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Question Posted Sunday December 3 2006, 12:21 pm

Well, okay. I had about 3-4 best friends. And I used to sit with them at lunch. Recently, I haven't been sitting with them because nobody talks to me even when I try to strike up a conversation. So now it's even worse. None of my friend's talk to me. Well, they talk to me sometimes, but not like 'your my best friend' anymore. One of my friends, David, doesn't talk to me at ALL. So I sat with them at lunch again and things went back to normal.

But I wonder - are they really good friends in the first place at all if they don't talk to me when they see me unless I sit with them at lunch?


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coolchic12000 answered Sunday December 3 2006, 3:51 pm:
they probably just thought that you had fell out with them because you did not sit with them

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AyumiHamasaki answered Sunday December 3 2006, 3:43 pm:
it sounds like their getting a little tired of you. No offense but you said when ever you try to have a conversation with your friends they don't respond. It seems to me that they want to move on and kinda forget about you because they won't even talk to you. I probably bet they think of you as a used tissue. Onced you used it you throw it way. So I'm telling you do the same to them. Don't waist your time and energy trying to get their attention or have them talking to you because your better than that you trying to get a relationship of friends back but their not even trying to do the same to you!

Hoped I Helped, Ayumi Hamasaki

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HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Sunday December 3 2006, 3:36 pm:
Well maybe they feel you didnt wanna be their friend because you havnt sat with them lately. If they arnt being rude to you or ignoring you I wouldnt worry about it. I mean just start sitting with them more and your friendships will probably grow back to how it used to be. Goodluck.

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday December 3 2006, 2:38 pm:
i used to be in the same situation as you are in. they dont really care if ur there or not. it doesnt bother them. your just a "friend" to them. it doesnt matter wh at you say or do. my advice is to forget them and find better friends. (i am not tryin to say that they are bad ones). hope this helps.
&heart; Steph

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