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i feel like a trashy whore
ok i just wrote a preivious question yesturday askin wat i should do aobut my boyfriend n today we like got in the "moment" and we had sex and weve been only dating for awhile and then like 2 hours after it happened i finally got the nerve to call him and break up with him because i dont have feelings for him like sum one should if there in a relationship, now i feel like a whore like i just slept with him n now i broke up with him.. wat r people gonna think wat are my friends gonna think... that shouldnt matter but it does to me n i just dont kno wat to do its all just so confusing i just dunno wat to do i cant even talk to my ex now cuz of wat just haoppened he probably thinks its cuz we had bad se(it wasnt) oh if i just uused him and this is all running througfh my head n i just dunno wat to do or think will sum 1 please please help me!!
thanx
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your not a dirty whore if you were one you would've of skipped the dating step. if anything is said to you about that blow it off tell them its your emotions and relationship and you can feel and do what you please.
p.s-if you worried about what he will think just explain your feelings you felt when you guys broke up so he knows it wasent just for the sex.
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Aw, don't be so stressed about it. I know, it is a stressful thing, but it can be fixed. Like you said, dont worry about what other people say, but do talk to your ex and tell him it wasnt because of bad sex. Good Luck.
-Brina
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Okay, so you made a mistake. We all make mistakes sometimes. :)
The good thing about this is that what happened was just between you and your ex. People aren't going to think anything because they can never know what really happened. If your boyfriend blabs about it, there's no proof. It's just your word against his. You don't have to tell your friends what happened and you can lie about it if it comes up. I don't think it's the greatest of ideas to tell them the truth just yet. Protect yourself from even more pain. You know what you did was wrong, you don't need everyone else telling you that too and making it into something it's not. Just try to relax and be prepared to defend yourself by lying. Other people have a hard time understanding this kind of thing. They don't know what it was like to be in your situation so they can't know what you went through and what you were thinking at the time. There is a good reason why anyone does anything. You had a good reason too, at the time, and other people just won't get that. What you need to do is feel better about what happened, accept it, and be able to take ridicule for it before anyone knows the truth. I hope that you feel better soon. What you did wasn't that terrible. Good luck.
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If you didnt have feelings for him you shouldn't have done it. Whether you were in the moment or not. You should just tell him that You didn't have feelings for him and you thought it would get better or something... that way he doesnt think you were using him.
As for your friends -- they should totally understand you breaking up with him. As for having sex with him and then breaking up with him a few hours later is what they might not get. They're your friends so just tell them what happened.
Rae <3
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that doesnt make you a whore, you were only with him and he was your bf. i know it might be hard but just let it go. things happen, and they happen for a reason.
♥
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that really doesn't make you a whore.
i promise to you.
if you are sleeping around and breaking up with guys right after and shit like that.
then you could say that people like that is a whore.
but did you do that?
do you do that?
think about it.
do you really think your a whore.
did you have strong feelings for him, before.?
ask your self these questions
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that really doesn't make you a whore.
but when you guys were in the mood, did you still have strong feelings for him.
did you ever have strong feelings for him?
think about it.
think about what your gunna do before you do it.
i personally don't think your a whore.
and you shouldn't either.
but just don't do it with other guys all the time. then that will make you a whore basically.
so yah.
lovess <3
//soraya//
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That does not make you a trashy whore. You thought you had feelings for someone. That is not a crime. You did something that just proved to you that your feelings weren't as strong as you might have thought they were. Your friends will learn to except that.
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