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hey its me I am a brunette i have blue eyes and I can be very shy but I also have lots of fun with my friends I have lots of kewl tips and ideas for all sorts of questions dating, sex, fashion, and much much more I hope you ask me some questions cuz i am on all the time .... talk to yall later and dont be afraid to ask me anything!!!
Gender: Female
Location: St.George NB
Occupation: student
Age: 13
MSN: st04_cooll@hotmail.com
Member Since: August 2, 2006
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My boyfriends wants me to send him a picture of my pussy to his phone. I don't really want to. How can I tell him I'm not going to without making it seem like I don't love him? (link)
look just tell him you arent comfortable with that being on his phone and he should understand if he doesnt than he doesnt respect you


Okay so I know this isnt under the right catergory I just didnt know what to put it under.

Does pro-active really work ? Like the commericals say. Does it really clear you skin up well & prevent later break outs ? If so where can I buy it at a good price ? Because I dont want to order it from TV. Thanks in advance. (link)
hey yes it does work well my sister used for about a year and it helped her alot but it is really expensive and you can only order it off tv but in some stores there are some cheap knock offs that work pretty well ....good luck


I want to check my friends AIM because I want to see if she's friends with someone I don't like. [ she won't tell me if she is or not ] and I know her password, and I just want to log on really quick, and then sign off and not go on it anymore. And I know her password and everything, I'm just afraid that if I go on it, someone'll IM me and I'll have to talk to them and they'll mention it to her and she'll find out and get mad. Is there anyway I can do it without her knowing? Like, is there a way I can sign onto her name while she's online? Or will AIM like, send her a notice or something that's she on at 2 places at once. Help? (link)
ok if she is no at the same time it will send her a notice and sign her out. And i dont want to get too much in your buisness but i dont think you should do that just respect her privacy and take her word for it. And even if she was friends with this person it shouldnt matter ...... sorry if this didnt help


hi...ive recently jus started goin out with this guy, and i realli love him.
the problem is .. he isnt the type of guy (looks wise) i wudda gone for .. the only reason im goin out with him is because of his personality and caring side...is this stupid?
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no whats inside is what matters I felt the same way about a guy that is ok but not HOT if you know what I mean but he was nice and caring and really cared about my feelings so really looks arent everything at all


2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.

Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me

Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
alot of people hate him they say hes a poser
he gets pissed off easily and starts cussing me out

Guy 2 good things :
hes really sweet
hes romantic like me
he likes to kiss
hes really hott
he tried to finger me but i said stop and he listened
he respects me

Guy 2 Bad things -
everyone says hes litarrly special ed in 1 class but he says he isnt
he stayed back 3 times
hes 3 years older then me
hes not a virgin
he smokes
he stutters a little when he talks

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I really like them both in different ways. Guy 1 is more like me but Guy 2 respects how far I'll go sexually. But Guy 1 is closer to my age. I really don't know who to pick. If you had to choose 1 according to those facts, who would you choose? (link)
i would choose number one and the biggest downer about him is he wants sex and you arent ready so I think before you give your answer to the guys ask boy#1 how you feel about sex and if he excepts that then go with him if he doesnt go with the other guy hope i helped good luck




ps. dont do anything you dont want to sexually ok !!!


16f
hey ya'll sorry i'm always askin question about, well, privates, but i guess i'm just not educated about her enough. so the other day i was masturbating, and i felt something pop, and i thought "well how weird, b/c i know i've not got my hymen anymore." so i'm freakin a little bit, and then i look and theres some blood (not much, but it worries me nonetheless, b/c ive had my period this month already.)
so for two days i was fine, and then yesterday it was kindof itching a little, and then today, it was itching alot, and it stings very bad! i know this is not an std transmitted from another person b/c ive been checked since i last had sex.
so my question now is, what's going on? should i go to a doctor? can you get diseases or infections from masterbating?
any and all help is appreciated! thank you! (link)
go to the docter now dont wait it sounds serious


i think im fat.
i got my phisical like a week ago
and im 62 inches and i weighed 104 .
i think i gained like a pound or maybe lost idk.
but is that fat for me
tell the truth ♥ (link)
look you are not at all fet and dont even think it besides guys like a little more than skin and bones


my gf is always flirting with this other guy at my school and it really pisses me off cuz she barly talks to me anymore can someone tell me a way to get her bak to me
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tell her that you dont like it and you will do anything to get her closer to you and see what happens.


