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another guy problem ...
Well im a 15/f and recently i started talking to this guy i have liked for awhile now, well he started talking to me actually but you get the point. so anyways my friends all think he likes me because we never really said much to eachother in school but then randomly like a week ago, he commented my myspace saying hey, how are you, etc and now we've been talking like 2 hours every day, sometimes even till like 2 in the morning! soo i dont know, im really shy, and hes really shy, and he has alot of girls that are friends, and i have no clue how to tell if hes flirting with me or if he likes me. i've kind of invited him to a few things, like to a school basketball game but we dont talk that much in person, in fact in person we usually only say things like hey was^? and then we go our seperate ways. i have no clue how to act, im not good with guys at all, and sometimes when we talk online we have like a minute or 2 of silence where we both dont know really what to talk about, i mean when we have something to talk about it flows and is comfortable but when those silences happen its like in person when we talk and seem to be too nervous, or he just doesnt want to talk to me! i have no clue help and im soo sorry this is long but i have noone to talk to thats not biast because they are my friend!
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dont worry, this happens all the time you know the awkward silences for even people who arent shy. you should ask him what he thinks about you.. or even have a friend.. i mean what is the worst thing he could possibly say? either he says he likes you or he doesnt.. you guys can either be a couple or just be friends, its worth a shot. good luck =)
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He seems like he likes you now, becuase he comments your myspace and other things. Did he come to the basketball game that you invited him to you? He probably will ask you out, and to get conversations more flowing, you could ask him some where (GET THAT INNER COURAGE OUT) and you could both bring a friend along and double =)
♥ Kendall
GOOD LUCK WITH THE BOY.
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Ok so mabe your not the best with boys. im shy too, but if it really comes down to where you want to know if he likes you then just ask him. just say i cant tell if your flirting with me or if you just want to be friends. he wont think bad about you i promise. i mean what can he do? if he says he likes you then i guess those other girls might not matter to him. when there is silence just tell him what you did today or something speacil that happend. i bet hed love to hear how you feel about him. silience is normal. if you guys are both speachless then its not bad. just be strong and ask him if he doesnt tell you how he feels. i promise you wont regret it.
i know this sounds weird but if you have aim and u want me to ask him for you then i will. IM me misslilcupkake or boo you wh0re
hope i helped
love kayla
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Well, if he has a lot of friends that are girls, and hes single, then chances are that he hasn't found a gf yet or he just dosen't want one. If you're conversations with him go on and off then you should just find a way to talk to him that will keep him interested. Talk about something he likes, or something you like. And if all else fails just bring up a random subject. In time, if things change, then you could consider dating him or something along those lines.
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