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Hey im 15/f i was wondering are there any quotes out there that have to deal with this.. okay heres my story sorry if its long. But my boyfriend and i just broke up about a week ago and im finding out what his "game" is. He breaks up with someone and waits a week and then goes out with another girl. But he says he doesn't want a gf but he dumped me for this other girl he didn't say that but i know his games now. He did that with me and his other ex. girlfriend. So i was wondering are there any quotes to like warn his new girlfriend now of this games, or a quote that sorta tells that i know his games now. Plezzz thanks a bunch!!!

google it... and if you did then make up a quote. if you hear a song that describes what he is doing then use part of that.

hope i helped.
&&heart's;; kayla =)

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The books Gossip Girls.
Do you need to read the first one? or can you skip around and read the 2nd one first? does it matter?

ok any book like that you would need to read the first one to get it... like harry potter for example.

hope i helped.
&&heart's;;kayla =)

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I'm 5'4 and about 145-160 lbs. Verrry fat in my opinion but i don't really look THAT bad other than that. I was wondering if it's possible to lose about 25 lbs by August 19th or around there? If so, how. Please be specific on good && bad foods && excersizes (how many, how long, etc.) Also, does anybody know any REALLY good acne creams? Thank you soo much

my opinion how to lose weight is to do sit ups... like 30 a day 2 times a day( in the morning and at night). and if you want to know any other good excersices i suggest picking up a seventeen magazine... they have good exercises in there. or going to seventeen.com. what you should stay away from is bread,candy,butter,soda,ect. anything with alot of sugar. DONT STARVE YOURSELF... i did it before and i thought it would work but after you get tired of doing it and then you start eating again it makes you fatter. drink alot of water. eat fruits( bananas,apples,grapes, ect.) and vegies. very simple.

now about acne cream i suggest you use proactiv... it works well for me and i bought some for my boyfriend and he has alot of acne but its going away really fast. its not expensive.. 19.95 or something like that unless you get all the extra stuff.. which you wont need. just try it for 30 days and if it dont work send it back. other then that i use clean and clear morning burst.

hope i helped.
&&heart's;;kayla =)

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Okay so this guy who lives next door to me asked me to give him head. Should he wear a condom idk, i'm really new at this

well he doesnt have to wear a condom, its really up to you. some people have flavor'd condoms just incase they do give head ... and other stuff... i would make him only cause there is alot of diseases out there and you dont know how many other girls did that to him. or just dont do it at all thats what i would do, exspeacilly if you arent going out with him..=/

hope i helped...
&&heart's;;kayla

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I met this guy yesterday. he hangs with my friend all the time now cause she likes him and he has started been actin different to me like he'll put his arm round me when were outside in the rain and he'll make tiny sexual remarks. but at the same time he wants to be with my friend so wat should i do.

Well its not worth losing your friend over. you should probably ask her before you ask him this... ask him if he likes you like as a girlfriend. if he says no then i guess its a no. the only way to find out if he likes you is to ask him, if you wait for him to tell you then chances are he might not because he dont want you friend to get mad, he might be scared or think you dont like him, or mabe thinks that you have a boyfriend? the best thing to do is ask him when your friends not around..

hope i helped..
love kayla

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I'm f/16, and I was just wondering...The first time I've heard it hurts a lot. Depending on the person of course. For example I've never even wore a tampon, so will it hurt alot for me when I lose my virginity? How much will it hurt, and how much will the pain last for? Will you even feel at least a bit of pleasure anytime in the first time?

the greatest advise im going to give to you is dont loose you virginity... i lost mine this year and im 14... that was the biggest mistake of my life! and if you do loose you virginity to him make sure he actually wants to be with you. id wait though. virginity is so precious to have. mabe you think its not cool to be a virgin but most boys like that...

love kayla

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I fell lost. Dont know how to start a new life alone. I do not have any skills not good at really anything. My heart is broken. What can I do too make it stop and find a direction?

