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using me?
Everytime I'm with my boyfriend we make out, h.j's, b.j's, fingering.. like all of that stuff... we do it like alotttt. atleast 4 times every time we're together.. so like, 4 times in 5 hours. But do you think he's using me? like I feel like he always wants to do stuff!
what do you think!?
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Some people have strong sexual appetites than others. You don't seem too happy with the size of his appetite.
So you should talk with him and see if you can't come to a compromise that can make both of you happy.
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i dont think he's using you nessicarly i think hes just a horny child haha
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me and my boyfriend were the same way in the beginning of our 2 year realtionship. you guys will grow out of it. your still just exploring each others bodys. also, going out helps a lot. even if you cant go on dates. go for a walk to a local park or something. he is not using you unless thats all he talks about. if he expresses love for you then im sure he isnt just using you for that stuff.
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i would feel that wayy too
just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel
if he doesnt understand then he is using you and it be best for you to just leave him ,,
and if he does understand then things will get better and hes not using you
goodluck ♥christina
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There is this whole stereotype of girls and boys that would claim that any guy that always wants some must be using the girl he gets it from... but honestly, what do YOU think? There's no way you should ever put out if you don't feel like it, but if you are perfectly happy with the situation you are in and enjoy giving everything as much as he does, he's not using you.
Since you asked a general opinion, I do personally believe that a relationship should be based on more than just the physical sides of things, bjs, hjs, making out. If you want more than just this, and you feel like this is all he ever feels like doing, consider talking to your bf. You could say something like, you really care about him, and want to get to know him more as a person and talk more. Or you could go somewhere, the two of you in public, where you may still make out but there would be less physicalness going on in general. However, if you are fine with everything and don't feel like you've been compromising yourself, there's no need to assume you're being used just because of a stereotype.
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He could be using you, he might not. If you do other things [like talking, see movies, go for a walk, watch TV, etc] he's probably interested in more than the physical stuff. If he complains about not making out 24/7, then yeah, he's using you. Otherwise, he's just happy that you let him do things like that. If you don't want to do it so much, say so. If he's not using you, he'll respect that.
-LM
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It depends.
He may like doing it because he thinks you're up for it all the time, too.. and he wants to make you happy.
Talk to him about it. Tell him you want to do it less, so it can be something you look forward to, instead of it being more like a routine.
If you talk to him about it and he's fine, you'll know he's not using you.
But you shouldn't do anything if you think it's getting tedious and you don't quite want to...
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