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Seriously, i dont know what to do!
Ok, i really like this guy at school, but my close friends really hate him (he rejected them), and so i went to my other friends, and they were shocked, and not in a good way. I like the guy alot, and he flirts with me. I havent told my close friends, and i really want to, bacuse i always tell them. What should i do? I really need advice!
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I say, if you like him date him. Your friends will get over it eventually and life will go on. Just don't make your decisions based on what other people think
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Well if these people are really your friends, it shouldn't matter who you date, or if THEY'RE upset with him. Just cause they're not happy with him, doesn't mean you can't date him and can't have a possibly happy and great relationship.
Just talk to your friends about it, and let them know that you really like this guy and think you'd have a good relationship with them, and you just wanted to let them know and you understand that they may be mad, and you accept that, but they should accept the fact you like him & be happy for you too.
If they really do have a problem with this, then make a comprimise. Just don't have him hanging around them, and have them have their own time with you. Don't let the two intertwine if it's only going to cause drama and problems for everyone. Keep the boyfriend and the friends seperate. Just remember, don't let your boyfriend become first in your life, and your friends seconds.
"Chicks before dicks".
"Guys come and go, but friends are forever."
I hope I helped.
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well if you like this guy a lot then it shouldnt matter to your friends how you feel. They should be happy for you being happy. If they get mad over you liking a guy then they cant be real friends. Just do your own thing and if they dont like then let them be because you and this guy could have something special.
but you should never put a guy before friends unless you know that you and a guy are serious about each other.
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hi
just tell our friends how much you really like this guy and that they don't have to like him but at least try to because you really like him and at the end of the day it's you thats seeing him no your friends. and your friends are just looking out for you they just dont want to see you get hurt!
yours truly sam x x x
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okay well that's tough but if they were really your friends then they should be happy that you find someone i am pretty sure that if your friend dated someone that you didnt like then you would still be by her side and deal you know hope i can help.
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it doesnt matter what your friends think, only what you think.
and if they don't support you, there not your true friends.
and maybe you should talk to this guy, and say you've made some enemies with my friends, can you try talking to them?
and maybe he will.
hope i helped
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dear u,
I think you should tell your friends that you like him if they reject him you should go out with him any way because you choose the guys you wannt to go out with not them.
P.S: write back tell me how it goes
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Well obviously if you have friends that are true to you , they will accept anything about you . This includes who you like.Afterall they are not the ones that will be with this guy. It should not concern them who you like. Your happiness should be their only concern.You should tell them if that is what you want. I am sure it would be nice to have someone to share this with.
The fact that they dislike him is besides the point . Who should care if they do ? You can't lead your life for them. If the shoe was on the other foot do you think they would turn someone down they liked for you?Higly doubtful . They would want your acceptance of that person. I'm sure that your friends will understand . If not still it is your life. Do you always approve of their choice of boyfriends? I hope it all works out wonderfully for you !I hope you live for happiness!
Unity
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You should tell your close friends because it not good to keep thing bottled up and and if they are really your true friends then they'll understand and have to deal with you liking this guy.
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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