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OMG my bf is a total dick, like after we had sex he couldnt stop talking about this girl and I was like wtf I just had sex with you and all you can talk about is another girl? I like cant believe he would do this to me! I'm in love with him!! And I know hes in love with me, how can I make him realize that I'm the one for him, I mean I've given him everything! Like before we met I was a virgin, and then he wanted to have sex so I gave in because I love him and I didnt want him to break up with me! All he talks about is other girls, and he just laughs when I get upset, What should I do, how can I make him realize I'm the only girl he should talk about!!!!
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You can't make him believe, your the one for him. & love, it doesn't seem like you are. You don't love him. Love is a bond between two people, that feel the exact same, have a passionate feeling & care deeply about eachother. Its like peanut butter & jelly sandwich. you need both.Not just the jelly. You obviously, made a mistake. But, now you know. To make sure the person cares the same about you, & just doesn't want to have sex with you. You most deff. shouldn't have given in, to having sex with him. Do you have no confidence in yourself? You should have enough confindence, in yourself.. to know that you shouldn't have to do those things, just to make a boy like you. Remember that the next time too. You have to realize, you should be good enough for them, that you don't have to have sex with them. I would talk to him again, in person. Tell him you don't think its funny, when he laughs about it, & that its really hurting your feelings... & so on.
I hope I helped. & pleasee take my advice about confidence & everything. & don't regret, what you did with him.. because, everyone makes mistakes. & now you just know better.. right?
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Okkkkk, juss cuz hes being a retard doesn't mean you should call him a dick. You should tell him that you love him, does he tell you he loves you?
Maybe he feel insecure, that you don't love him, I know, weird, but Some guys are like that.He might be tryinbg to make you jelous to know that you really care for him, just make sure you tell him you love him and give him complements, let him know you care, be there for him, and he'll be there for you...
Hope i helped
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You should be telling him what you just said,that what you feel is real love,care about him,you always want to see him happy,that those girls don't care about him you do,you'll always be there for him when he needs you,and what more does he ask from you.
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it sounds to me that your boyfriend is only using you for one thing i mean i could be wrong but with what you've wrote it certainly seems that way, i mean you say he loves you but if he did don't you think he'd tlk bout you and not his ex and other girls, it sounds like you given him everything including your virginity but it still doesn't seem to be good enough for him. i think it would be a good idea to take sometime away some space from your relationship and if he loves you he realise hes made a mistake and want you back or you will realise you've done a good thing and be able to move on. but thats my avice yo u xxxxxxxxxx
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sorry love, but he doesnt respect your feelings, i mean come on you gave in to have sex with him! he should know that you wouldnt of done it if you didnt love him..tell him how you feel and that you dont like him talking about other girls .. hope i helped xox
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if he can't appreciate what he already has, a loving girlfriend, he doesn't deserve you. i hate to say this now that youve given your virginity to him but it needs to be said. if you didnt actually want to have sex, he shouldve respected your decision instead of bugging you about it. by laughing at you when you got upset & talking about another girl, he's disrespecting you completely. you deserve a guy who will give you his full attention & accept your choices.
you can't make him realize youre the only one for him. if he can't already realize it then he's not the guy for you. i honestly think you deserve so much better than that hun.
♥ lAuRa
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