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Last Update: July 27, 2006
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hi..i want to know exactly how they give you brithcontrol...if i would for example go to the doctor what would i have to get done to get it...blood tests or pap smear????i heard you dont need to get a pap smear until you start having sex...i havent yet but i am planning to and i want to get birth control..
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When you go to the doctor there gonna want to give you a pap smear.. Just because of the fact that they need to know what kinda birth control to give you... There gonna ask you lots of questions. Everyone makes pap smears sound so bad and nasty.. but honestly there really not that bad... you just feel pressure
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my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say. (link)
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If you have been with him for a long time then there should be no problem... Just be honest with him its really no big deal its a part of life we can't stop it and im sure he would understand.. so next time just come out and be like no i can't and when he asks why just tell him its that time of the month...
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My boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. We've had phone sex before, but i know thats much different. He once said "I want to make you cum" and after that I got really self concious. I know Im able to cum, I can feel an orgasm, but am I suppose to actually like "cum" as in like liquid stuff? Lol. My boyfriend asked me once and he was wondering if I came alot and I told him yes, but truthfully I dont ever come like THAT. I feel it but its never like....coming out of me... Is it suppose to be? Is there something wrong with me? Im nervous becuase I think thats something that gets him really excited...I can get wet but its never like how he assumes....Im really scared about him being insecure if i dont cum like that and he thinks that its a normal thing for me. What do I tell him? (link)
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Theres a big difference between girls cumin and guys comin. When guys cum it goes everywhere.. when girls cum it just gets wet down there... sum girls get really wet and sum girls don't.. Then theres girls that actually do cum like guys sorta but not really it just squirts out a lil bit.. but most girls just get a lil wet down there. Don't be nervous its completely normal.. I hope this helps
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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There's no way that your ready.. You have only been with him for a week. I would give it a few months before u even think about sex. But for now i think that you should go online and so some research on safe sex. Talk to your boyfriend about sex if your not able to talk to him about sex then your def. not ready to have sex
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I have been with my now boyfriend for a while. It is obvious that we both want to have sex but we never have. I really want to and I feel it would be a great experiance being my first time and all but sense he has never tryd and ive never done it before i dont really know how to make it happen if you know what I mean. I dont really want to say right now "lets have sex" i just want it to happen naturaly and have it be sweet but i think that he doesnt want to pressure me but i am ready and i want to. i will rate high on anyone that can help me figure out how to make it happen in an un-weird way (link)
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First you need to talk to him about sex.. Being able to talk about sex with your boyfriend is very important.. If you aren't able to talk to him about it then your not ready to have sex. After you talk to him theres a few other things you need to consider like protection... my advice would be if your havings sex or think your ready to have sex. Go to your doctor or to a Planned Parent Hood clinic and get put on birth control.. You can never be too safe. Don't rush things if it was ment to happen then it will happen but make sure you talk to him.. .I hope this helps
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