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I'm 5'7, brown hair and eyes. I'm a freshman right now. I'm single right now. I'm a very big tomboy and I love givin advice.
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Location: Granite city
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Age: 15
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Ok Im 15 nd having a baby nd will the baby take the fathers last name or mine or is it our choice? (link)
the last name is your choice not his. if i was you i would stick with your last name because young guys have tendicies of leaving. if u guys do stay together and get married etc. then u can change the last name to his.


hey im a 26/f married,and i recently found out that im pregnant and i need some creative ways to tell my parents and my inlaws, im my parents only child so my pregnancy is really going to be exciting for them and i'll be the first pregnant out of my husbands family too so i need some thing really good and creative. thanx a bunch (link)
go shopping and like get something like a baby outfit that says i love my grandparents or something like that, that makes it known your expecting. and go to your family's house and just be like ohh mom dad i went shopping the other day and found something i thought you guys would love and have it n a bag and give it to them to open. it will be sweet. not bad creativity for only being 15.


hi i was wandering if anyone could help me find a cute middle name.... my daughters first name is gonna be Kylee ( pernounced like (kigh leigh) and i need a cute middle name to match with it. i appreaciate it! Thanks!!
*sarah* (link)
kylee christine i think its cute and has a nice lil ring to it.


Are men put off by stretchmarks? (link)
i have stretch marks i wont lie there pretty bad. but i seem to find alot of guys who just dont care i havent found a guy yet who is grossed out. heck me n a old b/f would sit there n talk bout them. sometimes compare. you dont have stretch marks all the time cause your fat and you lose weight. i have them cuz i grew to fast.


This is weird, but Im TERRIFIED of sex. Im 14. But, I hate to think about which is weird because I masturbate all the time..but to think of something actually going in there is scary to me. Ive tried to put tampons in before and even that KILLS..I only get half way and I stop. Can anyone tell me if sex really hurts? On a scale of 1-10? Is there any pain sex compares to? Is it worth it? (link)
the first time at sex hurts the worst i would rate it a 9 for pain. but at the same time I can take pain pretty well and how it sounds for you it will feel like knifes cutting through your vagina. im not saying this to freak you out more but you deserve the truth so im giving it. sex is worth the pain. the pain will hurt for about 5-10 minutes and then it will feel good. the only way pain will come back is if you go on to a bigger penis.


I have been with my now boyfriend for a while. It is obvious that we both want to have sex but we never have. I really want to and I feel it would be a great experiance being my first time and all but sense he has never tryd and ive never done it before i dont really know how to make it happen if you know what I mean. I dont really want to say right now "lets have sex" i just want it to happen naturaly and have it be sweet but i think that he doesnt want to pressure me but i am ready and i want to. i will rate high on anyone that can help me figure out how to make it happen in an un-weird way (link)
There has been several time's I have wanted sex but had trouble getting it started. The thing that worked best for me is just get it were you guys are alone and you know would be a time that you want to have sex. just talk and kind of drop hints that you want sex with out saying that. if he is smart after awhile he should catch on if not just kind of start kissing him and messing with his turn on spots if he doesnt catch on then just come out and be like I wanna try having sex if you want to. you dont have to be nervous if your both virgins together it will be a learning experience.
hope i help!


Hey i am 16 years old and i had this boyfriend and we were getting pretty serious but i would break up with him like everyday cause he would just do stupid stuff or ignore me sometimes in the hallways at skool...well he started to wanna do sexual stuff to eachother and he wanted to have sex and i felt so pressured so one day i ended up letting him finger me, and he just wanted more so i had a long talk with him telling him that i wanted to wait till marrige for sex..and 2 days later he broke up with me i was devistated and now he has been nothing but rude to me and the other night we were fighting and he had the nerve to ask me to wait for him over the summer after telling me that he hated me,he says that he needs time to matture and learn how to be a better b/f. well we got in another fight cause i found out he was trying to get close to some girl who is a well...whore and he got all mad and told me to forget waiting on him and i wouldn't let that happen.so he told me that i had all summer to find someone else and if not then we were gonna spend h.s together? i dont know what to think or what he wants? will you please help me i am so confused. did he just want sex? or does he really need to learn how to be matture? do i wait till summer is over and skool starts again for him? we havn't talked in over a week though...=( (link)
He seems like he is searching for a lasting relationship but not a healthy one. It sounds like he is trying to mature into a sexual partner.If you dont want to be with him tell him because if you let him force you in a relationship then he will force you into sex.The long term relationship he wants seems to involve sex in it and if your not comfortable you need to tell him right off the back so he knows.
hope I helped.
daniknos


I think I am fat. like my belly and thighs are really really fat. nobody else thinks im fat

i wana go to the pool but im embarressed. please help! (link)
Your only fat if your stomach sticks out further then you breast.


What does "black on black" mean? (link)
black on black means were u wear a black t-shirt with black pants its pretty much black clothing with black clothing.
hope i help


my ex moved 1000 miles away almost 2 years ago. we had lost touch for a while... now we talk all the time. it's like he just popped into the picture again. I really love him... what should i do? or say? (link)
You haven't seen or heard from him in 2 years it's normal for you to have feelings coming back all of a sudden.Just wait to find out how he feels before you say something he doesn't need to hear or you may not mean.
daniknos


is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13? (link)
no that is normal that is when your homones start to kick in
so dont worry


well, the girlfriend and i were havin sex last night...i came in the condom i was wearing, then pulled out....but she kept things goin till i got erect again about 15 minutes later...still wearing that same condom with the cum in it, we started having sex again...the condom then broke a few minutes later...i pulled out as soon as i noticed...but im worried that the cum already in the condom could still possibly get her pregnant??...id really appreciate an answer. Thanks ppl. (link)
yes there is a great chance of her being pregnant. she needs to get a test to find out. but there is also a pill she can take if she goes to the nearest hope clinic that can help prevent pregnacy if tooken by five days later
hope it got to you on time.