ok i dont know if you are a girl or a boy. but if you are a boy hey im single!! lol

anyways i think you might just be a little over depressed? ive felt just like this before. its normal.. well find some one that you want to be with. and go find stuff that you like to do. dont sit around the house it will make you more miserable. if you want to talk then you can IM me on aim- misslilcupkake

ill be able to talk to you more if you give me alittle bit more details..

hope i helped
love kayla

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I am a 16 year old girl. I met this 22 year old guy online at a chat room and we met. We became really very good friends, and within few months (7 months to be precise), i fell for him. After 3 months since we met, we met again, and I felt from his behaviour that he too loves me, though he never told me. He kept on calling, or if I called him up, he said what kept me so long. He has also helped me a lot coping with my studies, and also nosy parents. A close friend of mine also felt that this guy has something for me. On her advice, I let her e-mail the guy (using her mail ID) and told him that she feels I love him. She made it look like I didn't know she mailed him, and also she mailed me another e-mail saying that that guy loves me (though i knew she made up the mail). I was to behave that it was a surprising mail, and my friend's idea was to know this guy's mind. But he said after a fortnight that he doesn't love me, but he thought I was his best friend and he is ready anytime to call me his best friend if I still liked to maintain the friendship. I readily agreed, but he is no longer the same guy. He answered my call once only to say that he was busy and he'd call me back. He didn't and now he's hot answering my call. I dont call him anymore (for more than two weeks), but I just cannot forget him. I dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP!
-Bishakta Manush

to me this guy seems like he didnt know what he wanted...mabe he has a girlfriend? it was wrong of him ofcourse, but i have these problems all the time.

my story is down below if you want to read it. i think its kind of similar to yours.

i met this boy on buddypic and he's 17 and im 14. well i found out he lived close to me so like 2 weeks after we met he came to my house and picked me up at my house on a saterday. the friday before that saterday he was supposed to pick me up from school. but he got in a car wreck on his way to pick me up. so anyways ya he picked me up on saterday and we drove around and got pulled over because his tail light went out. after that we went to my friends house and i really wanted to stay the night with him ( not for nothing sexual). and he said ya at first but then when we went to my friends he was like no. i thought i might be able to change his mind on his way to drop me off at home. but i couldnt. i wasnt acting myself that night. and beforeme and him met we talked to much. i asked him that night if he would come back so i can see him on sunday and he promised. and theni talked to him sunday and he said hes not going to. i felt so bad. i really liked this boy and i thought we had something. but now we dont talk. its tuesday and i met him last saterday. he says the reason why he dont think things will work is because he thinks im bad luck. and because im young. and because he likes other girls but he dont know. when i mention going out with him hes like"kayla".... it really hurts but i have to except it.

hope i helped.
love kayla

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uggh i dont even know where to begin. thanks for reading this and trying to help but seriously what youre about to read is alot!

ok so i was going out with this guy last year and i got back together with him this year a few months ago.. well i broke up with him because he wasnt acting like my boyfriend but i still wanted to be friends.

my ex best friend (lets call her bob).. ok i got into a fight with her and i really didnt do anything and she ended up turning everyone against me, we made up a long time after but i found out she was pretty much mad at me for no reason she pretty much picked a fight, well.. theres another girl who was my best friend last year (lets call her billy) and i found out that they made a plan to get me jealous of them being best friends and after they found out i broke up with my bf they were happy (they liked him) and pretty much everyone in my school likes him that knows him.. and we had a party the day i broke up with him and he was sad when i wasnt there but as soon as i got there he was acting all happy and hanging out with my two "ex best friends" and he knows i hate them. so at the party bob asked me if she can go out with him because she found out he wanted to go out with her (this was the same day i broke up with him). what pisses me off is that he is only doing this to get revenge with me and shes doing the same probaly just like she had the plan with billy..

theres more to this that i didnt mention but really i dont know what i should do!

i agree with toxic paradise.theres nothing much you can do. if he picked you over his friends then its not meant to be.he probably would of ended up cheating on you if he liked her. the best thing you could do is move on and show them that it dont bother you. or fight them that what i would do.

