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I have some acne on my face and I need a really good foundation or concealer or any other product that will help hide the acne well and will always work. So, any suggestions?
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I would also use bare minerals and not any other foundations because it clogs up pores, makes your acne worse,and builds up oil in your face.
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I just got out of a 5 1/2 year relationship (we were engaged) in July and I'm finding it very hard to deal with.
I left him because after a while, I realized that it was more of a friendship. I love him very much but I guess I'm just not in love with him anymore. I didn't feel that SPARK or that passion.
He was my best friend for so many years and I guess a part of me just wishes I felt the same as him. I know he loves me and is in love with me and it breaks my heart to hurt him this way.
Sometimes, I just feel like running back to him because I want so badly to just take away his pain and make everything better but I know it wouldn't be fair to do that.
I just don't know how to deal with everything. I don't know how to move on and deal with the way I feel.
It's hard to explain. I just feel like a terrible person because I've made him hurt this way. Everyone tells me that I what I've done is for the best. Everyone supports me. I've been told several times that he just wasn't the one for me and it was obvious.
So in a way I know what I've done is the best for ME but it's just so hard to move on.
I don't know if I'm making any sense. If anyone has gone through this, how did you deal with the breakup? How did you get over feeling so horrible about hurting someone you care very much about? (link)
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I haven't been in one those situations before but I'm going to say that it's not your fault that you didn't feel the spark and if your boyfriend really cared about you he would respect your judgement and your request because he knows you did it for a reason and he's probably not sad but happy that you told him the reason and besides you still can be best friends right? So don't worry that he's in pain and the best way to deal with it I guess is to hang out with him and the more you do that the easier it will be to get over it i think. Hope this advice works.
Sophia
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wow you dont need to tell people they are not ready for sex if they are just asking if it is normal at the age of 13 to want to have sex. they didnt ask if they should/.. .you shouldnt even be on this website you suck at advice and at life (link)
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well Im sorry if my advice was that bad and I hope you make the right decision.
Sophia
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okay this is going to be long but plz i need the help! okay throughout my whole life i have never known my dad because he has been in jail for like ever! he was in jail because he abused my mom and almost killed her. but i really wanna know him...he is out of jail right now and is not allowed to come around me...but recently my dad seen my aunt and told my aunt to tell me he loved me but im not suppose to know this......i only know because i overheard my aunt on the phone with my mom and my mom doesnt want her to tell me and my mom doesnt want me around my dad. 4 years ago...he was out of jail i think and as i was walking home from school my aunt from my dad's side was in a car parked on the street waiting for me to walk by and as i did she started asking me questions like if i remember my dad and stuff. so like my dad or that aunt on my dads side would have had to been like watching me and to know if i still lived there and to know what time i got out from school. then like a year after that happened we had a court date which i went to and my dad never showed up for the court date so my mom has custody of me. now like a couple of months ago i was with my mom in the store and my mom saw my dad in there and told me that was my dad....my dad saw me and my mom but he like turned around and walked the other way as if he didnt want to see me or he was just shocked or scared that i would hate him.....my mom almost went crazy in that store when she saw him she started cussing and everyhting lol. but my question is now does it seem like he wants to see me....and is it wrong for me to want to know him even though he almost killed my mom.....whenever he was in jail he would always send me stuff but my mom never gave me them things...she would throw them away...except she did let me keep this little purse with my name on it....please help me i am so confeused about all of this....it's really hard not having a dad. but is it wrong for me to want to know him and does it seem like he wants to see me? thank you so much (link)
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If you really feel that you want to have a conversation and start knowing your dad I say go for it. Your mom is upset that your dad abused her and that won't change but that dosen't mean you can get to know your dad. Your mom doesn't want you to see him because she's afraid that he'll do the same thing to you and she doesn't want you to get hurt. Hoped I helped.
Sophia
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im trying to loose about 30 pounnds
in 6 weeeks
which means i have to loose 5 pounds a week
but i dont know how to start it
i know you have to excerise and eat right
help?!
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Im sorry to say that you can't loose 5 pounds a week because its so hard to loose a pound a week.
So I sujest you get more active like sports, cheerleading, extra curicular actvites, yoga, or jog for 30 minutes, and swim (optional). Don't skip a meal especially Breakfast but make sure you have a healthy breakfast, lunch, and dinner. You can have snacks like fruit, and vegtables. Also no white bread, mayo, fat foods, fast foods, and other things that have high carbs, calories, sugar, and sodium (salt).
Hope I helped, Sophia
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Well I started dating this guy and we've only been dating 4 like 2 weeks but we talk less now than we did b4 we started going out and I hardly ever see him..and then theres this other guy I like and talk 2 like everyday and I see him more than my bf so I'm thinking about dumping the first guy 4 the 2nd one...but how do I let him down easy?? or should I just stay with him and see what happens??? Thanks! (link)
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Well... Tell him that you need to spend more time with each other so our relationship can work. If you still can't manage spending time fore him then break up with him and say you want to be friends and go on for the secound guy.
Sophia
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Well, I want to loose 20 pounds by November 11 2006. My plan is ;
Breakfast- special K cerial.
Lunch- school lunch. witch is GROSS. so I will just drink water.
When i get home from school. - special K cerial.
Dinner- whatever my mom cooks =[. [usally healthy tho.]
walk a mile everyday
150 crunches.
only drink water. & diett drinks.
Thanks. I have been trying to loose weight for a while now.
2 healthy snacks during the day.
I can't brinng my own lunch.