Everytime I shave my crotch area, I get little red bumps. What are they and how can I stop them from happening? (link)
I have the sam probobem they are just sighns of irritation from your razor or shaving cream I know that the real good razors can get pricy but it is worth it just switch razors or shaving cream and if that doesnt work than after shaving keep it moisturized and clean and that might help too


okay well sorry if this is the wrong category butt
i have very thin/fine hair its about shoulder length and blonde on top black underneath and i always have to backcomb and put tons of hairspray in it to make it look normal I HATE IT IT TAKES FOREVER, so i was wondering if anyone knows any thickening shampoo or creams or hairstyles that would help?

- thanks. (link)
i have a friend with the same problem get it cut in simple layers and get a big curling iron and flip it out or just use lots of mouse and go curly


13/F
Hi!!!,
Ok, my mom told me that I was to young for the book but I went ahead and read it anyway and it has Very described sex scenes in it, now ever since I read it i can stop thinking about it. I dream that I'm having it with my BF(we've touched e/o but never kiss or acually taken our clothes off) and last night I dreamed I had it and then I got pregnat and the baby died and.... oh my god. I was so scared. what should I do? (link)
it is perfectly normal to start thinking about sex and stuff at a young age if you have bad enough urges just mastribate or tell your boyfriend you want to get a little closer and try new things dont worry you will be fine


My boyfriend likes to grab my butt when were standin upp and kissing.. he later told me that it makes me kiss more when he does that.. [ there was a joke involved but you wouldnt understand] anyways.. i sorda wanna get him back.. so where should i touch him that he'll kiss more? =). (link)
i would try lighly stroking your fingers over the back of his neck or squeese his arms a little and if you arent to shy and timid get your hands near hid "area" in what ever way is most comfortable


ok i am really really pale. and no matter what i do i dont get tan i burn and get more freckles. i have the darkest freckles you will ever see and theyre EVERYWHERE!! on my legs, arms, face, etc. any advice on how to get more color? i dont want to use the summer glow crap cuz ive heard it makes you look orange. please help im like the palest person at my school!! (link)
just go to the makup section and buy some regular powder bronzer and when you go out carefully brush it on any skin that is showing but dont put it on to thick




ps. sunless tanning lotion doesnt turn you orange trust me just get a gradual one to make sure you get it even.


okay so i've been getting my period for almost a year. and so one of my boobs is like a 34a and the other one is flat across my chest. its been like that for 2 years now. is that normal??!! (link)
I dont think that is normal you should probobly tell someone and get it checked out hope you can figure it out


ok so there's this guy i like and he told my friend for me to c ome talk to him after school... but when i wa lked out of the classroom he was right behind me but then he turned right and i turned left and i never got to talk to him... so should i try to talk to him tommorow or not? (link)
yes of course take a chance your better off knowing how he feels about you than just sitting around hoping he will say something


Well, my birthday is in 3 days. I'm turning 14.

My friend Jessica is supposed to come along with my 4 other friends. Jessica hasn't contacted me in 2 days and she didn't even mention my party. I invited her and she said she can most likely come!

But now I want to invite my friend Anne, but I'm not so sure I should because Jessica will get rather mad at me! I'm afraid she'll show up or call if I invited Anne, and I don't want her getting mad because I invited someone else because she didn't call me about it. That's the only reason I would have invited Anne, because Jessica hasn't contacted me in any way.

What should I do!? (link)
just invite who you want you cant let other people control your life hope I helped


ok. i am so VERY shy!! and i hate it. well most of the times. i mean sometimes i dont mind being shy but other times i hate it!!! so how can i like not become shy1!?!?!?!?!like for my sport that i do EVERYONE is so loud and stuff and im like not. so i feel left out. and im not very outgoing like how do i become more of that tooo? lol i dont know if you can change that... but i was just wondering. (link)
hey I am exactly the same way but over the last year I have losened up some just when you see people doing something loud and spontanius just dont think about what anyone will think of you and just join in as long as you are having fun who cares what other poeple think ........from a shy person to another.


ps. I hope I helped




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