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the guy is not answering my call
I am a 16 year old girl. I met this 22 year old guy online at a chat room and we met. We became really very good friends, and within few months (7 months to be precise), i fell for him. After 3 months since we met, we met again, and I felt from his behaviour that he too loves me, though he never told me. He kept on calling, or if I called him up, he said what kept me so long. He has also helped me a lot coping with my studies, and also nosy parents. A close friend of mine also felt that this guy has something for me. On her advice, I let her e-mail the guy (using her mail ID) and told him that she feels I love him. She made it look like I didn't know she mailed him, and also she mailed me another e-mail saying that that guy loves me (though i knew she made up the mail). I was to behave that it was a surprising mail, and my friend's idea was to know this guy's mind. But he said after a fortnight that he doesn't love me, but he thought I was his best friend and he is ready anytime to call me his best friend if I still liked to maintain the friendship. I readily agreed, but he is no longer the same guy. He answered my call once only to say that he was busy and he'd call me back. He didn't and now he's hot answering my call. I dont call him anymore (for more than two weeks), but I just cannot forget him. I dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP!
-Bishakta Manush
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to me this guy seems like he didnt know what he wanted...mabe he has a girlfriend? it was wrong of him ofcourse, but i have these problems all the time.
my story is down below if you want to read it. i think its kind of similar to yours.
i met this boy on buddypic and he's 17 and im 14. well i found out he lived close to me so like 2 weeks after we met he came to my house and picked me up at my house on a saterday. the friday before that saterday he was supposed to pick me up from school. but he got in a car wreck on his way to pick me up. so anyways ya he picked me up on saterday and we drove around and got pulled over because his tail light went out. after that we went to my friends house and i really wanted to stay the night with him ( not for nothing sexual). and he said ya at first but then when we went to my friends he was like no. i thought i might be able to change his mind on his way to drop me off at home. but i couldnt. i wasnt acting myself that night. and beforeme and him met we talked to much. i asked him that night if he would come back so i can see him on sunday and he promised. and theni talked to him sunday and he said hes not going to. i felt so bad. i really liked this boy and i thought we had something. but now we dont talk. its tuesday and i met him last saterday. he says the reason why he dont think things will work is because he thinks im bad luck. and because im young. and because he likes other girls but he dont know. when i mention going out with him hes like"kayla".... it really hurts but i have to except it.
hope i helped.
love kayla
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Alright hun just let me say one thing.. grown up, not trying to be mean but he is 22 and you are only 16. I know you think you may love him but hun hes a grown man meaning he has a whole different way of living than you do. Being friends is just fine and good but being a couple is probably something he didnt want i know it may hurt to let him go because you do have a crush on him but you just have to remember that, he could hurt you. Not saying he would but you have to be very careful on things like this. Give it some time youll meet someone around your age and youll forget about wanting to go with this 22 year old and swoon over the other guy, thats why there called crushes it hurts when you cant talk to them.
My advice to you is just give it some time and just be friends with him dont try and be his girlfriend, because he probably does want someone a little older to be in a relationship with. Dont be so eager to grow up trust me stay a teen as long as you can. I hope i helped a little if not im truly sorry i tried. Hope to hear from you soon to see how this turned out.
~*~ Short N Punky ~*~
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