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what guy should i choose
2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.
Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me
Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
alot of people hate him they say hes a poser
he gets pissed off easily and starts cussing me out
Guy 2 good things :
hes really sweet
hes romantic like me
he likes to kiss
hes really hott
he tried to finger me but i said stop and he listened
he respects me
Guy 2 Bad things -
everyone says hes litarrly special ed in 1 class but he says he isnt
he stayed back 3 times
hes 3 years older then me
hes not a virgin
he smokes
he stutters a little when he talks
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I really like them both in different ways. Guy 1 is more like me but Guy 2 respects how far I'll go sexually. But Guy 1 is closer to my age. I really don't know who to pick. If you had to choose 1 according to those facts, who would you choose?
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Honestly, I think that if you can't choose between the two, neither of them are right for you. Hold out for another guy.
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O.o well try guy #2 cause if guy #1 is pissed. he shouldn't be takin it out on you. and if guy #2 respects you, and he really likes you, he'll stop smokin.
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Nobody can tell you who to pick. I don't know either of these two people, so answering your question with a definitive choice would be just a guess. I will say that you should pick the guy that you enjoy being with more. Who do you connect with? Who do you feel really cares about you? All guys are gunna have good and bad points, so you have to ask yourself which guy's bad points are more tolerable. Good luck.
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No one on here can tell you what to do because only you can know for sure. But if it was me i would pick guy #2. Age is just a number and he seems like he really cares about you and listens to what you have to say. It`s really up to you though, so follow your heart when the time comes to really choose. Good luck!
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Pick guy #2!! Who cares about the age difference! If guy #1 loved you so much he wouldn't do half that stuff. Sorry this is all I have but I'm half asleep.
Hope I helped.
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Alrite so before my answer, I see two people saying guy one and two people saying guy two. Not much help right? Well those four people have different personalities, and they are all different from yours. Who's to say that what they or anyone else likes about these guys i
Honestly, you know what I think? Leave them both. Definatley not what you wanted to hear. Why do I say that? From my point of view, the 'good' things that you listed about each of them don't out weigh the bad things. They both don't have enough good things that would hold through a relationship for that long. The choice is ultimately yours. If you really want to, just go with the one you know more and are better friends with. Hope that helped.
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hey, i'm rachel. i was really interested when i started reading your question. i personally would choose niether one of those guys, but if i had to choose, i would pick guy #1. i would pick him because of age, and he doesnt seem as "bad" as guy #2. if you guys do end up going out, talk to him, and explain to him wut you want, or in this case wut you dont want and wut you arent ready for. if he listens and respects your wishes, then he is a keeper! but make sure you can have an open relationship. also, if he pressures you to do anything u dont want to do, dump him like last months shoes, haha. i hope my advice helps!
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*Rachel*
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Is there a third choice? No seriously, there is. You need to hold out for guy three. He is out there somewhere, and you might meet him soon if you are not too busy dating the other two. Let me tell you about the potential guy three.
Guy 3 Good Things:
He is sweet
He respects you
He is not in a rush to sleep with you
He is cute
He does not smoke, drink or use drugs
He is smart and makes healthy choices
He respects himself and others
He does not get in trouble
He tries his best in school
He is not perfect, but he is a good person
Guy 3 Bad Things:
He does not really know you yet
He is shy and you may have to talk to him first
He is not the most popular or coolest guy
He did not ask you out yet, so you have to wait
Wow, I think Guy 3 is worth waiting for, and I think that you are worth Guy 3! You don't need to date anyone, and so be very choosy. It is so important that you only date nice guys who will listen to you and not try sexual or other things you are not ready for. My Guy 3 was one example of the guys that are out there, but please right your own idea of the perfect Guy and look for him, wait for him. Don't settle for less!
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Guy 2.
He sounds so nice and like how a boyfriend should be, he really likes you, is sweet with you and he respects you.
Guy 1 doesnt respect you, he cusses you, makes you feel uncomfortable and it sounds as though he will pressure you into having sex with him
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i would choose number one and the biggest downer about him is he wants sex and you arent ready so I think before you give your answer to the guys ask boy#1 how you feel about sex and if he excepts that then go with him if he doesnt go with the other guy hope i helped good luck
ps. dont do anything you dont want to sexually ok !!!
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guy #1. here is why:
1)he is closer to your age
2)you have a lot in common
3)he lives near you
4)good personality
the only thing you really have to work on with him is that you need to let him know that you are not ready for sex. if doesn't listen or continues pressuring you, then dump him. but do not go with #2 because the age difference is huge and since he isn't a virgin i think he would eventually expect sex with you.
good luck and go with your heart!
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Guy number two! Don't do anything you're not ready to do, and choose what is right for you.
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