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Q: Does anyone know where I can get music videos to put in my myspace or to just watch online for free with no downloads?
thanks =)
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youtube.com
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: Okay, so today we had this big talent show and Im sort of interested in this girl named Rachel and has been liking her since the beggining of the year and all and we were great friends. Now she met this guy named Philip and well just left me basically and doesn't want to talk to me and all that so I got her several presents for our secret santa and she rejected all of them because I gave them to her in front of her friends so she was mad about that. And to tell you the truth I was pretty angry at her because I thought she was still my friend and won't be embarassed if I give her a present. So then this other cute girl named Emily didn't have a secrete santa so I gave her the mini green teddy bear I got for Rachel, a card, and her favorite earings and she took them and hugged me and said thanks. So as for the talent show Emily was the clossing act and sang with her best bud, and let me tell you their was no cd playing only her and a gituar and her friend singing like Kelly Clarkson or Aly and AJ combined all in one. I mean never once have I heard that kind of voice! It was amazing so I just had to go on and on to my best buds about this and they still thought I liked Rachel so they started rumors about me and Emily that I liked her since Rachel didn't have the same feelings that I had for her and I just don't want emily to know well.. at least not now. So I don't want her to think I have a crush on her but how to stop this mean rumors befores she hears them. and gossip and rumours travel fast! PLEASE HELP!!!
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Q: Well, okay. I had about 3-4 best friends. And I used to sit with them at lunch. Recently, I haven't been sitting with them because nobody talks to me even when I try to strike up a conversation. So now it's even worse. None of my friend's talk to me. Well, they talk to me sometimes, but not like 'your my best friend' anymore. One of my friends, David, doesn't talk to me at ALL. So I sat with them at lunch again and things went back to normal.
But I wonder - are they really good friends in the first place at all if they don't talk to me when they see me unless I sit with them at lunch?
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it sounds like their getting a little tired of you. No offense but you said when ever you try to have a conversation with your friends they don't respond. It seems to me that they want to move on and kinda forget about you because they won't even talk to you. I probably bet they think of you as a used tissue. Onced you used it you throw it way. So I'm telling you do the same to them. Don't waist your time and energy trying to get their attention or have them talking to you because your better than that you trying to get a relationship of friends back but their not even trying to do the same to you!
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: i am 15/M
One of my best mates told me she loves me, and i was cool with that, i didn't panic, because it happens to me alot but i did not want to lose her as a friend. Anyhow, now she's changed alot.
Before she was really nice and friendly and always had time for other people. Now she's become this mean bitch who takes the piss out of people and is quite cruel. She's become so self-centred.
I want to tell heri don't want to know her anymore...but she'll ask why not.
Should i tell her the truth ? or just cut her off ?
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I think you should tell her the truth because if she really was this friendly back then, then she'll understand how you feel and probably go back to the way she was. I think she's becoming a little more self centered because she's trying to get you to notice her TRUST me Im a girl and I know what she's trying to do. She's trying to act like one of those popular drama queens so you'll notice her and start asking her out! But when you tell her the truth don''t say stop acting like that your such a bitch! You have to take it more calmly and give her some compliments because if you tell her the flat truth she'll get her feelings hurt by the person she
loves! If you need more help visit my advice column and ask me another question!
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: Thanks for the help but I am still not sure what to do about guy#1 becuase if I ask him to go to the movies it would be really random because we have never hung out before so I am not sure what to do about that! And if I did ask him to hang out at the movies he would think I was asking him out and I would rather see what he thinks about me first so what kind of signs besides flirting with him in class should I give him for him to know that I like him and I dont really see him outside of English and Biology! Thanks again I really appreciate it!
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Okay don't worry I have a plan for you! So instead of just asking him out like to go to the movies for fun you could say that your group of friends are going to the movies and ask if he'll join. Then when your in the theater is right next to him and try like to bump into his foot or accidently touch hands in the popcorn, but make sure not to make direct eye contact with him because he's going to think your doing it on purpose! As for in class besides flirting you could give him tiny compliment BUT NOT TO BIG compliments. Then kind of sweet talk him a little bit that always gets guys interested but have no clue what your doing! Getting a guy a present is not so terrible I mean by now I'm assuming you guys have a friend connection by now so get him something special that says I care about you like a friend or boyfriend.
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
PS: If that doesn't work out email me again!
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Q: okay, well i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for christmas.
he doesnt like sports, nor fishing etc..
he is more into music
and i would like to get him something more special then just concert tickets or somthing.
pllllease help with cute ideas
thank you!!
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well if he's into music you could get him one of those new ipod nano's and it's really affordable. You can find more information on this product at www.apple.com.
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: Ok, i really like this guy at school, but my close friends really hate him (he rejected them), and so i went to my other friends, and they were shocked, and not in a good way. I like the guy alot, and he flirts with me. I havent told my close friends, and i really want to, bacuse i always tell them. What should i do? I really need advice!
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You should tell your close friends because it not good to keep thing bottled up and and if they are really your true friends then they'll understand and have to deal with you liking this guy.
