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I'm 16, i'm online at night and i figured that i give advice pretty much more than i eat so i would start to do the column again i was fomerly AskNick so if u have anyproblems email me or ask a question and i'll get back to you asap x

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female 16
Ive never head sex before and I dont know if its gonna hurt or not and if there is gonna be loads of blood and what not.

How do i know when im ready to do it? And what if the person I do it with is like oh my god ur 'tight' is that a gd or bad thing?

Many things will hurt in life.. sex is a particularly funny thing because sometimes it will hurt it depends on your body ect...

when your ready for sex you'll know but don't force your body because it will hurt you much more and not only physically but mentally

Fear is something to overcome if your not ready take it slow xxxx

All the best

-x- Sky -x-

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Okay, I'm scared to tell my mom... I think I might be bisexual.I'm afraid to tell anyone but my one close friend. So what should I do because I know it's a sin. Help!?!?!?

Bisexuality is not a sin...

Many people belive that dating there own gender was wrong but that was in the 1930's lol! times have changed and now it's okay to be that way we no longer live in a reality where Gay Lesbian or Bisexual is a 'sin'

Tell your mom if you think that she can handle the facts because it will play on your mind and it will just eat away at you all the time..

You have nothing to be ashamed of, you have done nothing wrong, you were born this way and it's you as a person don't deny what makes you you! own it and enjoy it because at the end of the day the only oppinion that matters is that of our own heart so look deep take a breath and tell her what you feel....

All the best

-x- Sky -x-

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okay let me explain .. if you got a cell phone...well you can type in a number and then a person number and you can see everyone body who calls them and there conversations but i dont know how to do it and i want to see if my boyfriend is cheating on me? does anyone know?

I wouldn't worry too much about this because if he is cheating on you he won't keep the phone records plus it's an invasion of the civil rights act and quite rightly that if you did this your boyfriend wouldn't exactly trust you...

So for you to walk along this bridge your gonna have to burn the most important one and thats trust and with out that love doesn't stem and with no love or trust theres no realationship

All the best

-x- Sky -x-

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15/M My locker is next to someone who has some bisexual friends. There are 2 of them. The other day when school was over, one of them was like, hitting on me and saying that I'm cute and sexy and stuff like that. I'm straight, so I got a little freaked out. I am used to getting that from girls, but I'd never had someone who's gay do that before. The kid is pretty proud of be bi, too. He wears shirts that say stuff like "Don't hate, celebrate," and "Gay pride." He also wears rainbow-colored shirts and he wears make-up and acts and sounds very feminine. So it's not like he's trying to hide anything. Anyway, the other day when he did that, I got all mad and called him a fag, queerbag, and other derogatory words and yelled at him. And then, yesterday, he was standing in front of my locker, but instead of politely saying excuse me, I said, "get out of my way, you faggot," and then I grabbed him and pushed him out of my way. Then I said, "did you like that when I grabbed you, gay boy." Some of my friends said to go beat him up, but I would never do anything like that. My mom thinks that bisexuality is wrong because she thinks that people should pick to like one or the other. She doesn't hate anyone, and neither am I. I'm not against gay people. But what should I do to deal with this and what should I say to the kid to apologize? When those 2 incidents occured, everyone around was laughing at him and teasing him. I feel bad for him and I felt guilty. The rate of suicide among gay teenagers is high, and I don't want him to commit suicide and then blame me for it. What can I do to get rid of my anger? Is there counseling or anything?

Your anger stems from the Psycological Fear you have but it's nothing that in time can't be undone and worked on so that incidents like this don't occur again..

I have bisexual friends, many of them have hit on me or other mates and although it's shocking at first eventually you get used to it and take it as a compliment i'd advise you to make ammends for your actions by simply talking because everyone knows that words speak louder than actions don't show your sorry mean it! talk to him like a human because at the end of the day thats all he is is a human being just like me and you and what you did may have hurt him but it's nothing that you can't put right...


All the best

-x- Sky -x-

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Back in year 9 me and what was my best boy mate went out (i am now currently in year 11) since we have split up we seem to be constantly making arguments over the smallest of things eg: he would steal something of mine and would hold it in his hand and when i went to go get it back he would move it away until i had to touch his hand to get it back, only then would he be like "why you touching my hand for?" and silly little things like that.
My mates say he still feels something for me as he's making such a big deal out of little things, but i'm not so sure as to me you don't argue and be mean to someone you fancy? =S

It is human nature to punish those that we care about in most cases bullyining is a sign of a crush your 'Friend' is obviously still feeling something or he would do this to others instead of you play it cool and flirt a little then email me bk with what you find my private line is Naughtisky@blueyonder.co.uk

