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Are they bullying me?
I think my two best friends are bullying me! They act like my best friend when its just one of them indivally. but when they're both together with me they call me names and then say its a joke and take the piss otta me.
plz help
Madi
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i know exactly what you mean i had a row with my best mate over that because he started to do that and then he changed like the others and hasn't been the same since but the mistake i made was not telling him i was annoyed and it was wrong and not telling him that it stops or i stop hanging out with him because my friendship ended bad so i advise you to tell them how you feel.. i wish you all the luck x AskSky
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I know exactly how you feel. Both of my friends used to do that. Trust me...it happens to everyone. Just tell them that you don't like it when they do that. If they don't take you seriously, then tell them you're going to leave if they don't stop.
When this happened to me, they tried to stop, but later I realized that it was really just one of my friends and that I was just blaming the other one for something that she didn't do. So I'm not friends with the girl that was being bratty anymore, because that is just her personality, and I don't like it.
So if that is happening to you, then consider that it just might be one of them acting up when there's more than one person around her. Or maybe you do need to find other friends. If you don't have fun when you're around them, then it isn't worth it. They are wasting your time if they won't be nice.
Always remember: Good comes out before evil.
Hope I helped!
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they probably do it behind your back too...:/
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I know exactly how you feel..sometimes when my 2 firneds are together they drive me crazy..and I used to take it but one day I got really mad and told them how I felt. If they're good friends they'll understand and stop doing it, but if they continue then you'll know that they aren't true friends. Just tell them how you feel and dont say it nicely...be liek I'm sick and tired of you guys treating me like crap and always ganging up on me....be straight forward. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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sounds like there kinda bullying you emotionally by calling you names... i say you should probably get out of that friendship because it's just goign to stress you out.. if they were true friends they wouldn't call you names to make you upset. that's not what a true friend would do
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have you told them that you don't like it?
my friend and i often tease our other friend, but we've asked about ten times, if she's ok with our jokes and that she knows we're just kidding. and whenever she seems upset, we tend to back off.
so perhaps they don't know that you don't think the jokes are funny. so the reason they act like your best friend individually, means they still think of you as a friend, not as someone to bully on. If you really feel like it's bullying, then simply say "couldja stop?" and that should do the trick. at least that would do the trick for me and my friend
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If they are going to act that way toward you, you don't need them as friends anyway. They aren't being true friends. Thats really childish for them to do that and they need to learn to grow up.
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ha this girl does the same thing to me but I tell her if she was really my friend she would do that and she stopped. If that doesnt work then they are not ur true friends.
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