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i'm thinking about having sex with my boyfriend


Question Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 10:24 pm

hey
i am 15 and he is 16.. should we have sex??
we really love each other and we think its time.. plus.. how do you have sex? we don't know how..


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orphans answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:45 pm:
Wow..just wow.


Why even ask this question? How do you plan on having sex when you don't even know what sex is? Not knowing *how to have sex* = not knowing anything about it.

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more_than_a_feeling answered Sunday August 27 2006, 10:31 am:
I noticed you rated everyone a 1. Well, you shouldn't even ask a question like that to begin with. If you don't know how, you're clearly not ready to. We all said that. And everyone was just voicing their opinions. And why trust the question of losing your virginity to random people you don't know on the internet?

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caramella answered Sunday August 27 2006, 9:58 am:
I dont think you should do it now.Youre way too young and you can end up regreting it like ALMOST EVVVVERYBODY thats 15 does.What if after you have sex you guys break up and it turns out your pregnant?Youll be a child with a child and both need mothers.You should be sure that the guy your gonna do it with doesnt have stds and that you will be staying with him forever(marriage)Besides if you do it now and break up and get another boyfreind,do it with him and break up,your reputation is going to be terrible.Think of the consenquences of your actions.

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queenhearts answered Sunday August 27 2006, 6:47 am:
If you don't know how to have sex then obviously it's not time. Didn't you have a sex ed class or lesson?

It's really your decision but there's a few things to think of:

Your period and the right timing.
STDS
Birth control
Other protection

There's also some negative things to having sex.
What if you to break up?
It's not love then.
Is he going to tell all of his friends what he did?
Rumors and everything.

It could be a lot of unwanted pressure.

You should wait when you're older, just in case you get pregnant. You may handle things better at an older age.

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livingLIKEloversxx answered Sunday August 27 2006, 4:29 am:
... well, if you don't knwo how to have sex, i reccomend not doing it. and i don't think that complete strangers telling you over the internet is the best way to find out how. ... just one question, how can you think it's time for you two to have sex when you barely know what it is?

try later. when you have more knowledge of risks and commitments.

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