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hey, i'm rachel...i've been told tht i give great advice, and i love giving it. i hope tht i can help everyone who wants my opinion! muahz

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hi. I am a 13/f and i started my period about 6 months ago. I play soccer alot and do track in school. I have never used a tampon, only pads. My mom wont bring the subject up and i'm too nervous to ask her how to use it or if I can use them. PLEASE HELP!!!! my soccer tournament is in a few weeks and thats when my next period is supposed to come! any advice on how my mom can bring up the subject? or how i can get the nerve to talk to her about this?? should i just not tell her and just use one?? but i've never used one before and i'm nervous and dont know how to use one. PLEASE HELP!! thank you sooooo much

just talk to your mom, and tell her tht it would help a lot to wear tampons instead of pads. if she gets a lil uncomfortable about the conversation, talk to her about having an open relatioship about this girl stuff. or, when you guys are shopping one day, casually drop a box of tampons in the cart. then she'll definatly get the picture, haha.

hope i helped!
*rachel*

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2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.

Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me

Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
alot of people hate him they say hes a poser
he gets pissed off easily and starts cussing me out

Guy 2 good things :
hes really sweet
hes romantic like me
he likes to kiss
hes really hott
he tried to finger me but i said stop and he listened
he respects me

Guy 2 Bad things -
everyone says hes litarrly special ed in 1 class but he says he isnt
he stayed back 3 times
hes 3 years older then me
hes not a virgin
he smokes
he stutters a little when he talks

...
I really like them both in different ways. Guy 1 is more like me but Guy 2 respects how far I'll go sexually. But Guy 1 is closer to my age. I really don't know who to pick. If you had to choose 1 according to those facts, who would you choose?

hey, i'm rachel. i was really interested when i started reading your question. i personally would choose niether one of those guys, but if i had to choose, i would pick guy #1. i would pick him because of age, and he doesnt seem as "bad" as guy #2. if you guys do end up going out, talk to him, and explain to him wut you want, or in this case wut you dont want and wut you arent ready for. if he listens and respects your wishes, then he is a keeper! but make sure you can have an open relationship. also, if he pressures you to do anything u dont want to do, dump him like last months shoes, haha. i hope my advice helps!
muahz
*Rachel*
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