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Bisexuality
Okay, I'm scared to tell my mom... I think I might be bisexual.I'm afraid to tell anyone but my one close friend. So what should I do because I know it's a sin. Help!?!?!?
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Bisexuality is not a sin...
Many people belive that dating there own gender was wrong but that was in the 1930's lol! times have changed and now it's okay to be that way we no longer live in a reality where Gay Lesbian or Bisexual is a 'sin'
Tell your mom if you think that she can handle the facts because it will play on your mind and it will just eat away at you all the time..
You have nothing to be ashamed of, you have done nothing wrong, you were born this way and it's you as a person don't deny what makes you you! own it and enjoy it because at the end of the day the only oppinion that matters is that of our own heart so look deep take a breath and tell her what you feel....
All the best
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It's not a sin. Love is never wrong!! I know it's a touchy subject, but it's also a good way to see who will stand by you no matter the choices you make.
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almost everyone thinks they're bisexual at one point or another. chance are you're not. girls are attracted to girls but that doesn't actually mean they're bi. could you honestly picture yourself having sex with another girl?
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Firstly, you need to find out if you actually are bisexual.
Many teens experience this phase and alot of the time, it turns out they aren't bisexual at all. Just a bit curious.
Can you see yourself having a relationship with a woman or a man?
You might think people of the same sex are pretty, or hot, or admire their body, but this doesn't mean you'd want to be in a relationship with this person, or be intimate.
For now, I wouldn't tell anyone until you are 100% sure.
and if the answer to the above question is yes, you can see yourself having a relationship with someone of the same sex, then try it out first.
If it's for you, then fair enough. and then it's the time to tell people if that's what you want.
If it does turn out you are bisexual, the best way is to just tell your mum, that is if you want her to know.
If you have a significant other at the time who's the same sex, invite that person over and tell your mum you're dating.
Or if your mum has a talk with you about dating (which she probably will!) tell her you might be bi then.
Don't worry about her not accepting you. It could come as a shock at first.
But she should understand. and then you will wonder what you were scared of.
Think this through carefully.
and good luck with who you are, :)
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You might not be bi sexual, you havnt even tried anything with someone as the same sex as you so you can't be sure yet so you dont need to say anything untill you are 100% sure.
When we are gowing up, we have mixed feeling about our emotions and sexuality.
I know i've done it, and millions of other people, you see a girl and think she's really pretty, then think "oh my god, do i fancy her?".
I think at the moment you are just curious, Bi Curious if you want to label it, it doesn't mean you are bi sexual or gay, it means you are growing up, experiencing new feelings and you aren't sure what they are.
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lay low for a while. don't tell anyone until you absolutely know you're bisexual for sure. only hint it if you're around people you've just met and don't think you'll see afterwards. see how interacting feels in that zone and then proceed with caution. my biggest suggestion is not telling your parents until you're out of your home. it will be a lot easier that way.
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Hey, I'm Sasha. I think that you should just be as honest as you can with everyone. I mean, its not like you knew you were going to be this way right? If your parents and friends love you as much as they say they do then they should accept your sexuality just like you do.
Love,
Sasha:]
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