well i used to be kind of an ass hole on here but now i decided to be nice.
Gender: Female
Location: lala land
Occupation: high school
Age: 15
Member Since: June 18, 2006
Answers: 46
Last Update: September 6, 2006
Visitors: 3702
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Can somebody help me? I'm starting to get zit outside my vaginal area and I don't how to get rid of it. Please help this a big emergency.
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is it just little red bumps?
if it's where you shaved then it's razor burn
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Okay..Its September 3, 2006. And Im 14 and I have been working on my weight. Im a female and i weigh over 200 pounds. Yes, i know thats really bad. Okay..I want to lose 100 pounds before 9th grade summer, which is summer of 07. I have this drink in the morning which is grapefruit juice and water mixed and i usually have water or crackers at lunch and then when i come home i have more and more water and have little snacks here and there. Do you think I can lose 100 pounds before 9th grade summer if I keep this up?
Thankx Advicenators!! (link)
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100 pounds is a lot to lose but since you're already over weight it will be easier for you than someone who isn't and just wants to lose weight but i think as long as you keep it up and exercize you'll be able to do it.
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I am writing a paper for school about when I went to NYC. I am writing about when I went to Canal Street. Could my english teacher get me in troble for buying fake stuff from Canal Street? (link)
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nah
she can't do shit.
she probably won't even care anyways
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Hi, Im new to this site, but i just really need some advice.
Its my first year in highschool, and I am beyond nervous. I suck at all sports, and next semester I have gym first period. What do we learn in gym in grade 9? Im so scared since I cant hit a volleyball over the net or do a cartwheel and can barely do pushups..
Also, i will be all sweaty, and my hair takes an hour to dry, so what will I do every morning?
Thank you so much. (link)
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haha don't worry about it i was in 9th grade gym last year and i sucked and i just had fun with it it's nothin to worry about no ones going to be like OH MY GOD SHE CAN'T DO SPORTS I DON'T LIKE HER haha but yah you do volleyball and run and we had to do push ups every day and you work out in the work out room and do broom ball and stuff like that don't worry about it
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i have a problem with eating.
like i will eat breakfast and i'll have like a bagel and orange juice but then im like constantly hungry. it's gross. is there anything i can do or certain lowfat things i can eat to make me less hungry. im 13 btw. and i weigh 140 pounds. and i am 5'6" is that too much?
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you should be around 130
so it's not bad
just work out if you wanna lose a couple pounds
nothing to worry about love.
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(not sure if this is in the right category, if not SORRY!) anyway my big problem is i had my FIRST ever period on July 5th, and i havn't had it since! i'm really really worried. and i've never had sex so it wouldn't be that i'm pregnant. (i'm 14)
also, i'm pretty sure it was a period and not my hymen broke. because it lasted for 4 days.
please help me, i've been worried since august 20th! thanks. (link)
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don't worry love♥
your period is irregular for the first 2 years
there's nothing wrong with you or it
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Well, my birthday is in 3 days. I'm turning 14.
My friend Jessica is supposed to come along with my 4 other friends. Jessica hasn't contacted me in 2 days and she didn't even mention my party. I invited her and she said she can most likely come!
But now I want to invite my friend Anne, but I'm not so sure I should because Jessica will get rather mad at me! I'm afraid she'll show up or call if I invited Anne, and I don't want her getting mad because I invited someone else because she didn't call me about it. That's the only reason I would have invited Anne, because Jessica hasn't contacted me in any way.
What should I do!? (link)
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call her.
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Which do you prefer, iPod or MP3 Players? (link)
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ipod ipod ipod! i fricken LOOOOOVE my ipod it's amazing =]
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I really really REALLY want to get my ears pierced. However, is it a problem that I've had them like....5 times before. Would they get really infected if I got them again? I also wanted to know if getting a piercing below the cartilage hurts. If I get it there, will it hurt?
Please help me!!!
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you're probably allergic to the type of earings that you've been using. it doesn't hurt at all i've peirced my ears plenty of times and i used to have the same problem as you but now it's good =] i have my tracus (sp?) peirced too you know that little thing in your ear in the inside that kind of sticks out haha and i love it but that one kind of hurts =/
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my advice column link is:
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=kellyy
please help=) (link)
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well my advice is for make up i would get some bronzer ( a very light one) and a bronzing brush, you don't look like you have bad skin so you don't need foundation so bronzer should just work to give your skin a little more of a glow. i would also get mascara ( my favorite kind is lancome flextencils but it's quite spendy) any kind should work though it just all depends on what you like, i would probably get eyeliner too most people get black but it all depends on what color you like and how drastic you want the look to be. for clothes i would go to Hollister and Abercrombie and if you're looking for a little cheaper store go to gadzooks or wet seal i am absoulutely in love with all those stores. you're small so things will fit good on you =] if there's anything that i missed or you need help more with just ask =]
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I don't know what group to place it in, but it is mental I can tell you that. My boy friend was the best person you could have ever imagined. Even though he is only 14 [so am I, female] He was great. He has the potential to do anything he sets his mind to, music, school, great with kids & adults, wonderful. One of the ,main thing I was attracted to, was his childness-ish. He was funny, not in a dirty way either, didn't swear, proclaimed to be saved and was ever-so respectful.
