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First time


Question Posted Tuesday April 4 2006, 5:06 am

I'm f/16, and I was just wondering...The first time I've heard it hurts a lot. Depending on the person of course. For example I've never even wore a tampon, so will it hurt alot for me when I lose my virginity? How much will it hurt, and how much will the pain last for? Will you even feel at least a bit of pleasure anytime in the first time?

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Additional info, added Tuesday April 4 2006, 7:49 pm:
By the way, no I am not planning on losing it anytime soon. I'm just wondering..

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daniknos answered Thursday April 6 2006, 9:54 pm:
a tampon has nothing to do with the pain. When you lose your virginity depending on how you take pain and the penis is how your pain will be. assuming you probably dont take pain well and you screw a guy with an average penis the pain will just feel like your skin is being pulled on and stretched. usually the pain last about five mins. and then the feeling will get better as you go on.
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BrokenIntoPieces answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 7:06 pm:
it will hurt, but not enough to make you cry. you will bleed a little to but dont get scared, your hymen was just breaking. it will last probley the entire time. but will weaken of time and become more pleasureable for you. just have your guy go slow for a little bit until it starts feeling good enough for him to speed him. if it hurts to bad tell him and he will hopefully stop.

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AGEHA answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 4:22 pm:
You'll be in pain most of the time, and you'll definitely be bleeding as a result. Have fun!

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UHOHxOMFG answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 1:11 pm:
It all depends on the size of the penis & the size of your hole. haha you probably wont feel to much pleasure from it. maybe alittle bit at certain points and the pain will hurt the worst the first time it goes in and then you will probably get used to it. it will be uncomfortable most likely more then pain. the tampon shouldnt really have to much of an effect because its a lot smaller but if you are really unsure then i recomend you try a tampon just to see what it feels like to have something up there if you have never. make sure you think of the consquences first. stay safe <3

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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 11:17 am:
Depending on how you handle pain..Honestly,To me it didn`t hurt that bad && it wasn`t like something i`d cry over..[I can`t handle pain && i have a low tolerance for it]..

If it does hurt you then it will probably hurt the worst at the beginning && less hurtful towards the end but most likely you`ll just find it more uncomfortable then anything..

I didn`t find it painful but it wasn`t that comfortable or pleasureable the first few times..

Most ladies don`t tho..It might take like the first few times before finding it pleasureable..

&hearts;Dez

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XOXKAYLA answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 10:24 am:
the greatest advise im going to give to you is dont loose you virginity... i lost mine this year and im 14... that was the biggest mistake of my life! and if you do loose you virginity to him make sure he actually wants to be with you. id wait though. virginity is so precious to have. mabe you think its not cool to be a virgin but most boys like that...

love kayla

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rudy answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 8:02 am:
First fo all, what the hell are you thinking at 16 and losing your virginity...damn girl think about the complications of all of this...on another note, if the dude is gentle the pain will be minimal, and yes you will feel pleasure, just make sure the punk whos braking you in does not go ape shit on your ass.

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LETSGO answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 7:20 am:
A tampon doesnt really hurt, considering the tampon is much, much smaller than a penis.
No, it wont hurt more than any other girl when you lose your virginity. The pain will last throughout the whole process.. and, you will feel pleasure thats what sex is! ;]

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