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Why has she changed so much?
i am 15/M
One of my best mates told me she loves me, and i was cool with that, i didn't panic, because it happens to me alot but i did not want to lose her as a friend. Anyhow, now she's changed alot.
Before she was really nice and friendly and always had time for other people. Now she's become this mean bitch who takes the piss out of people and is quite cruel. She's become so self-centred.
I want to tell heri don't want to know her anymore...but she'll ask why not.
Should i tell her the truth ? or just cut her off ?
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well i cant really give any advice but i can give some consolation. ive been through the EXACT sane thing lately. and if it helps me and the girl are getting to a be better friends little by little. i think ur girl will get over it.
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This exact thing has happened to me recently and I am very suprised that I found this. The next time that she says something mean&cruel TO YOU, tell her (dismissivly) that she is mean, and tell her to go away. This should put her in place and make her think of how she acted and if she still likes you, she should at least care that you got angry at her. Talk to her about it a little bit later and if it results in a fight, go with the flow, she'll most likely be over it soon and when you become friends again, you will notice her being alot nicer to you.
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look i know it is hard to break somebody feelings but if you think she is self-centered just tell her from your heart and she will understand she prollay ask you can you and her still be friends but if you do believe in 2nd chance you will settle you difference together.
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well telling her that you dont want to know about her anymore isnt the way to go because its just lowering down to her level ...and her seeming self centered might make it hard for you to tell her what you think of the new her. but if she really does like you she'll listen to what you have to say..try talking to her and if that dont work then try letting her know she might loose you as a friend.
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I think you should tell her the truth because if she really was this friendly back then, then she'll understand how you feel and probably go back to the way she was. I think she's becoming a little more self centered because she's trying to get you to notice her TRUST me Im a girl and I know what she's trying to do. She's trying to act like one of those popular drama queens so you'll notice her and start asking her out! But when you tell her the truth don''t say stop acting like that your such a bitch! You have to take it more calmly and give her some compliments because if you tell her the flat truth she'll get her feelings hurt by the person she
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secret boy is so wrong dont listen to him..ok ..dont tell her the FLAT out truth she will tottaly get hurt i know that because im a girl it happend to me before and if you tell her the flat out truth she will see you as a diffrent guy if you just say it flat out that she is a bitch..it will hurt i swear..try telling her nicely i think you are more concentrated on yourself and i think you changed..nicely and she will understand and tell her how she was before but nicely and she will say ok and try to improve it dont tell her she is a bitch or anything mean because she wont see you the same anymore trust me..all you will get back is u changed to because you would have never talked to me like this before so please just trust me on this one please:)
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Just tell her the flat-out truth. That will make her realize that its true and maybe she might even stop being like that. The truth is the best thing to do, it won't hurt to tell her. I hope I helped.
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