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Location: barnsley
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Age: 17
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Member Since: August 18, 2006
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Last Update: November 22, 2006
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Ok, i really like this guy at school, but my close friends really hate him (he rejected them), and so i went to my other friends, and they were shocked, and not in a good way. I like the guy alot, and he flirts with me. I havent told my close friends, and i really want to, bacuse i always tell them. What should i do? I really need advice!

hi
just tell our friends how much you really like this guy and that they don't have to like him but at least try to because you really like him and at the end of the day it's you thats seeing him no your friends. and your friends are just looking out for you they just dont want to see you get hurt!
yours truly sam x x x

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Hey im greg a 10th grader in average america and have a very extremly annoying love triangle problem.
So obviously there is this girl and w/e you no i like her she likes me you no so im hearing all this stuff that she likes me i like her so friday night comes and not totally but pretty much igonres me and was hanging out with this other kid scott. So i get home and talk to her online and are like wtf and she was like listen i really like you but scott likes me and me and him are really really good friends and i dont want him to not be friends with me if i go out with you and stuff. and i dont want to make her choose between us or anything like that but idk wat to do she thinks i want her to choose and are making it hard for her. k hopfully you can help me thnx.

hiya
jus back off a little coz yes you are jealous i mean any guy would be but jus tell her straight that your jealous and you dont want to loose her. tell her that you really care for her and you are scared of losing her to someon else.
yours truly sam x x

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well... im not sure if im ready to have a boyfriend.... and i think i am.. but the last time i thought i was and i went out with someone i ended up not happy at all and im not sure if it was the person or it was just because i wasnt ready... i am 15 years old and im a girl... how can i tell? someone please help?

well you'll know when your ready because you'll meet a nice guy and something will jus click, you never know the perfect guy could be closer than you think and when u meet the rite guy you will jus know with all the feelings you get about this person. and yes sometimes they wont always work out but thats life you have to take the good in with the bad you know but you will find someone i promise you that and your only fifteen you still got plenty of time.
yours truly sam x x x

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I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.

I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.

What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks.

hiya my names sam and ive jus read your question and i bet u getting eveyone telling you you should dump him and if it were me first of all i would give him a chance to explain what his deal was and why he was been nasty behind your back. because your suppose 2 be his girlfriend and your suppose 2 be an important person in his life he shouldnt be talking 2 people about you making them think your a tart or nothing important, you say he us 2 treat you like a princess things shouldnt change.so you've got 2 options dump him telling him you carnt be with someone who really thinks that of you, or tell him you love him but he's really hurting you with what he's saying and you want it to stop. if it carries on then i would dump him coz he's not worth it and he doesnt think much of you. but like you said yourself i carnt tell you what to do only give you may advice so here it is.
yours truly sam x x x

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hello im wanting to purchase a marshall stack amp but av been advised to get a behinger stack what would you advise me to do and what would you think the right amp would be for me thanks
xxx love you

well to be honest with you am not 100% sure but i would go with the amp that you have been advised to go with or you could go o shop and ask what would be the best amp thats suitable for you. sorry i carnt be more help to you but thats my best advice for you.
love you samxxxxxxxxxxx

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If a gurl is 17 in her boyfriend is in his 30s is it still rape! Dont answer if you are not sure!!

no it isn't classed as rape if the girl has consented to having sex with him.

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i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage?

well i am not the person that can answer that because you have to feel 100% ready to have sex, because if not you may regret it later on but you will know when your ready and make sure it's with someone special and respects and cares for you not to rush or put pressure on you.
samxxxxx

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i told my friend i was afraid to die naked and now she makes fun of me. what should i do? :(

what i think you should do is turn around to your friend and say to her "listen right your suppose to be my friend and i tell you something in confidence and your making fun of me why?" and then just say if you had a phobia or a secret to tell me i wouldn't tell anyone because am your friend and i thought you mine.

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OMG my bf is a total dick, like after we had sex he couldnt stop talking about this girl and I was like wtf I just had sex with you and all you can talk about is another girl? I like cant believe he would do this to me! I'm in love with him!! And I know hes in love with me, how can I make him realize that I'm the one for him, I mean I've given him everything! Like before we met I was a virgin, and then he wanted to have sex so I gave in because I love him and I didnt want him to break up with me! All he talks about is other girls, and he just laughs when I get upset, What should I do, how can I make him realize I'm the only girl he should talk about!!!!

it sounds to me that your boyfriend is only using you for one thing i mean i could be wrong but with what you've wrote it certainly seems that way, i mean you say he loves you but if he did don't you think he'd tlk bout you and not his ex and other girls, it sounds like you given him everything including your virginity but it still doesn't seem to be good enough for him. i think it would be a good idea to take sometime away some space from your relationship and if he loves you he realise hes made a mistake and want you back or you will realise you've done a good thing and be able to move on. but thats my avice yo u xxxxxxxxxx

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i am obsessed with sex i cant seem 2 stop and my boyfriend cant keep up with me as his teeth cant take it wot shud i do bout it?

it seems to me that all you do with your boyfriend is have sex, which is good in a reltionship but there is more to a relationship than sex why don't you try going out instead of having sex or get a hobbie, and you shouldn't pick on your boyfriends features you should love him for who he is.

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alright so me and my boyfriend have been going out for several months now and i love him alot, and he says he loves me and he said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and so do i, but when he talks to like any girl even my best friend i get really paranoid and he gets even more paranoid if i talk to a guy. how can we both stop getting paranoid with each other when we talk to the opposite sex?

i think that if you two really do love each other seriously, then you two have to learn to trust each other especially when it comes to the opposite sex because if not then the reltionship won't last because there's no reltionship that isn't based on trust.

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