i am a girl and i am really scared to have sex for the first time because of the pain. when you first have sex with someone you really love does it not hurt as much then if it was with someone that you didnt love. i am scared of the pain.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? hannahd answered Sunday August 27 2006, 2:01 am: First off, you shouldn't have sex until you are completely comfortable with the idea that you're sharing something special with him. Of course it's normal to be a little nervous about your first time, but you shouldn't go into anything deathly scared of the pain; physical pain is the last of your worries. Anyways, physical pain is physical pain. I think if you're more comfortable & more relaxed with this person, it'll be less painful. But then again, I don't think you should be having sex with someone you don't love. That's no fun. That's my opinion, anyway. [ hannahd's advice column | Ask hannahd A Question ]
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