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how do you tell a guy you are on your period without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?
my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say.
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You can kinda be a smart ass about it by saying
unless you want menstural blood on your hands then go for it
that way its kinda funny and sarcastic which makes it less awkward.
hope this helps!!!
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If you have been with him for a long time then there should be no problem... Just be honest with him its really no big deal its a part of life we can't stop it and im sure he would understand.. so next time just come out and be like no i can't and when he asks why just tell him its that time of the month...
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just be like soo to many cramps. wrong timee of the month
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Just tell him youre on your period. If youve been with the guy a long time, who cares, its a normal female function that HE WILL INDEED have to deal with once a month. He'll get over it, I promise :)
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hi- you can't just tell him the real reason because he might get freaked out. say that its not a good week or even stay away from him that week.(i don't mean to not see him but leave before he tries to start and get out of that mess) i hope i helped.
~adriana♥
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Every girl goes through it and Im sure by now, your boyfriend knows that.
Dont just blurt out, "Im on my period" that may gross him out, instead say something like "Its not a good week for me"
And if he gets freaked out, hes being immature about the whole situation.
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simply say.. "wrong time of the month" & just give him a quick kiss
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Just be honest with him. He's your boyfriend, and almost every guy would be understanding. Simply say, "(Name), i'm on my period so now isn't a good time." Kind of laugh about it so it won't be so awkward. Trust me, he'll appreciate the heads up.
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He's your boyfriend and you knew for a long time rite, so jus tell him not like Im on my period, sugar coat it. IM ON MY DOT, we can do it later after my DOT is gone
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i would just tell him i got my period.every woman gets a period just think you wouldnt want to start a fight over something that takes 2 seconds to tell him your raggin just tell him do youn want a bloody finger?
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just tell him to respect your opinion and that you dont want it today!hell obviously get it.and if he keeps annoying the hell outta you tell him nicely in a nice sweet tone not today pleases i have my period :p whats he gonna do run outta the room screaming!? haha no dont worry
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Periods are normal, in fact if you didnt have them, that would be weird! lol. I know it can be a little embarassing though to have to tell the one your dating your on your period, but sometimes it's gotta be done. If he gets weirded out at all about it then he is to immature for you. Here are some "cute lil phrases you can say instead of saying I'm on my period. Here's my personal favorite and one that my husband hears once a month "I'm under construction"...lmao! or here's a couple more
"I'm raggin"
"I'm temporarily broken"
Good luck to ya' and remember...Don't be embarrased to tell him. Your a woman and you should always be proud of that!~
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Having periods is totally normal............it shows that we are healthy. You shouldn't be embarrassed by them.
I am surprised if your boyfrind doesn't know what they are and if he is freaked out then he is totally immature and pathetic.
Besides, no offense, but what the hell are you doing with a guy when you can't even trust him enough to tell him that you are on your period? :)
Vick x
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i actually had this conversation with my friends last night haha =) okay basically, you have to straight out tell him. yeah it'll be awkward but he is your boyfriend. not some random guy, ya know?? if he tries, juss be like "not the right time" er something. he should take the hint. but anyway, being straight forward is a lot better so that you won't have to go into detail. that could become more awkward than before.
-hope that helped!♥
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