hope i helped.
love kayla

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Well im a 15/f and recently i started talking to this guy i have liked for awhile now, well he started talking to me actually but you get the point. so anyways my friends all think he likes me because we never really said much to eachother in school but then randomly like a week ago, he commented my myspace saying hey, how are you, etc and now we've been talking like 2 hours every day, sometimes even till like 2 in the morning! soo i dont know, im really shy, and hes really shy, and he has alot of girls that are friends, and i have no clue how to tell if hes flirting with me or if he likes me. i've kind of invited him to a few things, like to a school basketball game but we dont talk that much in person, in fact in person we usually only say things like hey was^? and then we go our seperate ways. i have no clue how to act, im not good with guys at all, and sometimes when we talk online we have like a minute or 2 of silence where we both dont know really what to talk about, i mean when we have something to talk about it flows and is comfortable but when those silences happen its like in person when we talk and seem to be too nervous, or he just doesnt want to talk to me! i have no clue help and im soo sorry this is long but i have noone to talk to thats not biast because they are my friend!

Ok so mabe your not the best with boys. im shy too, but if it really comes down to where you want to know if he likes you then just ask him. just say i cant tell if your flirting with me or if you just want to be friends. he wont think bad about you i promise. i mean what can he do? if he says he likes you then i guess those other girls might not matter to him. when there is silence just tell him what you did today or something speacil that happend. i bet hed love to hear how you feel about him. silience is normal. if you guys are both speachless then its not bad. just be strong and ask him if he doesnt tell you how he feels. i promise you wont regret it.

i know this sounds weird but if you have aim and u want me to ask him for you then i will. IM me misslilcupkake or boo you wh0re
hope i helped
love kayla

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Hey.
My name is Gabriella and i'm 15 and i'm dating someone named Chad who is 16. I sorta have this problem with him. You see... hes always talking about himself and bragging.. and then hes always saying how all these girls are pretty and hasent told me that once....hes going to 2 proms... 1 with his best friend who is a model and is his x girlfriend and one with someone i dont know who... and he was practically rubbing it in my face... hes always hugging all these girls... and he called me three other girls names and then hes friends with all girls... and if i have a picture of myself and he thinks it looks bad hes like ugh that pic is horriable... i mean i like the honesty but he could be nice about it. and hes always trying to change things like how i take pictures and it makes me insane!! and i just dont know what to do... because i like him still... even tho hes like that. HELP PLEASE AND THANK YOU!

Ok to me i think this boy is just using you. just to be going out with you. if hes dating you why is he going to the prom with his x? and some one else? thats messed up. you should deffently tell him hes dissmissed. ok and if he tells you your ugly then ask him why is he going out with you. i understand where you are coming from but girl you really need to take control of that. im serious dont let him run all over you. just listening to your question gave me the exact answer what to tell you. ya you probably shouldnt listen to some people on advisenators. but im telling you hes not worth your time nomatter who hes is. dont worry about how you will feel if your guys break up. you will be better off, finding some one who is hotter then him and will treat you better. i promise you this boy is bad. either you should break up with him or get him back! say he said you were ugly? say well thats not what (make up a boys name) thinks. say he mentions the prom again and something about going with his ex. say well ya (make up a boy name) is coming over and we are going to make out and blah. just piss him off like he is doing you. but you are better off breaking up with him. or cheat on him. and if he says he dont care that a boy comes over then thats when you know he dont care about you. if he says he dont care, its most likely because hes not worried because hell be doing stuff with other girls. i hope i helped you out. take this advise plz. i dont know you but hes not treating you right.

&♥ kayla
if you want to talk IM me on aim: lxyippi or boo you wh0re

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My computer is not recognizing my camrea as being plugged in. I've loaded pictures before, but lately it just isn't working. I have the correct cord, I plug it in to the correct spot but when I go to "aquire images" the screen informs me that a camrea is not detected and that I should check its connection. Does anyone know what's wrong?!

mabe its your internet connection? mabe you need a new cord? mabe you need a new camera? mabe you need new batteries? or mabe your computer is just messed up. i dont think i have the same cam as u so i wouldnt know. go to the place you bought it and ask them. or call them.

