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I fell lost. Dont know how to start a new life alone. I do not have any skills not good at really anything. My heart is broken. What can I do too make it stop and find a direction?
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Well first question is how old are you? If you are still in school of any sort, you can focus on your work and other activities you enjoy like maybe sports or music or art or something until the heartache goes away. You will feel pain from time to time, but it will eventually subside once you have found a passion. Love and relationships are not everything...you have to do things that you can keep on doing no matter what happens.
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A broken heart isn't something you can stop just like that, but it is something that goes away in time. In order to get over it, you need to face it and that is why I think you should think of all the GOOD times in your relationship, look at photos and write about it as a diary of sorts. Have a good cry about it if you haven't already. Then take a long bath, candles, mags, chocs n all! Try hard not to think of your relationship as you lie there.
Then as your drying your hair, think of the negative things about your relationship. Think about them in the way that this guy has been a total arsehole to you (even if its just the fact that he has dumped you!) and get angry. While getting yourself all dolled up, dance and sing to some really feel good songs. I recommend Kelly Clarkson, Since you've been gone (is working for me). Then go for a night out with your friends, go to clubs or a restaurant and flaunt to all those men out there why you are so great!
The day after, try to keep your good vibes. Think of all the things you enjoy and try to do as many of them as possible. Now would be the time to start something new, such as a martial art, which would not only give you something to concentrate on but would be a symbol of your new life. As for your skills, look to your friends to help you discover something that is for you. Friends are always more able to recognise our strong points than ourselves and can help you find a new path, if not that at least the support you need right now.
Its just an idea, but I hope I helped somewhat. I've just split with my boyfriend so I know to a small extent what your feeling. Good luck hunni
Sapphire Lily xxx
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You sound so sad.... but you want to be happy again. Force yourself to get up everyday and do the things you absolutely have to, then add in a few things that you want to do. You will be happy again, but it will take time.
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ok i dont know if you are a girl or a boy. but if you are a boy hey im single!! lol
anyways i think you might just be a little over depressed? ive felt just like this before. its normal.. well find some one that you want to be with. and go find stuff that you like to do. dont sit around the house it will make you more miserable. if you want to talk then you can IM me on aim- misslilcupkake
ill be able to talk to you more if you give me alittle bit more details..
hope i helped
love kayla
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