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break up
Well I started dating this guy and we've only been dating 4 like 2 weeks but we talk less now than we did b4 we started going out and I hardly ever see him..and then theres this other guy I like and talk 2 like everyday and I see him more than my bf so I'm thinking about dumping the first guy 4 the 2nd one...but how do I let him down easy?? or should I just stay with him and see what happens??? Thanks!
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oh wow i've been in this like 2 weeks ago i went to the other guyy but i found out that the guy that i dumped was the guy that was really for me and it was too late so then i was stuck with nothing so i sujes you stay with him and see what happens for about 2-3 days try getting close to your bf and see if you guys still feel the same but if you guys don't and feels like you guys fading then go with the other guy! hope that helps =)
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Personally, I would wait a bit and try to make things work out...I mean...it could turn into something really nice and unexpected. Talk to him about it, and make an effort to see eachother more often. Maybe if you see eachother, you'll get to know eachother more and want to stay in a relationship.
I hope this helped a bit,
Brittany.
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I would give the first guy a second shot. I mean, it's only been two weeks. You really can't determine if a relatioship can work out in two weeks, it's new. Just talk to him and explain how you guys rarely talk and hang out anymore and you miss him and everything, and then try to make plans to hang out soon. If he doesn't even really put out an effort to do anything to talk to you or hang out with you, then I suggest dumping him cause it sounds like his interest is either lost, or he's just rude. So, if you DO plan to dump him, just be like "Look, _____, I know we've only been dating for a few weeks or so now and everything, but we hardly talk anymore or ANYTHING. And I tried talking to you about it and everything, but it doesn't seem to be working. I'm sorry, but I really can't date someone I never talk to or see. I hope we can remain really good friends though." [ or something like that ] He might be mad for awhile, but hopefully after he calms and gets over it, he'll want to keep a friendship with you. I hope I helped. <3
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Well really the choice is yours yes i no this is ADVICEnators but you need to really decide what is best!
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Well... Tell him that you need to spend more time with each other so our relationship can work. If you still can't manage spending time fore him then break up with him and say you want to be friends and go on for the secound guy.
Sophia
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Well, it's only been 2 weeks. I would give it a little bit more time before you assume that it's not going to work out for either of you. If it doesn't work out, then break up with him, & go for the second guy. When you do it, just tell him that you think you'd be better off friends, and that things are working out as well as you'd thought.
♥TiNA
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well I think you should go with the second guy because at least you guys see each other. Its better seeing someone then not seeing them. You should say to him that we dont spend a lot of time together and that I think we should start seeing other people. That is what I would do and say about it.
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If you arent happy with your current boyfriend, you shouldnt be with him.
If this other guy makes you more happy you should see what happens if you go out with him.
You've only been dating for two weeks, so it should be easier for him to let go.
Just talk to him and tell him how you feel like you are drifting apart. I wouldnt tell him about the other guy though.
Hope this helps.
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