hope i helped.
love kayla

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What does "friends with benefits" mean

to be friends with someone but do sexual things with them

| x love kayla

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I need help! I decided to tell the guy I like the truth---but what do I say to him exactly? Pls. help me! I don't have enough time! tnx :)

You should of worded that alittle better. but its ok.

well anyways... tell him you rather him tell you the truth then lie about ____ ! thats basically what i would say.

i dont really understand the question but if u word it better then IM me on aim at boo you wh0re

|x kayla

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ok im 13 female and i first got my period in october of 2005 and i havent seen it since. no i havent has sex but i do masturbate so does that have any effect on it or what? also i guess i discharge. my main question is, whats the difference from cum and a discharge for a girl? it looks the same and what nots. please give me good answers!!!!!! i rate HIGH!!!

disharge comes in a thicker substance. and i dont think you get discharge after you masterbate or have sex. i think it comes when it wants and goes when it wants.

hope i helped.
love kayla

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These past few days I've hardly eaten anything. I mean I'll be hungry then when the food is put infront of my I'll eat like 4 bites then I'll be really full! Usually I can eat a full meal but now I can bearly eat anything. I'm currently active in a competative sport so I need the food but I can't make myself eat it because I get so full so quickly I begin to feel sick, is something wrong with me?

mabe if your depressed that can be something that can make u not want to eat as much. if this problem persists go to a doctor.

love kayla

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What are the symptoms of depression?

- not wanting to do the things u used to like to do.

- mabe being tired alot

- feeling unwanted

- crying alot

- eating rarely

- having a idc additude
- being quiet

theres more on this link.
http://www.focusas.com/Depression.html

hope i helped.
love kayla

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I've been losing alot of hair lately, mainly when I take a shower/bath there is a large amount of hair on top of the drain and when ever I run my hand though my hair there is always a few strands.
so I was wondering if its because of bad nutrition, dying my hair, or from straighting it.
I've died my hair many times before just this time its black. So maybe I'm just seeing all the hair now because its black and not the light brown it was before.
I'm vegan so I know I don't get enough calcium or protein ( I take a multivitamin for everything else ).
So could my hair loss be because of either those three things or some other reason?

you can lose it if you are stressed out. ive had this problem before. mine went away and i never got any bald spots. it can be because you dyed your hair alot, because thats not healthy. then again it could be because you arent getting anough nutrition. if this problem persists then i would see a doctor or something.

&♥; kayla

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Hi. I am 14. My mom is VERY hard to work with. I have talked about shaving before, and she says "Why honey? Who do you need to impress?" I dont want to impress anyone I just want to shave. Well, if you can help me try and talk her into it or something. THANKS~

i started shaving my legs when i was like 12.my mom really didnt notice i just told her. i would just do it anyways. if she grounds you over something like that or disiplines you then thats stupid. explain to her that all your friends do it and you dont feel comfortable with hair on your legs. sit down and talk to her about this. dont just ask her and then let her answer stay.

hope i helped.
xO;; kayla

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my name is Rachel and iam 16 years old and my Granny is always telling me that iam to fat for my own good and is always telling me that I need to lose weight and iam getting sick of it and she also talks really bad about my mom and it's begining to really hurt my feelings and I've tried talking to her,but she just won't listen.Granny also has really low blood just becouse she's cold in 90 degree weather she thinks that I should be cold to she makes me cover up with 2 blankets and turn on the heater on 80 degrees so iam boiling i've tried telling her it's to hot for the heater,but i'll cover up with 1 blanket,but she won't listen what should I do?

tell her that just because she is older then you doesnt mean that you and her share the same feelings. buy her a space heater and put it by her when she tell you too. and go in the other room. you sure it will be hot, but you can by you a fan. and mabe she talks about you and your mom because she is getting old and depressed. just ignore her. my friends granny is really old and thats all she does is talk about people. she always has to get a word in nomatter what. just ignore her or tell her to shut up. or leave the room. if you know your not fat then it shouldnt bother you. dont cut, starve yourself, or anything else just because she says stuff that you know is not true. the best thing is to ignore her though.

hope i helped.
love kayla

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