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How far should i go??
I'm a 15 year old girl...and i was just wondering how far you think i should go with a boy (please dont say "whatever i'm comfortable with")
and how far did you go when you were 15??
THANKS
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Girl, not even close! Your only 15 years old. Why are girls at 13,14, 15, 16, 17 are having sex? Virginity one lasts once, and live it until you are fully ready. YOU AREN'T READY...and probably don't care what I say!
I'm telling you, you arne't ready until you are at least 18!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WAIT...or be those stupid sluts on t.v.
(Not to be offensive or anything...if I am...sorry!)
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okaay. well to be honest i think you can do anything with a guy at this point, i've done basically everything with a guy so nothing to be ashamed of. im 15 and just started this summer =)
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Draw the line at sex.
I think your old enough to do whatever you like as long as this guy doesnt "score." So anything inbetween kissing-sex.
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i started doing stuff with guys when i was in 7th grade haha but people are having sex now i haven't but i'm going to just not with some one night stand it depends if you're in a realationship or not if you are then just let whatever happens happen stop if you don't feel comftorable and if you do just have fun but make sure to use a condom. =]
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I would go no furthur then third base, maybe even no furthur then second, depending on the guy. don't have sex.
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Your age does not define your maturity. No one can tell you what is appropriate at 15. It's all about what you feel is right.
I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's the truth. You will only get people's opinions on this, you won't get a definate, dictionary definition of what is appropriate and what isn't at 15.
as for me, i'm 15 and i've only gone to second base (feeling up and such). i don't intend on going any further right now.
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Nowhere at all. Sounds rough and probably not the answer you wanted to hear but 15 is way too young. So what if you see 12 year olds doing that stuff. I'm talking about sexual stuff. Why not do anything? Well its just my opinion, but I think that most guys would want to settle down with somebody who hasn't gone around and done things with other guys...as I'm sure you would want the same from another guy.
Draw the line. Thats how you will really know if a guy just likes you. I don't know if you were talking about doing things with guys just for fun or because you are in a relationship. If you like the guy and the guy likes you, then thats where you draw the line and don't do anything like that - even if you both want to and feel ready.
Why do I say that? I go to an all guys high school and every now and then I'll hear a story about how some guy went out with a girl for not too long, and did stuff with her and after that just got bored or tired or sick of everything and dropped it. Now you tell me, was it worth it? I've also heard stories of guys really liking the girl and choosing not to do any sexual stuff out of respect to the girl and themselves. Those are the guys that last more than a year with the girl, not the average 2 months.
So I'll leave it up to you, but I would reccomend you don't do anything and wait until you are older, much older. There is nothing wrong with that. No that is not a turn off for guys either - no offense but I don't know who it was that said doing stuff with guys is a plus in our book...cause its not. If you want to avoid consequences and problems, then avoid it all together. It's up to you, just make sure you think about possible outcomes and then decide. Hope that helped and good luck. As for me, havn't done any sexual stuff and still going out with the same girl three years later.
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theres really no answer to this. ages shouldnt define what you do, it really all depends on the maturity level. personally, for a 15 year old girl, [which i am.], i think its normal to make out, maybe a little bit of touching- but nothing too sexual. a lot of people around you are probably having sex and doing a lot which makes you wonder, "am i missing something?" i've felt this same way a lot of the times. most of my friends arent virgins. but i'm proud to say i am. sex should be saved for a serious relationship sometime in the future. hope i helped a little :]
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kissing & making out. <3
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At 15 I definitely don't think it is appropriate to go all the way with a guy. Your body and your emotional being are not mature enough at this age to cope with the demands of a sexual relationship.
It is difficult for any one of us to actually say when the time is right for you, you are the only one who can judge that. What I will say is that if you must question the rights and wrongs of a full relationship, you are most likely not ready for it.
As to how far I think you should go - again it is a question of how you feel about the sanctity of your own body. A guy will always push the boundaries to see how far he can get - it is up to you to stop him at whatever point you get "uncomfortable" at. If you feel a little grope of your boobs is appropriate - fine. If you think copping a feel of your genitals is okay - go ahead, BUT and it is a BIG BUT, never feel pushed into anything that you don't want to do and it is always advisable to hang on to your virginity for as long as possible.
I would personally say 15 is too young to start any form of sexual activity other than kissing. As for me - that is my secret and I will keep it.
Good luck.
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