Member Since: August 27, 2006
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Last Update: August 27, 2006
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Hi,
I’m going to try to make this brief since I know you don’t have time to
be going through pages of my problems. You see, I am love with this guy
DJ, I have been since I was in 6th grade, when we started off as being
friends. That eventually grew into being best friends, and before I
knew it, he liked me. But I didn’t see it because at that point I didn’t
know what it was like to be liked by a boy. When he liked me, I was
going through stages of struggling with makeup, getting my first period,
desperately trying to learn how to shape my eyebrows (which always ended
up being pencil thin), and trying to figure out where I belonged in my
social circle (at the time I was more in the “gangster” kind of
clique).
He was my first love, and no matter how hard I’ve tried, I could never
get him out of my head, nor my heart. I’ve liked other boys, but he had
always been in my heart, and there was not a time in my life that I was
definite that if he asked me out I would say no. He was (and still is)
a very handsome boy that all the girls swoon over. When I was in 6th
grade we were very close, until something happened at the end of the year
which caused us to part. In 7th grade, things were very wishy-washy,
meaning that we weren’t very good friends, although we didn’t exactly
hate each other. We talked every now and then if something bad happened
between one of our friends but nothing other than that. I felt things for
him on and off, and he remained in my heart, but I knew that the way
things were going, that it would be pointless to try to get us together.
I told him during the year that I liked him sometimes, but of course,
since we weren’t very good friends, he didn’t care very much. And there
were also times that I told him that I didn’t like him anymore which
was always a lie since he was always in my heart. A few days ago he
instant messaged me saying that he felt stupid for walking out on me, and
that he regretted it because he realized that I was a good friend. So we
are now best friends again, and I’d have to say that I’m pretty happy.
I want to tell him how much he means to me, that I dream about him at
night, and that I am overally just completely in love with him. The only
thing is that as I am in love with him, he is in love with this other
girl Casey, the one that he was going out with in 6th grade, when he
liked me, but he cared for her more so wouldn’t leave her for me. He had
told me that at the beginning of the school year that he would ask her
out again, which is coming on September 6th. I feel that my time is
running out, but since we have only just became being best friends again, I
don’t want to rush things, because I don’t want to mess things up and I
want us to have a relationship.
I need some serious help on what to do from here.
He means everything to me and I only wish that I meant the same to him
in his eyes.
Please help. I’d appreciate it so much you have no idea.
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ok. well.. you soundd like a very sweet girl that any guy would like.. i think that you should try just getting to know him more than you already do and talk to him.. and see what happens from there.. see if he likes you.. if nothing happens then maybe try tlkin 2 him.. but after you guys ahve been friends for a while..
Good Luck.. i hope i helped u!
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ok.. so today.. my boyfriend broke up with me (after 17 amazing months of making out)
before he broke up with me.. he told me that i made him gay.. and that he now has a boyfriend that he's been seeing for a little less than half of our relationship..
He told me that he loves him and is going to get married to him.. and now i feel like crap
I mean.. all we did was make out.. and he says I sucked and he turned gay...
then to prove he was gay.. because i thought he was kidding- he showed me a picture of his boyfriend on a gay porn website.. then he showed me that he was on the website too..
I still thought he was kidding- so i went to give him a kiss- and he said "sorry- I'm really gay, Kayleigh.. i'll show you my boyfriend and i'll make out with him".. so he showed me his boyfriend (who was sitting about 20 feet behind us) and they made out for like 5 minutes..
so now i don't know what to do.. i feel like crap because I turned my Ex-boyfriend gay.. and now i've got his parents on my back yelling at me because he's gay now...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?? I need help!
I thought about suicide.. but i'm not sure?
am I going crazy? am I really that bad of a kisser? please help!
~Turned-My-Ex-Gay
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ok.. in my opinion.. i dont think u could have turned yur boyfriend gay.. so u should just ignore everybody and stop thinking about suicide.. its not yur fault! he was probably already gay.. dont worry hun.. hope i helped..
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The guy I like has a girlfriend and Im friends with her but i really really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but i know there prolly not gonna break up for a LONG time if they even do at all. But heres the thing. HE LIKES ME BACK. I just really dont know what to do. And i like this other guy and hes single but I dont know if he likes me back or not bcuz im scared to ask him and have him say no then ill get embarrassed if he tells all his friends. what should i dooo??
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well.. even if they do break up. it might hurt your friend if you go out with her old boyfriend.. i think you should tlk 2 the other guy you like and see if he likes you back.. and take it from there.. hope i helped! =]
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