my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore.. what should I do?
Question Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 12:03 am
ok.. so today.. my boyfriend broke up with me (after 17 amazing months of making out)
before he broke up with me.. he told me that i made him gay.. and that he now has a boyfriend that he's been seeing for a little less than half of our relationship..
He told me that he loves him and is going to get married to him.. and now i feel like crap
I mean.. all we did was make out.. and he says I sucked and he turned gay...
then to prove he was gay.. because i thought he was kidding- he showed me a picture of his boyfriend on a gay porn website.. then he showed me that he was on the website too..
I still thought he was kidding- so i went to give him a kiss- and he said "sorry- I'm really gay, Kayleigh.. i'll show you my boyfriend and i'll make out with him".. so he showed me his boyfriend (who was sitting about 20 feet behind us) and they made out for like 5 minutes..
so now i don't know what to do.. i feel like crap because I turned my Ex-boyfriend gay.. and now i've got his parents on my back yelling at me because he's gay now...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?? I need help!
I thought about suicide.. but i'm not sure?
am I going crazy? am I really that bad of a kisser? please help!
aDvIce2Ux0 answered Sunday August 27 2006, 6:52 pm: ok.. in my opinion.. i dont think u could have turned yur boyfriend gay.. so u should just ignore everybody and stop thinking about suicide.. its not yur fault! he was probably already gay.. dont worry hun.. hope i helped.. <33 [ aDvIce2Ux0's advice column | Ask aDvIce2Ux0 A Question ]
BlackBatman answered Sunday August 27 2006, 10:37 am: First off. You probably didn't turn your ex bf gay just by being a bad kisser. Really, that idea is just rediculous. Hes probably been gay for a long wile. Stop thinking about suicide and all these other things that are the easy way out and relize that hes just an ass. The best thing you can really do is just to move on. I personally hate this quote, but somethings the best revenge IS living well, and that's exatally what you should do Kayleigh. Live it up. Life is too short to even spend a minute in sorrow. Go out and LIVE YOUR LIFE. I personally hope everything works out for you
caramella answered Sunday August 27 2006, 9:49 am: WOW!You did NOT turn your ex gay,trust me.If there were troubles between you and him,he could have confronted you about it but he had a thing for guys all along.Many ppl break up and dont turn gay.Its not your fault you were being respectful and didnt do anything eles with him.Forget about him!Are you actually planning on being the gf of a gay dude and taking him back?!?They probably had (ew)sex and you can get stds if you ever do anything with him.Omg committing suicide and ending your life over a gay dude??You gotta be kidding.How old are you?If you commit suicide now it means your not strong enough to face life.Youre going to meet other problems in life and if you think about commiting suicide at everthing that bothers you,youre gonna die early.If he wants to be gay,he can go to hell.If you need more help contact me.good luck [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
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