All the best and good luck

-x- Sky -x-

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First of all my friend has stopped talking to me, then he always wanted to kill himself and know hes into drugs!I don't know what to do.Please help!
ellie x

need to get your freind into self help class
connexions online can help to link you up to your self help groups maybe if you do this your friend will see how ur trying so hard to help them and begin to talk to you again you have to give him time to adjust plus the drugs make it worse so get in contact with people who are certified to handle drug abuse and they will surely help him if u have any more problems please contact me

All the best

Ask Sky xxxxx

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Ok. I'm a Christian, but I do not know the Bible cover to cover like some people do. I have 3 friends, who I love dearly, but they are just totally lost and I really want to save them but I have no clue as of how to do that. Like.. Ok.. here's their stories.

Billy 16-years-old: He's a terrible alcoholic who parties all the time and sometimes gets high but he is surely damned to hell because he has committed sexual immortality several times. He is one of those people who doesnt care about the Bible or God and makes jokes about religion at times. So I do not know how to talk to the guy.

Jessica 15-years-old: She's like my best friend but she's like never been to church. I've invited her before several times, but she always comes up with a reason not to go. And here lately we've lost friendship & she has lost herself to starting to drink because of peer pressure and she's became sexually active, so to say. And she's similiar to Billy, doesnt care.

Brittany 15-years-old: She's bisexual and she parties like every weekend and gets soo drunk & she cusses all the time but everytime I mention church or something of the sort, she cracks a joke & says something like, "Gosh you're such a goodie-goodie". And even though she's never had sex, she's did other stuff with girls and guys, so. I really want to help her & even though she goes to church often, she doesnt act Christian-like at all.

I really care for these people because they are like 3 of my best friends, but I have no clue has to how to help them. They are sooo young and if they were to die tomorrow or even today, they would go straight to hell & I really want to share my eternity with them in Heaven. So anyone with any advice, please help.

Okay then this one is a bit of a mess but heres what i think

Billy : Billy is a drunk and he needs to be told that he is afterall i know that the truth whilst it may hurt is the best policy, so he makes fun of your chosen religion i think that if you are to stop him doing this show him that people care and his alcoholic behaviour could be triggered to a secret he holds or a problem he has come across or even pressure and relief is alcohol to him...

Jessica:
not many teens will aprove of god but still she has shown that she doesn't want to come to church so what you do is you don't ask her again as for the drink you need to get in touch with Alcoholic Anonymous meetings and see if you can arrange a meeting for her to stop drinking, make her see you care ...

Brittany:
She may not be religious and feel like god has abandoned her so don't force her to be religious she may take the piss sometimes but she does care for you dep down and as for her sexuality thats her choice and maybe she will come around and see what a great friend you are and hopefully so will billy and jessica

wish you all the best

AskSky...

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I think my two best friends are bullying me! They act like my best friend when its just one of them indivally. but when they're both together with me they call me names and then say its a joke and take the piss otta me.
plz help
Madi
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i know exactly what you mean i had a row with my best mate over that because he started to do that and then he changed like the others and hasn't been the same since but the mistake i made was not telling him i was annoyed and it was wrong and not telling him that it stops or i stop hanging out with him because my friendship ended bad so i advise you to tell them how you feel.. i wish you all the luck x AskSky

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ok.. i dont know much about sex and stuff so i was wondering if u can tell me what masturbation is and what oral sex is.. ok thanks..

masturbation is Manual or other non-penetrative (penile) stimulation of oneself or a partner for sexual pleasure

Oral sex consists of all those sexual activities that involve the use of the mouth, tongue, etc., to stimulate the sex organs

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I am a 15 year old girl in the 10th grade. i have been under alot of stress. I am pregnant, My parents are getting a divorce, My mom and i are moving out into an apartment, My boyfriend and i have started to argue you alot. Althoug it got better for a couple weeks until this weekend. Also i lost alot of friends because i was pregnant. i had to put up with alot of people saying rude things. or that i better not walk the streets or ill get shot etc. i started cutting to decrease the stress and let my problems just be released i find that it helps but i need to stop. please help me! tell me how to stop.

well your mom needs to know how you feel and you need to find a friend that has been there for you all this time and if you think that you haven't got a friend like this then your wrong look at your friends using your senses not just your eyes and i know it may be hard to trust a friend but maybe you need to let a litle bit of trust out to recive a little bit of love it's always hard to belive that were alone and feel alone but we will always have someone watching over us you just need to find that person i'm sure everything will be okay and i hope your baby is healthy and you enjoy having a child.. all the best Sky xx

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