I'm f/16, and I was just wondering...The first time I've heard it hurts a lot. Depending on the person of course. For example I've never even wore a tampon, so will it hurt alot for me when I lose my virginity? How much will it hurt, and how much will the pain last for? Will you even feel at least a bit of pleasure anytime in the first time? (link)
a tampon has nothing to do with the pain. When you lose your virginity depending on how you take pain and the penis is how your pain will be. assuming you probably dont take pain well and you screw a guy with an average penis the pain will just feel like your skin is being pulled on and stretched. usually the pain last about five mins. and then the feeling will get better as you go on.
hope i can give you great sex tips need anymore help plz come to me.


ok i just wrote a preivious question yesturday askin wat i should do aobut my boyfriend n today we like got in the "moment" and we had sex and weve been only dating for awhile and then like 2 hours after it happened i finally got the nerve to call him and break up with him because i dont have feelings for him like sum one should if there in a relationship, now i feel like a whore like i just slept with him n now i broke up with him.. wat r people gonna think wat are my friends gonna think... that shouldnt matter but it does to me n i just dont kno wat to do its all just so confusing i just dunno wat to do i cant even talk to my ex now cuz of wat just haoppened he probably thinks its cuz we had bad se(it wasnt) oh if i just uused him and this is all running througfh my head n i just dunno wat to do or think will sum 1 please please help me!!
thanx (link)
your not a dirty whore if you were one you would've of skipped the dating step. if anything is said to you about that blow it off tell them its your emotions and relationship and you can feel and do what you please.

p.s-if you worried about what he will think just explain your feelings you felt when you guys broke up so he knows it wasent just for the sex.


My mom workshift has changed, so she is no longer able to take me to school. So now I have to ride a bike to school. And I just feel so embarrased. People in the car when they drive by sometimes laugh and point. So I just want to know how does everyone else get to school. You know do you take the bus, ride, walk, bike, etc. (link)
dont feel bad about having to ride a bike i dont own a bike so before i moved i had to walk everyday now i get a ride and my mom drives a 87 chevelar all different rusty color's
hope embarrasment is gone


I am 13, and all my friends shave their legs except me and one other peron. I always tell my mom to wash my sweat pants. She is like "If your wearing thooses just because you don't shave your legs than well go to the store and get you a razor!" And of course I say "What, No Mom!" because I don't like talking to her about that kind of stuff.(shaving, periods, dating, boys, whatever)
I want to shave because every one always looks at me wierd when they can see my legs and I have never worn a skirt shorter that my ankles since I was a little kid. I REALLY want to shave my legs, but I just don't how to tell my mom or what to say to her. What should I do? (link)
Well I know how hard it is to tell your mother things you wanna do that show maturity if you are that determined to shave then you can go by razors yourself or just use one's at your house. tellen your mom these things wont end the world it might be a little weird at first but it will open you up more to your mother.
hope i helped


what does it mean when a guy wants to "get his mack on" w/ girls? thanks. ill rate for good answers =] (link)
i say that word a lot when a guy says he wants to get his mack on it means he is planning to go out and find alot of girls who wanna hook up or date or just fool around.
i hope thats the answer your looken for


okay well i have a friend who is 16 and pregnant (about 7 weeks if that matters at all)

well she just started coming to my school at the beggining of this year and i would say im one of the people in the school who is closest to her.

ive havent accually met her bf but ive talked to him online a few times and hes really worried about her and wants be to help her but i dont know how. they have been together for 3 years and i would say they really are too layed back. they have unprotected sex alot and have gotten high and drunk on several occasions and atleast once since shes been preggo (her dad has drug problems as well) and they dont have the greatest background so i really dont expect much from them. but i dont know how to get her to chance her ways! her bf has tried but i guess she wont listen. she doesnt eat well and do what she could to help her baby out..

and she doesnt even have a job or plan on getting one b/c her mom is paying for anything but i think she still needs some resposiblity and so does her her bf (who realizes this atleast)




what can i do? (link)
if i was u,u just need to tell her that a child can not be raised in this atmosphere. and make it known that if she cant support her child then things could get bad not only for her but the baby. let her know that drinking and smoking can kill the baby or do long term damage and make her situation worse then what it is. i know u wanna be a good friend and support her and u can but by not keeping it real with her is also hurting u.
i hope i helped


ok so prom's coming up and im a sophomore and my boyfreind (whos a junior) is taking me. I just dont know what kind of dress to get....short or long or what?

cuz like i know long is for homecoming and short for winterfest/sadies...whatever...but i havent been to prom yet soo any help? (link)
Well depending on your style will help you pick the design as far as the length i would go with long because it has the elegant look to it but if u have a great pair of legs then go with that.
sorry if i dont help you


my Granny told me that my mom dosn't care about me what should I do? (link)
take it up with your mom she is the one with the feelings and can set you straight.

i hope i help




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