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: ok so just about an hour ago
i just got this really bad headache
so i took advil
it helped
and while my head hurt my heart started to like hurt
its when i breathe in it like hurts
and you know when its cold out and your breathe in and its all liek cold.
it feels like that
and idk what to do
and its hurts and feels weird!
im 14 if that helps!
but someone help me!
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I asked my mom because she's a doctor in a hospital and she took a look at your symptoms and said its normal for some kids and teens to have that because your body rejects the temperature when your out in the cold therefor stressing your heart to pump more blood primarly to keep you at your normal body temperature. So you should probably stay really warm or just until your body gets adjusted to the weather. Hoped I Helped!
Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: ive only been at this school for 2 months and i met a kid...and well we got to know each other real fast and then he askd me out..but my only problem was that i had feelings for another kid also at another school...i still do. my birthday is tomarrow. and there is rummors saying that he is planing to give me a present and ask me back out...i dont know what to do but thats not all..i just found out the other kid i like is also planning to ask me out.. how do i say no to the first one without being messed up..
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RUMORS ARE RUMORS!... so calm down because usually rumors arent true but they sometimes can be. If you want to reject a guy without saying it rudley you could say that your already taken by another person and your truely sorry now here comes the hard part you have to at least compliment him once when you do this like you deserve someone better than me (not true!) that way he'll be left something instead of nothing.
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Q: well, i went to my friends party and a guy asked me out there. i said i couldn't answer because i knew nothing about him. i thought he was hot, but i cant go out with a guy cuz of just that. hes ONE grade above me and goes to a different school. we talked a bit because he was trying to convince me to say yes. we have a lot of common intrests and i really do think he's sweet. i have his phone number, but i dont know if its worth it. he'd be in high school one year before me, and a different high school than mine too. i dont kknow if it would work. i couldnt see him at school and he'll probably forget about me anyways.. but still. should i call him back??? is it worth it???
-birdxhitsxwall
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I wouldn't go out with a person just because their handsome but the grade thing really doens't fit in with you because guys like to go with girls their age and everyone knows that if a guy is older than you and asks you out it'll be for one night and the guy will just forget about while your standing their saying ok... so are you my boyfriend or no!
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: ok so i know its a little early...but i am excited to start looking at prom dresses. i havent gone to any stores but i dont even know where to look. im not willing to spend a lot of money, but a decent amount for a nice and beautiful dress. im looking at in between 100-200 dollars, maybe get a designer one on sale... i donno. i dont even know what i want but something elegant, definatly not poof out. i usually go for black because i like elegant and long, but i want to be able to stand out and also be able to dance in it. all the sites i find like edresses.com or w/e are kind of trashy and outdated. any ideas for websites/stores? preferribly web sites so i can see them now?
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Ok, since your not spending over 300.00 for designer dresses which is normal, so I found a great link that'll show you beautiful prom dresses and it'll show you latest hairstyles, makeup, other goodies at this website: www.prom-dresses.com.
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: Dear Columnist,
Here's my situation, I'm 18/f and this guy I can't seem to let go is 20/m. I have been what is the closest I have ever felt to love for someone, with him for almost 6 years now. Now, given, when I crush I crush big time and I've had crushes before and during him but never like this. With most of my crushes I feel really strongly for them but it all fades after a few months with no return on the feeling. But with him, it has been near 6 years and there hasn't even been so much as dulling of my feeling. I am oblivious when it comes to matters of the heart involving me. I really feel a connection with him and would have sworn he felt, at least something, too. But when I finally got up the nerve to tell him that I really like him, all he said was that he has a girlfriend. I know that's a given road block, and I really had accepted that there wasn't going to be anything there but when I worked with him over the next couple weeks I could still see the same way he looked at me, and the way he showed so much concern for me. I've never had anyone show so much positive emotion towards me even through his eyes. I just can't let go, I feel there's something more there he's not showing but I don't know where to go from here or what else I can do to either win him over or at least know how he feels so I can let go. Please help.
Thanks- "Lost in Love"
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Ok, well I know this is kind of childish but you could get a complete makeover you know like new hair style, a little more makeup, some really breath taking clothes and after your wardrobe is all done once you get to work you could act like you forgot all about him but still try to get his attention without him knowing it like for example if your wearing leather boots you could put one of your feet on his chair and lace them it always gets guys attention and then just say oh im sorry was I lacing my boots on your chair (whoops!). I'm not guranteeing it but it always workes for me. But its a 75% chance of you winning him over and another 50% not.
Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help.
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Oh my god! You should definately break up with your boyfriend because I think he's afraid that you might break up with him because no one in the entire world would like him so he's basically threatning you to stay with him because he knows he can't find another girlfriend! But this "Mat" person seems like a better one because he gave you so much help like a true friend/boyfriend should instead of hitting girls. So go out with him and forget about your old one and if he starts hitting you or touching you in anyway that you don't like tell your parents or at least the teacher because he thinks your to nice to tell on him! Hoped I Helped!
Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: wat is benzoyl peroxide and salaclyic acid i know it like clears acne but where can i find it
-wat face wash is good for dry skin and get rid of pimples and not make my face look dry
--wat make-up is good by coverin pimples so no1 can see them and won't make more pimples come
hope that makes sense
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well I wouldn't recommend any like fash wash to get rid of pimples because it really doesn't work and if it does it'll take like 2 months to get rid of 3 pimples and every foundation or powder you use your acne cause the ingredients in your powder or foundation to clog up pores, makes your face greecy, and of cours makes them even redder! So I recommend you get lasser treatment it really works the pain is small and I also recommend you go to a spa to remove any cloged up pores instead of the stuff you buy at drug stores because the cleaner and less cloged up pores you'll skin will look so smooth. Just look at my face in my advice column (optional)
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Q: on average, how much do you usually spend on clothes at A&f or hollister in one trip if you have pretty wealthy parents?
i need to know whats reasonable.
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I haven't gone to Abercombie and Finch in a long time but the most I spent was $2000 - $3000 dollars on really beatiful jeans and other clothing in the store. I usually shop at Dolce & Gabanna, Gucci, Chanel, Coach and other stores like that. Hollister I would never shop at... TO CHEAP if you have wealthy parents... so Abercombie and Finch is your best choice.
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Q: Well there is this new kid in my school and is soooooo hot or if you want to call it cute. Well his name is Victor. and like i really like him and i dont know if he likes me back!!!????
I know his name and last name but he doesnt even know i like him or my Name!!!!!!
from,
Confused
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Introduce your self! You'll never get anywhere in a relationship if the guy doesn't even know your name.
So I say don't start flirting first let him be the one to do it because everyone knows if a guy is interested in you he'll drop some hints (little flirts) at you. Start hanging around him like ask him to sit with you at lunch. Or another great way to see if he's interested is ask one of his friends if he's seeing anyone because your friend wants to know! It works evertime.
Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: So i am a freshman in high school and of course there is gunna be drama!! Well there are a few guys that I like and am not sure if they feel the same way!! I can tell that they like to hang around me but the problem is i can't tell if they want to hang out outside of school as more than friends!! For example, this one guy in my english and biology class (guy1) he is athletic but he seems to flirt with me all the time and tease me! See i am on the Varsity drill team which is a big deal for a freshman to make and he always puts on my cowboy hat that we have to wear as part of our uniform for drill team. He does it just as a joke and he will always make me chase him around to get it which i think is sooo cute. But anyways he talks to me a lot in class but we never see eachother outside of class what should I do?
Then There is (guy#2)he is in my frech class and he is new to the school! I figured out he lives in my neighborhood and he also teases me about drill team. He even made up this hilarious dance and song about it. He isn't very hott but i think he is really nice. so i dont know what to do about him either.
Okay now another guy which is kind of mysterious (guy #3)but he is so cute. He is also in my english class and we have actually never talked alone but still he is so much fun to look at. That is basically all about he besides he is hott and I have caught him looking at me across the room because our desks are turned into eachother. Then there is my ex-boyfriend who is kind of a jerk and I happen to just run into him in the halls all the time at school and it is so annoying. Somethimes i think i still like him but it is hard to tell because i am so mad at him. I would rather just forget about him and pertend he didn't exist but everytime i see him he gives me a high five for waves at me! ugh he is so immature too! I dont see how i ever like him! Well that is about it I would really like some advice on what I should do or what guys u think like me or what things i should do so they know that I like them too! This was long but for ever helps I really appreciate it I have been at lost for awhile for what I should do about the situation. Guys r so confusing!! Thanks!
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Okay... It sounds like Guy # 1 is really trying to get you to notice him by doing all of these things. Guy # 2 and Guy # 3 don't give me enough information if they love you (sorry!) but I think guy # 1 really does have some feelings for you... but just to be on the safe side don't start flirting back to guy #1 because he may not share the same feelings but try to hang around him some more like go to the movies or something has friends with Guy # 2 or Guy # 3 and 1 and if the guys start to flirt with you, you know that you can wrap that puppy up and take him home!
Hoped I Help, Ayumi Hamasaki
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Q: So theres this girl who used to REALLY like my boyfriend. Once she told me she hated herself for letting him go and she will always have a place in her heart for him. Well My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and I know he has no feelings for her but it bugs me when she tries to talk all cute to him. The weird thing tho is that I want to be her friend. I talk to her alot and we plan on hanging out. I hate her when she talks to my boyfriend and I'm jelous of her for some odd reason but then I want to be her friend. Is that weird?
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Its not weird at all! It's just that you and your friend are really close and when she tries to talk all cute with your boyfriend it bugs you because you feel like your in some competiton with her to see who wins the guys heart but its really not true! Talk to your friend and say that you don't like all this flirting with my boyfriend and please stop because it bugs be and I feel like I have to be in a competition with you.
Hoped I Help, Ayumi Hamasaki
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bio
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Hi, I'm Ayumi Hamasaki, I love giving adivce to my friends, family, and random people who need it.
So feel free to aks me anything and I'll try to respond to the question 100% no matter what!
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Member Since: November 20, 2006 Answers: 18 Last Update: December 23, 2006 Visitors: 1282
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