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This is weird, but Im TERRIFIED of sex. Im 14. But, I hate to think about which is weird because I masturbate all the time..but to think of something actually going in there is scary to me. Ive tried to put tampons in before and even that KILLS..I only get half way and I stop. Can anyone tell me if sex really hurts? On a scale of 1-10? Is there any pain sex compares to? Is it worth it?
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Your first time is the worst.
The best advice I can give for your first time
is well, to get drunk.
I have a high pain tolerence but I'd place it
around a...7.
But the more you do it the less it hurts.
After the first time you've made it through the worst.
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the first time at sex hurts the worst i would rate it a 9 for pain. but at the same time I can take pain pretty well and how it sounds for you it will feel like knifes cutting through your vagina. im not saying this to freak you out more but you deserve the truth so im giving it. sex is worth the pain. the pain will hurt for about 5-10 minutes and then it will feel good. the only way pain will come back is if you go on to a bigger penis.
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ok well i lost my virginity a few weeks ago
it seriously was a 10.
but it gets better .. trust me =)
and yes .. very much worth it
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awe i had the same problam like two weeks ago..
i was so afaid.
i had sex with my boyfreind and i didnt even get a tampon in and it didnt hurt
i thought it would be soo scary because everyone made it seem like it was but it wasnt at all.
and it hurt for like a secound but then it didnt at all.
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You may not be putting the tampon on correctlyl. sex is the pain worth it? yes when u wantn children.. before that? why!?
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um that's because you're obviously not putting the tampon in right and it hurts duh
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When I lost my virginity it didnt hurt me at all.But everyones first time is different.It could hurt like a ten or it could hurt like nothing or no pain at all.I dont know about being worth it, I guess it all depends on the person.I wouldnt do it if your scared tho...your obviously not ready : give it a few years and you'll be ready.I was scared when I was younger about it to.You get over it when you become familar with it
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for mee sex only hurt about 4-5. but fingering hurt me like 7-8.
just make sure when you do it, you trust the guy that you are with. and for me it was worth it
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If your terrified of sex that just means that your not ready for it.
Sex only hurt for me the first time because I wasn't relaxed enough. My boyfriend and I just went straight into it without playing or anything to start off with.
So on a scale from 1-10 it hurt for me about a 9-10 but that of course doesn't mean that it would be the same for you.
Its not a really bad paid either, i mean it hurts but its not an excruciating pain!
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It's not weird to be terrified of sex. It's also not weird to be terrified of something/anything being inserted up there. It's a scary thought, and i'm sure everyone has been scared of it at one point or another. You think it's weird that you masturbate all the time, but when it comes to having anything else up there it scares you? I think that's pretty much what you're saying, if i'm wrong, please tell me in the feedback. It is different though, because it's YOUR finger going up there. Not someone's penis, and not any other object, like a tampon for instance.
On a scale from 1-10 I would give sex a 9. My first time was really painful (I cried) but then again, i'm a baby. I'm sure it's different levels of pain for everyone. It probably won't hurt as bad for you because you said your masturbate all the time. I didnt, I hardly ever did actually and he only fingered me a few times before we had sex. (I hated the thought of anything being up there also, so you aren't alone on that one).
To be honest, I can't thinkn of anything to compare it to. It's just a really sharp pain. Now that i'm thinking about it, it kind of reminds me of being stung my a hornet, only a lot worse. I am a little strange though, so don't take my word on it.
And is it worth it? When you find the right person that you truely love, the person you can't see yourself without, then yes. It's worth it.
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At that age, It should be normal to be scared of sex. You shouldn't really be doing anything sexual at 14. I lost my virginity when I was 13 and I regret it so much. If you masturbate, You've already streched yourself out a little bit to wher you could be ready but I would not advise you losing your virginity at such a young age. I am almost 16, and like I said, I regret losing mine at such a young age so much. I know now that I should have waited, even a little longer, but it just didn't happen. As for the tampon, there's a certain angle at which you have to put it in for it to go in properly. I say don't do it until you know you're ready and understand it more to where you're not so scared of it.
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look the world record for biggest baby ever born is something like 17 pounds. if the vagina can stretch to squeeze out something that big, a penis is no problem. it will hurt at first, but you'll get used to it and learn to like it. the average penis is like 5 inches, so a baby which is what you can take in there makes a penis look like a dwarf in comparison. i suggest you learn to finger yourself it'll help you later on when you finally do have sex because one you'll know how to put something inside you and you'll be better able to take it. i dunno how much it'd hurt as i'm not a girl. but i know that you can better prepare yourself by doing what a lot of girls do and put your finger, or a toothbrush handle, or hairbrush handle, or even a dildo in there and having some fun. you say you masturbate so try it out, you'll be glad you did both when you try it and in the future when you have sex.
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