so yeah...the guy i like has a gf but he likes me back too..
Question Posted Sunday August 27 2006, 1:54 pm
The guy I like has a girlfriend and Im friends with her but i really really like him alot and i wanna go out with him but i know there prolly not gonna break up for a LONG time if they even do at all. But heres the thing. HE LIKES ME BACK. I just really dont know what to do. And i like this other guy and hes single but I dont know if he likes me back or not bcuz im scared to ask him and have him say no then ill get embarrassed if he tells all his friends. what should i dooo??
aDvIce2Ux0 answered Sunday August 27 2006, 6:46 pm: well.. even if they do break up. it might hurt your friend if you go out with her old boyfriend.. i think you should tlk 2 the other guy you like and see if he likes you back.. and take it from there.. hope i helped! =] [ aDvIce2Ux0's advice column | Ask aDvIce2Ux0 A Question ]
xsweet_pea_10 answered Sunday August 27 2006, 5:50 pm: Your just going to have to wait .. Fined another guy because if you wait for him forever you might miss a guy that could be perfect for you.. stay single if you want so your not taken when or if he does break up with this other girl but still firlt and try to find a different guy chances are you will find another real soon cuz theres millions of guys out there.. you dont want to make him break up with his girlfriend though because just think how you would feel if ur bf broke up with you for another girl! You can wait for him but dont wait forever try to move on!!
MelLeDisko answered Sunday August 27 2006, 3:20 pm: Well, I wouldn't make any attempts for the guy with the girlfriend until they are broken up. Unless you want to be known as some "boyfriend stealer" by your friend. And I'm not sure if dating him would be such a good idea if they ever DID break up, if he can like other girls behind his girlfriends back and tell them, whose to say he won't tell other girls he likes THEM while he's dating YOU? I'd just be careful of that. And with the guy that's single, I'd take a chance. Maybe try getting a friend to ask around and see if he likes anybody at the moment and who it is. Just try talking to him alot more and mix some flirting into it, and see if he flirts back. Even though you're afraid to ask him, what's the worst that can happen? You NOT ask, and not date him. OR.. you ASK, he says no, and you not date him but you at least know what would've happened. And you never know, he could say yes. I don't know how well you know him, but if you don't talk to him that much, start talking to him more. Show you have interest in him by asking questions about him and what he likes to do and everything. And like I said, mix a little flirting in there. I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
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