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is he nervous to?
I have been with my now boyfriend for a while. It is obvious that we both want to have sex but we never have. I really want to and I feel it would be a great experiance being my first time and all but sense he has never tryd and ive never done it before i dont really know how to make it happen if you know what I mean. I dont really want to say right now "lets have sex" i just want it to happen naturaly and have it be sweet but i think that he doesnt want to pressure me but i am ready and i want to. i will rate high on anyone that can help me figure out how to make it happen in an un-weird way
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okay i'm a guy and i had the same problem with my gal cause we were both nervous,so most guys will wait for girls to start cause if they are the sensitive type they won't want to make you feel pressured or anything like that.here are some tips that me and my friends have come up with
1)While you guys are talking, slide your finger in his mouth and take out repeatedly, then slide your hands down to his pants but don't unzip it and rub it gently.I guarantee he will be all over you in a milisecond.
2)The funny thing about guys is that they are more turned on with girls that show a little than a girl that bares all.For instance,we like to do girls with uniforms on or with shoes on,yeah i know it's wierd.So you shouldn't walk in the room naked.You should show a lot of legs and thighs and definitely let him sit on the couch while you stand on the couch in front of him and wear a mini skirt.Instant sex.
3)While you guys make out, rub yourself on his cock,something like dry humping, but more rubbing,the rest is yours.
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First you need to talk to him about sex.. Being able to talk about sex with your boyfriend is very important.. If you aren't able to talk to him about it then your not ready to have sex. After you talk to him theres a few other things you need to consider like protection... my advice would be if your havings sex or think your ready to have sex. Go to your doctor or to a Planned Parent Hood clinic and get put on birth control.. You can never be too safe. Don't rush things if it was ment to happen then it will happen but make sure you talk to him.. .I hope this helps
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The thing about sex, is you are eventually going to have to talk about it before you do it. Just be like, "Would you ever consider having sex with me?" and make sure to explain to him why it is you want to. If you aren't mature to talk about sex, you aren't mature to do it. If you aren't comfortable talking about sex with your partner, then you aren't ready. That's what i've came to find out over the past few years. If you want it to happen naturally, just go with the flow. But for this to happen, someone has to be the 'pusher' if you know what I mean. Apparently it will be you, and what you need to do is kiss him, then start making out, unzip is pants.. slowly and watch his reaction. If he seems unsure, take it down a notch and go back to just kissing, and continue doing this. It will eventually happen if you get things started.
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There has been several time's I have wanted sex but had trouble getting it started. The thing that worked best for me is just get it were you guys are alone and you know would be a time that you want to have sex. just talk and kind of drop hints that you want sex with out saying that. if he is smart after awhile he should catch on if not just kind of start kissing him and messing with his turn on spots if he doesnt catch on then just come out and be like I wanna try having sex if you want to. you dont have to be nervous if your both virgins together it will be a learning experience.
hope i help!
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Just try seducing him in your room somewhere. like, invite him over to your house, pop in a movie and in the middle of it, sorta go from a kiss, to a make-out, to maybe getting on top of him and making out. This would give him ideas about sex. And if you dont want to do this, there is nothing wrong with talking to him about it. Hope I have helped :]
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I say, just be somewhere romantic and just have a really nice night. if its going to happen it will, dont worry to much about planning out what to say or how to act. just be yourself and let your actions do the talking for you. if he doesnt pressure you into doing anything. he sounds like a keeper =] i hoped that helped.
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