After about a few months af dating I allowed french kissing and holding, sorta a low quality makeout.Then it grew and grew, now, we didn't get into sex or anything and stayed on top of clothes, but I noticed a difference in him, about two months ago.He has always told me how he feel about everything, absolutely EVERYTHING, I asked him what was wrong, hios reply was always something but he never got to the point. I started telling him that there was somthing he wasn't telling me, he would always say no, there wasn't.
After a long while of thinking, praying and asking God for guidance, I realised that we should never have started the whole "kissing process" so we could regenerate our relationship, the way it was before. At first he was scared, he'd say "What?I thought everything was fine, why shouldn't we?" and My answer would alaways be "It is wrong and I believe God would rather otherwise" Then there'd be a conflict, and those always hurt the heart.
Now he gave me his msn password and I thought "I don't have anything to hide or lose" so I gave him mine. He forgot that He gave me his password and the other days I checked it.Was I ever shocked, hurt, crushed, heart broken...It just hurt so much, I was crying outloud saying "no....no, he couldn't have done this to me..." He had "porn4free!", "sexsearch", "you have received a wink from...blahdiblahblah"
PAIN CRWLS IN, I...I COULDN'T BREATH, I FELT AS IF IT WAS ALL MY FAULT AND THAT I WAS BLIND TO NOT HAVE SEEN IT COMMING.
Later to find out, He called me [after I ave him my two cents on msn, really, it wasn't much] He denied it, telling me they were spams...right.I didn't believe him, he blamed it on his computer breaking, and It was right in front of my face...all of it, his name, his way of talking, even his special password was there... the girls... the pain was Unbearable :"( ... Everytime I gave him proof, he said sorry and agreed...and He kept telling me half truths, I got him to tell his parents and they have taken the computer away form him for a month.
What could I do to help him[he said it started about after we stopped the kissing process [which was two months ago]And I want to know What can I do, how should I react? What can HE do, It is 2:30 in the morning, I couldn't sleep, I was bawling my eyes out and dind't want to bother everyone else.So I came down, wanting to ask questions to people, including you people.
I'm afraid to go near him showing my arms now, and look at my body in disproval, why did God create man to be pigs and women to be their food?
Thank you, I hope this question doesn't comfuse you, I just nee help, please. (link)
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okay he's a guy...i mean he's 14 what can you expect? he has like raging hormones a lot of guys do it actually i don't know one guy who hasn't lay off him... it 's not that big of deal you know? i mean you're upset yah but it's not like he was out there doing stuff with other girls god isn't gonna be mad at the whole male population because they look at porn is he? no..
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Im 15/f, blonde hair, blue eyes, im 110 lbs, im a size 0-3 in pants (depends on store), i have a slim body, im kind've flat chested (A36) and wanted to make them seem bigger haha. I just wanted advice on what clothes to wear, and what kind of make up to wear. I was a tomboy my whole life so, im not good at this. Please help, any suggestions would be appreciated. I have a picture on my advice column if you need a picture. (link)
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what's your advice collumn? i mean the link show me then i'll see if i can help =]
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Ok. This might be a bit long but please, read.
Since I was so stupid, I decided to SHAVE my eyebrows instead of plucking. So now I'm stuck with little hairs poking around my eyebrows. Then I continued to shave the little hairs and it just looks terrible. So then I started plucking the little hairs like I was supposed to. But my question(s) are these:
How can I make it so it doesn't hurt so badly?
And, when I shaved them, I did them totally wrong and small and they gah. It's just so bad.
How can I get them to look good and thin?
Thanks. :( (link)
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you have to let them grow out before you can because they're not long enough to pluck yet and then my advice would be to go get them waxed and then pluck the little hairs that come back after that and just go get them waxed every month. for now just pencil in your eyebrows so you can't tell as much too.
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I'm a 15 year old girl...and i was just wondering how far you think i should go with a boy (please dont say "whatever i'm comfortable with")
and how far did you go when you were 15??
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i started doing stuff with guys when i was in 7th grade haha but people are having sex now i haven't but i'm going to just not with some one night stand it depends if you're in a realationship or not if you are then just let whatever happens happen stop if you don't feel comftorable and if you do just have fun but make sure to use a condom. =]
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I was dating a guy who joined the army, and he was scheduled to leave for basic training at the end of May or beginning of June. At the beginning of May, he started to ignore me. Wouldn't answer phone calls or anything. I had no idea what was going on, because I had seen him the night before he started to ignore me and everything was fine. This continued for about two weeks, until he finally answered one of my messages by breaking up with me. He was worried that it wouldn't work because he would be leaving for a long time after this year. He ignored me for another two weeks after that, and finally a few days before he left he let me know when he was leaving. I asked him if he would tell me when he was back, and he promised that he would.
