uggh i dont even know where to begin. thanks for reading this and trying to help but seriously what youre about to read is alot!
ok so i was going out with this guy last year and i got back together with him this year a few months ago.. well i broke up with him because he wasnt acting like my boyfriend but i still wanted to be friends.
my ex best friend (lets call her bob).. ok i got into a fight with her and i really didnt do anything and she ended up turning everyone against me, we made up a long time after but i found out she was pretty much mad at me for no reason she pretty much picked a fight, well.. theres another girl who was my best friend last year (lets call her billy) and i found out that they made a plan to get me jealous of them being best friends and after they found out i broke up with my bf they were happy (they liked him) and pretty much everyone in my school likes him that knows him.. and we had a party the day i broke up with him and he was sad when i wasnt there but as soon as i got there he was acting all happy and hanging out with my two "ex best friends" and he knows i hate them. so at the party bob asked me if she can go out with him because she found out he wanted to go out with her (this was the same day i broke up with him). what pisses me off is that he is only doing this to get revenge with me and shes doing the same probaly just like she had the plan with billy..
theres more to this that i didnt mention but really i dont know what i should do!
Additional info, added Sunday April 2 2006, 8:56 pm: hey i have more to this whole thing! sorry! well.. billy and bob are acting like they want to be friends with me and im totally ignoring them! they think im stupid and that i have no clue about their little evil "plan".. the thing is.. the person who told me about their plan i found out also likes him too.. all my "friends" were in it for me from the beggining all because of this guy! and i know youre going to probaly say to forget about them and stuff and trust me im going to do that but alot of people hate me because of bob (from the fight we had) she was saying i wasnt being a good friend to her when i was being the total opposite of a bad friend and she admitted it and stuff but didnt set the other people straight.. people these days only care about revenge and to hurt people!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Kayendall06 answered Monday April 3 2006, 11:18 am: They are being bad friends, although you already know that. You need to find some other friends, a new guy. Once you have new friends that do not care about all that crap in the past, and a new guy that knows the same, you will be able to start a new reputation =)
YouxAmazexMex3 answered Sunday April 2 2006, 8:09 pm: okay. i know how you feel.ive gone thourgh it plenty of times. you just need to make new friends. it's prob. the best thing to do. just forget "billy && bob". they are complete losers! i hope this helps and if you need anything just leave something in the inbox
XOXKAYLA answered Sunday April 2 2006, 7:56 pm: i agree with toxic paradise.theres nothing much you can do. if he picked you over his friends then its not meant to be.he probably would of ended up cheating on you if he liked her. the best thing you could do is move on and show them that it dont bother you. or fight them that what i would do.
BlackBatman answered Sunday April 2 2006, 7:53 pm: Well they're all backstabing. I think the best thing that you should do for now is to stay away from all of them, because they will all just try to cause trubble.
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t0xicParadiSe answered Sunday April 2 2006, 7:45 pm: Why would you want to be friends with people who only want to get revenge on you when you did nothing wrong and only want to hurt you and cause you pain? You should move on and forget about them because you don't need poeple like that in your life.
I know this probably didn't help much but that's pretty much all you can do.
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