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thank you so much
thanks so much for your advice.
like i said, i never really talk about this with anyone. sometimes i wonder if what you said is right, if im just her door mat? but i hate to think that, because above all we are friends like you wouldnt believe.
we didnt talk for 2 years, and i lived my life and i did the things you said i should do. but in the end , i just fell more and more in love with her. even without wanting to, all i did eas to think of her (and still do). il probaly will end up going crazy.
since the i realize that i was fallin for her, my mind told me "no, it can not be" but my heart tells me something else. i swear , i had never experience such pain and love at the same time.i never knew that u could actually feel heartbroken , or a warm feeling in your heart whenever you think of someone. i dont even know what to do anymore, im not thinking of her on purpose, its just that she is in my heart and in my mind all the time.
but what you say its true, and life is too short. hopefully finally talkin about this, will help me let go.
thank you
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Talking about it does help somewhat...I felt the pain and love at the same time for one person. Even if he was a dork with the worst hair cut and braces I still luved his perssonality and the fact that he could make me laugh. But now that he's in a band and skates a lot, girls are drooling over him for what he does and not who he is...I mean most of these girls never heard or touched a CD called KISS & such bands. And then over time I realized that my friendship is something that these girls can never have because once they go out with him, that's about it. The end of relationship, the end of chance to be friends. These girls can have as many boyfriends as they want and this guy can go out with as many girls but that won't effect the friendship that we have..that people really want in their lives.
Think of your friendship with this girl that way too. If you move onto being her boyfriend, the friendship that is so valuable will be broken. Gone. And then what will happen if you guys break up? You have something with this girl that NO guy can EVER have. Treasure that instead of feeling pain =|
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