Thanks =]
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Thats almost a perfect plan but please eat the school lunch because you'll get protein and everything else you need to keep your body from slowing down. Also special K is good but eat a small portion everyday. ALSO no diet or sugar free in anything!!! They have all these chemicals that can cause Cancer I heard due to all of these chemicals in the juice, soda or anything. So water is good but you can try like flavored water thats also good I believe.
Hope this works.
Sophia
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ok im 13/f and i really want to have sex and like its like i really need it. its weird cause i like get these erges to do it. is this normal for a 13 year old? (link)
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NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE DO NOT HAVE SEX YOU ARENT READY TO DO THIS AND YES ITS NORMAL BUT PLEASE DON'T BECAUSE THIS CAN CAUSE SOME HEALTH ISSUES WHEN YOU GROW UP!!
Sophia
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ok well i have acne. lots of it, i mean its like almost every wear on my body my back my face my chest even my butt. how do i get rid of it?
Thanx in advance! (link)
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You should probably by some acne removal products in a drug store like CVS or something.
I aslo recommend you go to the dermatologist because they can perscribe you some acne medication and 2 weeks of that medication and I bet you'll have better skin. Also don't get stressed, avoid fatty foods, and scrub your self with a soap bar from head to toe. Hope this works.
Sophia
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Well here's the deal. I'm going out with a guy that I don't really want to be going out with. I only said yes because I know he really likes me but I just don't like him. I like his best friend. But his best friend has a girlfriend...but he likes me back. So I really don't know what to do. I don't know how to dump him but still be friends? Please someone...HELP.
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Well if you really don't have feelings for him then there was no reason to dating this guy.
Next time you see him say that your relationship with him is not working and tell him that you and him should still be strong friends with one another.
Sophia
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I'm fat/not pretty. Yesterday two of my 'friends' IMed me saying 'Hey Sexy'. I know they were joking around, but for some reason it just really got to me, and I felt like I was a joke to them. (they're both guys) Now I'm very mad at the two of them, and I know they both feel bad, they've sent me messages, called me, etc, but I just don't respond. My question is, am I overreacting? What should I do? (link)
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Those to guys were probably joking around and didn't mean to offend you in anyway. There is no reason to be discouraged about your body because you seem like a beautiful lady in your own way and at leat your a kind person. I understand this because my sister Kailun is a senior in high school and she was skinny, and she was hot, and popular but whenever she saw me she trashed talked me and she kept making me feel like im a no - body in front of her friends.
Sophia
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well they say breakfast is the most important meal of the day. its always hard to make up my mind on what to eat before school.
and i'm asking if anyone knowns some quick healthy breakfasts that i could at least eat every other day. or what foods i could alternate with. thanx for the advice. (link)
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you could eat granola bars because they have everything you have to start your day right and you can even it yogurt or an apple because you can take it where ever you want if your in a rush
Sophia
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I'm 14/f and a freshman in Highschool. I was my first highschool dance the other night and tons of seniors wanted to grind with me. I didn't really mind cause I wasn't overdoing it. The first guy I danced with though eventually asked me when we were dancing "Do you want to go somewhere else?" and I really didn't want to have sex (I'm a virgin) so I said 'no'. Then he said "okay it was nice to meet you.", he shook my hand, and walked away. I have no idea why, but all night I felt really bad for him. I know it's dumb cause it's like 'I feel bad because I didn't have sex with him like he wanted'. Do you know why I feel this way? What do you think I would have ended up doing if I did? (blowjob, just sex, fingering, ect.)
Thanks so much. I RATE! (link)
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You were right to say no because he just wanted to have sex with you therefor he didn't even get to know you so yeah he just wanted to impress is guy friends or something but next time when you sense a guy wanting to have sex with you then take the time to know him for at least 2 weeks because a guy can't just dance with you and then say hey you wanna have sex??
Sophia
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heyy well i have really small boobs, and i want to know how to make them bigger without using medicine. does it help to drink milk or to squeeze them or something? and don't say you can't make them bigger without medicine, because i know you can becuase all of the slutty girls have big boobs and all of the non-slutty girls have tiny boobs, so they must be doing something to make them bigger. please help! (link)
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Okay I'm sorry to tell you that your body controls how big your breats are and when you take the medicine I hear it can cause you seriouse health problems later on so I don't think medicine will help your breats bigger. The best thing I can say is wait a few years and trust me you'll see results after a couple of years so relax and let your body do the working!!!
Sophia
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age:13
gender:female
school is starting for me tomorrow and i need some advice on how to take on people who make fun of me.the school i go to is 7-12 graders combined in one school.and theres one perticular guy i can't stand.his name is nick and i used to have a crush on him.but then i found out he was a real jerk.now he makes fun of me saying i wouldn't date you in a million years.and when he would pass me he would make a barfing noise.and he makes fun of me and my bf cause we're such an odd couple.people say he's a freak and everything.he makes very rude remarks about us.and i can't just ignore it cause i've done that before and he doesn't stop.and i want to tell him off but i don't know how.my sister has stuck up for me for years but now i can barely see her so i have to face him alone.what do i do?
sorry this is long. (link)
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Oooh Thats a tough one. Well Im 13 also and I have been in one of those situations. You tried ignoring him but that doesn't work so here's what I sujest you do: Maybe He has a crush on you and thats what most guys do to show you that they care about you, or tell him straight in the face that why are you doing all these horrible things to me and if you really care about me then please stop it so we can get on with are lives. If things don't work then I recommend you
going to your principle, sister, or your parents to put a stop to this before it gets out of hand.
Hope I could help.
Sophia
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