonna happen again. how can i get over the feeling? (link)
if your parents know about this then i highly suggest a therapest or counselar...someone you are able to talk to.

if your parents dont know then make sure you really trust the guys your around. i know its hard because some of them will remind you EXACTLY of him...stay away from those ones.

just surround yourself with people you can trust and stay away from the ones that make you nervous.


I'm f/16, and I was just wondering...The first time I've heard it hurts a lot. Depending on the person of course. For example I've never even wore a tampon, so will it hurt alot for me when I lose my virginity? How much will it hurt, and how much will the pain last for? Will you even feel at least a bit of pleasure anytime in the first time? (link)
it will hurt, but not enough to make you cry. you will bleed a little to but dont get scared, your hymen was just breaking. it will last probley the entire time. but will weaken of time and become more pleasureable for you. just have your guy go slow for a little bit until it starts feeling good enough for him to speed him. if it hurts to bad tell him and he will hopefully stop.


i was wondering if a boy had precum on his finger then fingered you could you be pregnant? thanks! i rate 5s! (link)
no there is no chance. as soon as any type of cum hits the air it dies within seconds. unless he actually cumes in you there is no chance of pregnancy.


I am a 14 year old female who is recently living with my father by force. My father took me from my mother about 5 months ago because he read my little cousins diary that said i was doing drugs with my mother which is not true. my mother is desperatly trying to get me back but she has little money. I feel that I am becoming more and more of a danger to myself everyday here. there is no physical abuse but there is neglect. I am running away before the end of feburary and I need a SAFE place to go so that I am not on the streets. I am having problems finding a place to go many shelters will only hold me for 24 hours but i need more time than that. So I am asking advice on where i should go as a 14 year old female who is possibly suicidal. I have no transportation so i am also asking for advice on that. (link)
DON’T KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!!! that is the worst possible thing you could do in any situation. Have you tried going to a lawyer or someone? Anything? Running away isn’t the answer. I know because I have many times and found myself in even more trouble then before. Im sorry this problem isn’t much help. Maybe you should try going to a school counselor and see what she/he can do.


Whats The Legal Age To Have Sex


Thanks
Tami (link)
there isnt a legal age


When I go to the bathroom and i look at it I see it steaming and I have NO idea what it is!!Please help me!!!Can you tell me what it it? (link)
it does the same thing to me. its just like when your outside in the cold and you breath and theres that cloud. its just your hot urine in the cold toliet water. nothing is wrong.




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