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It's my party and I'll invite someone else if I want to!
Well, my birthday is in 3 days. I'm turning 14.
My friend Jessica is supposed to come along with my 4 other friends. Jessica hasn't contacted me in 2 days and she didn't even mention my party. I invited her and she said she can most likely come!
But now I want to invite my friend Anne, but I'm not so sure I should because Jessica will get rather mad at me! I'm afraid she'll show up or call if I invited Anne, and I don't want her getting mad because I invited someone else because she didn't call me about it. That's the only reason I would have invited Anne, because Jessica hasn't contacted me in any way.
What should I do!?
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I would call Jessica and ask her if she's even coming, because she hasn't called to confirm and she hasn't said anything about it. If she still doesn't say anything, then I would just invite Anne. Like your title says, your party. You want to invite someone else, invite someone else. Because, it's Jessica's fault anyways for not even bothering to let you know what's going on. But like I said, find out if she's coming first and if nothing happens, then invite Anne. I hope I helped. <3
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Like your title says, Its your party, you call the shots. If you want anne to come, you invite Anne. Jessica can deal with it, it's her fault for not calling you. Just try not to hurt Anne's feelings by telling her shes a replacement.
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I think you should call jessica and tell her that you are invitng anne.And if she doesnt like it you can still invite anne.
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find out from jessica to confirm what shes doing
call her she said she could come last time you spoke with her
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(okay first let me say that you already have 6 other answers which i haven't read but i want to help anyway). ok so if you really want to invite anne becuase she's a good friend and you want her to celebrate with you than ofcourse you should invite her. like you siad it's your birthday and you should be able to invite who ever you want. or like if they have some fued going on but you still really want her there and you don't want any drama so you think it'll be fine without jessica there then invite her(just keep in mind jessica could show up).but if she isn't a really good friend and you don't really want her there, your just inviting her as some revenge thing agianst jessica that isn't really fair to her. if it's a practical thing like you have 5 tickets to a concert and you'd rather invite someone you know is gonna be there i suggest you just call jessica and find out whats up. i mean two days isn't that long, she could still be coming. anyway i hope taht helped and have a good birthday whoever is there.
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Invite anyone you want, no matter what the others say. The ones that don't go to the party or are mad about who you invite are only acting immature. These are childish games for 10 year olds. "I am not going if such and such is going"..the ones that don't go will sit home pouting and thinking about how much fun they are missing. That's okay...let them. The next time you have a party maybe they will think twice about how they acted. The important thing is to treat everyone fairly, and everyone equally. Happy Birthday!
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If the number of friends you can have matters to your parents, then you should talk to Jessica and tell her that you NEED a firm yes or no answer about the party. If she wants to come, great. If not, then you should invite Anne in her place. The key is to not make it seem like you only invited Anne to take Jessica's place. It's just a birthday party, hun. It won't be the end of the world if she doesn't come to it. Just try to have fun and enjoy your day.
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just invite who you want you cant let other people control your life hope I helped
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call her.
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If you want to invite her then do it. If Jessica goes or not it's up to you who you want to go and if she gets mad it isn't your fault because she's the one who didn't call you. If i were you I'd go ahead and invite the other girl, that way if she can't come you have Anne. And if they both can go, then the more the better!
=] Evy
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Call Jessica and ask her if for sure she is coming and if she doesn't answer call Anne and invite her. Don't not invite Anne because of Jessica, its your party not hers.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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