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Dinner with the folks
i have the most amazing bf in the world! i love him, but listen to this. ok, so i was having dinner with my bf's family and they are like high upper class people, and it was like a really nice diner and stuff. all of a sudden, i farted. nice and lound and long. i didn't know what to do so i was like "heh heh...the wind is quite loud tonight, eh?" in the fake brittish accent and they were like REALLY offended. so after dinner my bf was like cracking up but i was really embarressed! then he said it turned him on, and so i was like "hott!" and so we pulled the car over and started doing it, and then, the worst thing imaginable happened-his parent's drove by, saw our car, pulled over, and saw us going hott and heavy. now, they won't speak to us, and, because of that, my bf DUMPED ME. i wanna get him back, and i want to be able to confront his parents again. help!
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Ok sounds like maybe his parents forced the break up, so I would go at this a different way. I would write a note to his mother saying that you realize that she may see you in a negative light and that you would love to get together with her to have a cup of coffee/tea and get to know each other this time on better terms.
Now I would also write a note or email to your boyfriend explaining that you understand that you made a negative impression on his mother but you wanted to make a good impression so bad that got nervous. Also explain that while you understand the pressure his parents are putting on him you are trying to improve the situation by getting to know his mother in a different situation. All you can do is apologize for your behavior and hope for the best if he and his family are this narrow minded then you may be better off finding someone new anyways.
If he doesn't feel that you are worth fighting for then he is not worth your time or love.
Hope this helps.
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The best way is to talk to him about it. The only way you will get him back is to explain it doesnt matter what his parents think you guys can still be together. If you show that you are willing to do anything for the relationship he will be willing to do the same. Send a note ior an email or call him to talk to him. If you wish things will change you have to make it happen it sounds like he is to afraid to do anything. And maybe have another dinner with or make diner for them this time and see how things go.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... ne way... first you need to have a talk with your boyfriend about what happened. It takes two people to be intimate with eachother so he really shouldn't of dumped you for that. And if he doesn't want to be with you, there is nothing you can do about it and you are better off. Maybe he just needs some time to get over this. So give him a few days, of some time and space. Hopefully he will miss you and want to get back with you. Don't worry about his rents. They'll have to get over it as long as he wants to be with you. Overall they should understand im sure they make out all the time, or at least used to when they were young. ;)hehe
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You could try to set up another dinner of lunch or sumthing like that and just try to be like nice and appoligize about the car mishap, then just talk to him about it, hope i helped
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