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kissing


Question Posted Friday August 18 2006, 10:57 am

me and my bf still haven't kissed yet and I don't know why, but for some reason...I want him to do it first. Do you think he'll kiss me anytime soon?

Also, how could you tell if your bf really loves you?


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diz_anjel_grl answered Saturday August 19 2006, 11:37 pm:
lol .. he'll kiss you soon.. no worries, he's probably shy at the moment, and seeing if its the right time or not. if you want that kiss sooon.. give him time or look into his eyes and smile gently. and maybe he wont take it anymore and kiss you. happened to me ! [; and of course your boyfriend loves you ! why wouldn't he? i mean if he didn't why is he still wit' you.. thats not a bad thing or anything, and you know he loves you, think positive, dont think negative.

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Striker6909 answered Saturday August 19 2006, 3:24 pm:
HAH! I have the same exact problem with my boyfriend... what we did was we kind of had a break which lasted a week in a half and we still talked on AIM but what i did was i decided that i'm going to kiss him first even though I want him to... maybe if you try and act all sexy and stuff and get real close to his face but not kiss him... he'll go for it and then you can say that he kissed you first ^_^ hope this helped. Also about the boyfriend thing... I know this is a bad thing to do... but if he has AIM make yourself another screen name and test him out see if he would cheat on you for another girl by acting like another girl... I did this to my boyfriend and I was sooo happy that he turned down my screen name because it showed that he wouldn't cheat on me.

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MelLeDisko answered Saturday August 19 2006, 3:04 am:
I'm not sure. I think he might be afraid to kiss you, but that's normal because alot of guys are afraid they might be bad, or do it wrong, or just afraid of getting rejected. And it's totally understandable that you want to do it first. That's how I am. I think the guys should make the first move, ask the girl out and everything. You're just old-fashioned, like alot of girls. :] Just wait awhile longer, and maybe sometime whenever you guys are sitting together just look up at him and smile and kinda 'hint' to him that you want him to kiss you [ so he knows he won't get rejected ], and see if he leans in. If he doesn't do anything after awhile, I might want to talk to him about it. See what's up.


Hm, you can tell your boyfriend really loves you if he just loves hanging around with you and being with you, and he is just really sweet and kind and compliments you and makes you feel special. And of course, if he tells you! :] Haha, I hope I helped. <3

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cheerhunny0x0 answered Friday August 18 2006, 7:17 pm:
i totally understand that you dont want to make the first move. in most relationships thats the case for both the girl and boy. i have many guy friends who admit they are scared of the rejection, they dont feel confident enough to make the first move. When you are comfortable enough with talking to your boyfriend, explain to him your concerns and whats on your mind. If he chose you to date, he'll be up for talking about it. Are you scared of the first kiss because you want it to be just right or because you are scared he'll freak out and not want to kiss you?

Usually when your boyfriend wants nothing more than to just BE WITH YOU, and he cares about you a lot and doesnt care what other people think about your relationship, its most likely love. If your boyfriend said he loved you, he def. means it. :) tell me how your first kiss goes!

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Cux answered Friday August 18 2006, 4:11 pm:
You should talk to your boyfriend about kissing each other.. tell him you want to kiss him but you want him to make the first move--- or.. you could just be brave and kiss him in a moment of silence when you talk in person... talking about when to kiss might be kinda awkward..

You can tell if you boyfriend really loves you if you talk to him and person and he says it on his own or you ask him and he says so without hesitation...

Hope I helped!
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iownthekeys answered Friday August 18 2006, 11:20 am:
I think you should talk about it, because no one really wants to make the first move. My boyfriend is younger, and we talked about it first. We both agreed on when we're ready and it just happened. Also, let him know you're scared about it so he doesn't like...attack you. haha.

you can tell if your boyfriend really loves you if he tells you he means it, and talks to you really sweet and doesn't care what people think about it.

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HectorJr answered Friday August 18 2006, 11:01 am:
There is not written rule that says the guy needs to kiss first. Any idea how nerve-wrecking it is for us (the guys). If you feel like you have the confidence then just go for it - it will make next time a lot easier. It doesn't have to be perfect.

It's tough to tell if he really loves you. Depends how long you two have known each other, how long you've been dating, and where the base of your relationship is. Some relationships aren't as strongly based on feelings and caring and respect and responsibilty as much as they are on getting physically intimate and doing sexual things. So if you got the first part down, care, respect, responsibility, and also knowing each other pretty well, then I would say so. You gotta really get to know him to know if he loves you.

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ChosenSummerGirl answered Friday August 18 2006, 10:50 am:
You should kiss him if you really want to. LOL it took me two months to kiss me current boyfriend. So go for it!!!

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askforanswersfromAndie answered Friday August 18 2006, 10:48 am:
1 guys are supost to kiss first
2 it depends how long yall have been dating
3 if he really loves hmm hard to say i could probably tell you but i wuld have to ask you questions first
and 4 talk about it make sure he wants a kiss be like truth or dare truthfuly if i kissed you what would you do or have you thought about kissing me and go from there need anything els
ask me
Andie

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karlyndarlin05 answered Friday August 18 2006, 10:14 am:
if you really want to kiss him, then do it yourself. dont waste your time waiting for him to do it, becuse chances are hes waiting for you to kiss him. SOmetimes its even cuter. if you 2 are close just go for it. dont be afraid.

and about the whole love thing. if he wont kiss you...im guessing he doesnt love you. but tahts just me. when he loves you, you will know. its agood feeling and hard to explain but you;ll just know.

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