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I am desperate! I can't figure out guys!
So i am a freshman in high school and of course there is gunna be drama!! Well there are a few guys that I like and am not sure if they feel the same way!! I can tell that they like to hang around me but the problem is i can't tell if they want to hang out outside of school as more than friends!! For example, this one guy in my english and biology class (guy1) he is athletic but he seems to flirt with me all the time and tease me! See i am on the Varsity drill team which is a big deal for a freshman to make and he always puts on my cowboy hat that we have to wear as part of our uniform for drill team. He does it just as a joke and he will always make me chase him around to get it which i think is sooo cute. But anyways he talks to me a lot in class but we never see eachother outside of class what should I do?
Then There is (guy#2)he is in my frech class and he is new to the school! I figured out he lives in my neighborhood and he also teases me about drill team. He even made up this hilarious dance and song about it. He isn't very hott but i think he is really nice. so i dont know what to do about him either.
Okay now another guy which is kind of mysterious (guy #3)but he is so cute. He is also in my english class and we have actually never talked alone but still he is so much fun to look at. That is basically all about he besides he is hott and I have caught him looking at me across the room because our desks are turned into eachother. Then there is my ex-boyfriend who is kind of a jerk and I happen to just run into him in the halls all the time at school and it is so annoying. Somethimes i think i still like him but it is hard to tell because i am so mad at him. I would rather just forget about him and pertend he didn't exist but everytime i see him he gives me a high five for waves at me! ugh he is so immature too! I dont see how i ever like him! Well that is about it I would really like some advice on what I should do or what guys u think like me or what things i should do so they know that I like them too! This was long but for ever helps I really appreciate it I have been at lost for awhile for what I should do about the situation. Guys r so confusing!! Thanks!
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AAAh i see, very interesting. Listen guys arn't too hard to figure out, they're mostly simple creature after one thing and one thing only, but not all ways. These teasing arn't just about likeing a person more like a test. The teaseing, the song and dance, they're more beating around the bush if you get what i mean. This mysterious fellow, is probably looking at you cause you look at him sometimes right? I'm not saying don't stare but if you are going to look, might as well talk to him am i right?
your Ex, is probably being freindly with you becuase in most relationships, when the couple break up they often still be good friends. the other two guys are either tring to be your friends or trying to get attention, it's a classic tail of tow males trying to get the female by a diffrent effection of displays. like a male peacock showings it's beautifuol feather to a female. if you get down to it we're all just animals.
Another note, it's often said that women like jerks even if they don't admit to it but most women do like jerks. Mainly becuase women believe they can change a man as anothe rform of test, then when they or if they do change the women leaves for another mate. As i said before it's all about instincts. Well hope this helps. take care now
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You are not ready for a boyfriend. And that’s ok. You have a lot going on right now and it looks like the guys are into you because you are an interesting person with a lot on your plate. You don’t have to know which guy likes you the most. You don’t even have to know which guy you like the most. At this point you are having fun with all of them. And the fact that you cant pick one of them means you are not ready for a boyfriend at this time. I don’t think it is them who cant decide. It is you. One day one of them might out shine the rest and then you will know what to do next. Right now be their friend. And enjoy what is going on and don’t focus on what might happen. As for the Ex. Maybe he is friend material and you don’t even have to think of him as a boyfriend. I think you are ready to move on from that relationship.
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Okay... It sounds like Guy # 1 is really trying to get you to notice him by doing all of these things. Guy # 2 and Guy # 3 don't give me enough information if they love you (sorry!) but I think guy # 1 really does have some feelings for you... but just to be on the safe side don't start flirting back to guy #1 because he may not share the same feelings but try to hang around him some more like go to the movies or something has friends with Guy # 2 or Guy # 3 and 1 and if the guys start to flirt with you, you know that you can wrap that puppy up and take him home!
Hoped I Help, Ayumi Hamasaki
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ok guy number one:judging by his actions..he does think you're awesome. he might like you actually he probably does.remember guys tease you because they like you..not always the case..but it is in this one.
guy number 2:rememeber looks arent everything. if he's nice and sweet then definately take that into consideration. he's seems like a fun guy to be around and beleive me you'll want more than looks in a relationship.
guy #3:hm....i think you should learn more about him.....just because he looks at you doesn't mean that he likes you...he could be thinking about something and was just focusing on something..or someone..
don't worry about your ex-boyfriend. if he's a jerk then ignore him..
finally what i'm trying to say is that you should make a pro con list.of each guy. then whoever you know the most about or has more pros than cons....then that's the person you should try and get to know a little more better.
you have a very good chance of getting someone.
good luck!!!
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