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i hate his guts!!
age:13
gender:female
school is starting for me tomorrow and i need some advice on how to take on people who make fun of me.the school i go to is 7-12 graders combined in one school.and theres one perticular guy i can't stand.his name is nick and i used to have a crush on him.but then i found out he was a real jerk.now he makes fun of me saying i wouldn't date you in a million years.and when he would pass me he would make a barfing noise.and he makes fun of me and my bf cause we're such an odd couple.people say he's a freak and everything.he makes very rude remarks about us.and i can't just ignore it cause i've done that before and he doesn't stop.and i want to tell him off but i don't know how.my sister has stuck up for me for years but now i can barely see her so i have to face him alone.what do i do?
sorry this is long.
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He's probably jealous he let you go. Just ignore him for the time being. If he comes up to you in person or something or makes remarks or starts a rumor about you. Tell him to fuck off. Or tell him "what do you have against me, you fucking manwhore!" one of my class mates did it last year and that guy was the laughing stock of the whole school. It was hilarious.
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He's just a asshole who is probally jealous or something.Just ignore him when he walks by and pretend you did not even see or hear him.If he comes up to you and says a rude coment tell him to shove it up his ass because you dont care.
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Alright, in High School you're always going to come in contact with some jerk-offs now and again. Personally, when someone makes fun of me...I laugh along with them and walk on by as if I was making the joke myself. Also, the whole two wrongs dont make a right thing is such bullshit. Make fun of him back as much as you want. If he wont stop, then you'll start. Otherwise, I say just ignore the fact that he exists. I'd say it's actually flattering that he puts that much effort into making you miserable...he must think about you alot in order to come up with that shit.
hope this helped,
Brittany.
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Hmmm.. Immature much? He sounds like a biggg jerk. What you should try to do is do NOT show that you're irritated, mad, or upset. If you show that he'll probably think he's winning and he'll keep bugging you because he thinks its funny. But if you show that you don't care he'll give up and probably stop bugging you. Just ignore him... he's a jerkk&very immature may i add. :]
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Gah! I hate people like that.
He sounds like a real asshole. Making barfing noise? Pssh. How immature.
The next time he says something rude, just say something smart in return. When he makes fun of you and your boyfriend, just say coolly "Oh, plase. You're just jealous because no girls like you." Or something like that. Or when he's making barfing noises, just tell your boyfriend loudly, "don't mind him. He's just a little boy." Try to shrink Nick down so that he feels like a 6-year-old.
Whatever you do, DON'T SHOW THAT YOU'RE HURT. It will just make the malicious boy more gleeful. He'll feel like he's conquered you...and that's the last thing you want.
And if you stand up for yourself and piss him off in return (like the remarks I mentioned), he WILL back off eventually.
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i would fight back like when he makes a barfing noise stick his finger back in his mouth so that he does throw up or take the detention and punch him in the face or start a rumor who cares if you get him back its all good
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Well, that's what guys sometimes do whenever they have a crush on you. They make fun of you and tease you and they'd especially do it to your boyfriend, but don't go assuming that just yet. He could also just be a gigantic jerk. The next time he does it, I would just be like,"What's your problem? Am I really that important to you that you feel the need to make all these stupid remarks to me and my boyfriend every single day? If you wouldn't 'date me in a million years' that obviously shows you don't like me, so stop making remarks about me, stop looking at me, just leave me alone." And just walk away. If the remarks still continue, I would suggest taking it up with the principal or guidance counselor or someone and have them talk to Nick. This Nick kid sounds really immature, and I hope it all stops, and I hope I helped. <3
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Oooh Thats a tough one. Well Im 13 also and I have been in one of those situations. You tried ignoring him but that doesn't work so here's what I sujest you do: Maybe He has a crush on you and thats what most guys do to show you that they care about you, or tell him straight in the face that why are you doing all these horrible things to me and if you really care about me then please stop it so we can get on with are lives. If things don't work then I recommend you
going to your principle, sister, or your parents to put a stop to this before it gets out of hand.
Hope I could help.
Sophia
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