I know from mutual friends that he is back, but he hasn't tried to contact me in any way. I don't know why, and I don't know if I should try to talk to him. I miss him so much it's almost unbearable, as a boyfriend, but even just as a friend and someone to talk to.
What should I do? I want him back in my life...I don't think that I will hear from him if I don't try to contact him first, and I really want to, but then I feel like I should respect his space because it's clear he doesn't want to talk to me, right? I am SO lost.
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i'm not trying to sound mean but it really seems like he doesn't want to talk to you and i mean who knows the reason...guys can be quite confusing. If he said he would contact you and he hasn't i would just try calling him i mean if you guys aren't talking anyways what could it hurt? maybe he'll respond and maybe he won't but the least you can do is try. i know that it hurts and stuff but sometimes you have to let people go even when you don't want to =/ i hope this all works out for you
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What are the side effects of being on birth control? Good and bad?
I will be going on the pill once I'm 16. Not for sex though, for those lovely...wonderful cramps.. (link)
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=/ some people gain weight, some don't though. sorry sweet heart.
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i mostly shop at ae, but now im starting to like hollister. if im a small in shirts at american eagle, what will i be at hollister? like are the sizes different or the same? thanks a lot:] (link)
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it will pretty much be the same in shirts but AE jeans are a little bigger than hollister like i'm a 0 in AE but in hollister i usually get a 1 but because i don't want them super tight. hope i helped =]
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fat people can hurt you..lol.. they can squash you..... but no body really knew what i meant in asking this question...maybe i shouldnt have went on and on about me and the fat part... but it was hard to ask my question.. i didnt mean anything harsh by it and im sorry bout that.. just didnt know how to ask it...what i meant was how do people who can control their fat keep eatting.. and feel so bad in public.. i think thats how you ask it..not sure..its not that i dont like fat people or judging or have anything against them..its just that i was just wondering..and i thought yall gave advice..sorry...and im friends with lots different people..my brother is even fat.. he can control but doesnt want to..and feel bad in public sometimes..i guess thats where i got it..but i didnt mean anything by it..so sorry... (link)
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no i knew what you were asking i just didn't really think that it was a fair thing to say i mean some people really do have diseases and can't control it, or some people just don't want to. i mean i agree that some people should take control of it but hey it's their choice, it's their life.
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I was making out with this girl the other night at a party and I guess she was pretty tossed since she freaking threw up in my MOUTH. Since then, I haven't been able to eat anything--because vomit is disgusting, and swallowing some of someone else's vomit grossed me out that much. Whenever I go to eat something I feel like throwing up myself so I can't eat. GaaaahhHhh what do I do? (link)
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lmfao that is hella sick that's why you don't make our with really really drunk girls there darlin but anyways to answer your question i've never had any one puke in my mouth but i've had plenty of my trashed nights where i puke and i don't wanna eat anything the next day because it reminds me of puke but my best advice is to eat crackers to start with and then drink some water and maybe work your way up to stuff you'll be able to eat after a little bit just try to not think about it...it's definetly gross haha i know. later love.
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okay. im 14... i dont see how people geet fat... i mean theres alot a big people in this world always complaining about their weight..&& ive never been fat before..im like really skinny...and i eat alot...when i see that im gaining a few pounds i cut down a little..&& it helps me keep my figure...alot of people even think im anorexic but im not..trust me.....what i dont get is why is it a really big person all like look at me im fat..i dont fit in&& low self exsteem and stuff...when really they can control that fat of theirs...unless someones making you eat alot...if you really want to be skinny...work for it you fat cows...just kidding...just saying...if you really want to be skinny WORK...and if you think you dont fit in cause you're different(fat )..you are different..cause you take up more space so get over it seriously..im tired of listening to them fat people...most people who are fat are fat because theyre 'GREEDY'
get over it..or do something about it..WORK..
My question really is: why are there so many fat people in this world??? cant you learn how to cut down..you GREEDY people...why cant a fat person just stop eatting so much..and WORK..come on people!! if you are one who eats alot..it helps to cut down by eatting less..dont even look at the food that is saying"eat me!!!"...so please help me understand thanks... (link)
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um a little harsh don't you think there dear? well everyone's pretty much answered this..different people have different circumstances, people have disesase that cause them to not be able to lose weight only gain it. why does it matter if their fat though seriously? it does not make them less of a person i mean i know personally speaking i'm quite small but i don't go around asking why people are fat.. why does it even matter to you? they're not hurting you are they? i'm not trying to sound mean but honestly... why would you even say that?
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